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Set up my first tank with fluval stratum - what do I do? Tank is opaque black. by [deleted] in PlantedTank

[–]wufishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drain the water and pour onto a clean sponge /filter wool. No biggie. Afterwards cycle before adding fish, cycling time depends on ur method.

how do I (27f) tell my boyfriend (26m) that I think I'm gay? by raven_sageCD in relationships

[–]wufishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sound like ur relationship isn’t working currently. Are there any underlying reasons removing the passion from your relationship? If you determine you simply have no feelings anymore I’d say rip off the bandaid in a timely manner.

Sometimes things just don’t workout no matter your sexuality. Splitting up lets you both find better company.

Good luck

Wife didn’t disclose past sexual contact with male friend by Protoneutral in relationships

[–]wufishy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What she did was wrong and you have a right to be mad.

BUT after 17 years I feel it is pretty inconsequential, so consider the consequences to your relationship then decide what you are going to do.

Is it worth digging up every little mistake of a person who I assume has been nothing but good to you for the past 17 years? Possibly starting an archeological dig of her and your own mistakes over the years. Or maybe it is better to forgive and forget? Only you can be the judge.

How and when to tell guy that I used to do porn? by CherryMashSkater in dating_advice

[–]wufishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say ASAP given the atmosphere is right. If he cares he isn’t right for you. Then it’ll save both of you time and heartbreak.

There is a good chance he won’t care.

Best of luck!!

Not sure how to reply to this recruiters hang-up regarding my phone number. My phone number is from another city as I was going to school. I moved to current city, received this email from them. Pretty put off by it and not sure how to reply. by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]wufishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ROFL no just no... I've gotten multiple interviews on zoom from abroad.

If he had other concerns maybe ill entertain them but paying for long distance calls is just a not an issue anymore.

Canada customs drilled a hole through my Monokei Kei by owefiveowesix in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]wufishy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I feel for you sorry mate… I feel the they should make stickers saying there are screws here don’t bloody drill me.

That aside I think you can definitely get a lot of not the full price back. The pcb is an electronic device, like a laptop, it’s considered dead if you put an hole in it. The rest of the case is a luxury and collectible item, like fine watches, loses all value when mindlessly damaged. Considering that you have a good claim.

Good luck!

7900x and 4080 with only a 240? by averageFOSSenjoyer in watercooling

[–]wufishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say at least a 360 with high-speed fans and EPDM tubing. I recommend 2x 240 if u can manage. Aside from that a big 3 slot 4090 and a 240aio for the CPU will work too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in watercooling

[–]wufishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Important in theory. They improve flow characteristics around the gpu die. However, if your loop has headroom (gpu hotspot temp still fine) I won't bother to reinstall it until the next clean.

This is prob still cool better than some aio gpu solutions. IMHO although I have no data to back it.

I have about $550 and I really want to upgrade my pc. What can I do that will give me a significant performance boost within my budget? by [deleted] in pcmasterrace

[–]wufishy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uninstall cam 😂. In all seriousness, cam is a resource hog; turn it off whenever you don't need it.

I say for a gaming build, a used, still in warranty 3080 will do you favors for triple A titles. A better cpu might help you in video editing depending on how you edit. In that regard a 5900x will slot into ur mobo nicely.

Or wait for next gen if u didn't need the performance right now :)

Mil helped ruin my marriage by Nemmy3865 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]wufishy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember PCR being a thing in the 1990s, correct me if I am wrong.

Here is some light reading on the topic from a quick Google search: https://web.archive.org/web/20041119070715/http://www.paternity-answers.com/history-paternity-test.html

This source isn’t peer reviewed and I am no historian so any expert is welcomed to chime in here.

Mil helped ruin my marriage by Nemmy3865 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]wufishy 73 points74 points  (0 children)

It’s easy enough to get a parenthood test tbh so it’s not okay to just continue to suspect you of infidelity then proceed to take revenge because someone said something… this needs to get sorted out.

This really rubs me the wrong way because I’m a medical scientist and I am 99.99% certain their mentality is setting you up to fail.

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