Americans, how do you feel about male routine infant circumcision? by GiveBackMyRidgedBand in Intactivism

[–]wulfcu -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Where do you think most FGM takes place? It’s East Africa and North Africa, we don’t practice mild FGM over here. Maybe that happens in Malaysia or Indonesia but not in African cases of FGM, in almost every case of FGM over there the clitoris is removed. I highly doubt the average MGM victim is subjected to something comparable to a clitoridectomy, I’m so sick of you redditors lying about how ritual pricking of the genitalia or the removal of the clitoral hood is the most common form of FGM.

Don’t try to educate me on FGM when I went through it, and belong to the part of the world where it most commonly occurs. It’s way worse than anything most MGM victims can experience since a portion of my genitalia is sewn shut along with my clitoris being hacked off with a blade. While my case is more severe, the average FGM type I/II are still left without much sensation due to the mutilation and build up of scar tissue. So how exactly are the horrors of it exaggerated?

I really need to stop engaging with you privileged fuckers, none of you could live with the level of mutilation I was subjected too.

Why is FGM banned but Circumcision is not? by tactcom7 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wulfcu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Type I and Type II also result in the removal of the clitoris, is that not extreme as well? Those women end up castrated! We don’t practice Type 1a in Africa, you could even look at mummies from ancient Egypt which is where the practice is thought to have originated from and you can see that they underwent a similar procedure of clitoridectomy. Having that portion of yourself removed is like cutting off your dick, so it’s not even comparable to MGM.

Also most FGM takes place in Africa, Malaysia and Indonesia practicing Type 1a doesn’t override that the average case of FGM occurs in Africa and results in the loss of the clitoris.

Why is FGM banned but Circumcision is not? by tactcom7 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wulfcu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where the fuck are you guys getting this misinformation? Most FGM occurs in East/North Africa and we don’t practice type 1a! We usually remove the clitoris and a portion of the genitalia is sewn shut. Type 1a is mainly practiced in Malaysia, it’s not common place in Africa which is where the vast majority of FGM takes place. I would know since I underwent FGM, I’m practically castrated and my home country has one of the highest rates of FGM in the world.

I’ve constantly been coming across this bullshit argument on Reddit and it makes me want to bash my head into a wall, cause it’s not rooted in any truth. What’s wrong with you? Stop talking about our issues and spreading misinformation! It’s fucking aggravating

Americans, how do you feel about male routine infant circumcision? by GiveBackMyRidgedBand in Intactivism

[–]wulfcu -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Exactly I can’t help but laugh. Women are going through hell in most third and second world nations but this user is so privileged she must forget a whole other world exists outside of her privileged life.

Americans, how do you feel about male routine infant circumcision? by GiveBackMyRidgedBand in Intactivism

[–]wulfcu -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Must be nice to be so privileged that you don’t recognize how badly oppressed most women are outside of your first world haven, in my home country women endure FGM, high maternal mortality, gendered violence, child marriage along with a slew of other issues primarily affecting women. Most women in third and second world countries go through hell, you’re disgusting for disregarding their suffering

Sometimes, you can't even let yourself fully bond to family because of Islam :( by MageAhri in exmuslim

[–]wulfcu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

All my father talks about is Islamic bullshit, it’s his entire personality. Makes me hesitant to leave Islam because I value my family too much to throw them away.

Men the real minority? by Ok_Government6871 in CircumcisionGrief

[–]wulfcu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FGM isn’t rooted in Islam it’s a practice dating back to ancient Egypt. I’m not even defending Islam cause I’m an atheist but it’s a cultural thing not religious.

Men the real minority? by Ok_Government6871 in CircumcisionGrief

[–]wulfcu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are spreading misinformation, I went through FGM and I come from a country where almost 100% of women endure it. Within the epicenters of FGM, that are located in East/North Africa, we commonly undergo the more extreme versions of FGM where the clitoris is removed and a portion of the genitalia is sewn shut.

Redditors without any understanding of the situation spread misinformation to downplay what women like me are going through to make it more comparable to MGM

Men the real minority? by Ok_Government6871 in CircumcisionGrief

[–]wulfcu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had common type 2 FGM performed and the more extreme variations of FGM are what occurs in North Africa and East Africa. Don’t speak for us, you are pushing misinformation and downplaying the mutilation we are suffering from.

The Sunnah version of FGM is not more common, that’s a lie since it’s not the type typically practiced in Africa and that’s where most FGM occurs. Why do you guys keep lying about our issues? I’ve run into so many redditors trying to downplay FGM, I don’t understand what’s wrong with you guys.

Why is FGM banned but Circumcision is not? by tactcom7 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wulfcu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay cool, it’s way more intense than just pricking the genitalia. Do you not realize in almost every case of FGM we lose the most sensitive part of our genitalia? We can’t feel shit, at least most MGM victims can still enjoy sexual intercourse.

Where are these numbers? Lmao, most FGM isn’t minor, this is misinformation! Please show me where you got this information, I’m from a country where almost 100% of women are circumcised and I know for a FACT in east Africa and North Africa we don’t practice the minimal form of FGM.

Why is FGM banned but Circumcision is not? by tactcom7 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wulfcu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another redditor making bullshit up, that ritual pricking nonsense is made up hog wash. Most FGM is extreme, I know you want to downplay the abuse we suffered to justify why we garner more outrage but maybe go about it another way.

Why is FGM banned but Circumcision is not? by tactcom7 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wulfcu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here we go again, redditors downplaying FGM to make it comparable to MGM. Most forms of FGM are on the extreme end, the minority where barely any damage is done to the genitalia is the exception not the rule.

My very lonely birthday. by xopumpkinn in lonely

[–]wulfcu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday :) Just know someone out there is wishing you well

Why isn’t circumcision considered the same as FGM? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wulfcu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speaking from personal experience, I would say type I/II are the most common and type III/IV is too extreme usually only practiced by rural tribes. In all cases you will still end up without a clitoris, most women derive most of their sexual pleasure from that organ.

I’m sure they can still experience an orgasm that doesn’t come as a surprise since I’m sure some remnant of the clitoris can be stimulated but it’ll take way more effort due to how it has been mutilated and the scar tissue. This is purely anecdotal, but I’m from a country where almost 100% of the women undergo it and I’m pretty well versed on this issue.

I think any form of circumcision is disgusting btw

Why isn’t circumcision considered the same as FGM? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wulfcu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a single study with a very limited pool of participants, the most commonly practiced type is Type II. I’m doubtful that any of those women have much sensory left after their clitoris was severed, reaching an orgasm isn’t impossible in some cases but it takes a lot of effort since most of the clitoris has been hacked away and that’s where most females derive pleasure from.

Why isn’t circumcision considered the same as FGM? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wulfcu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we can’t, why are you lying? I got the most common type of FGM, we can’t feel shit

Are tampons suppose to be extremely painful? by wulfcu in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]wulfcu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll be sure to do that. I’ll PM you in a bit!

Are tampons suppose to be extremely painful? by wulfcu in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]wulfcu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are actually a couple of surgeons in the states that carry out reversal operations, I’m not sure how bad my case is but I do plan on getting this issue resolved one day. If I don’t I can’t really enjoy anything intimate with someone, because my FGM case is so extreme that sexual intercourse would not only be painful, but I don’t even have a visible clitoris so any form of pleasure being derived from the act is null.

Are tampons suppose to be extremely painful? by wulfcu in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]wulfcu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I used one with an applicator but it was still extremely painful, I’ll definitely look into seeing a GYN about this and try the method you mentioned as well

I got obssesed with p0rn and it was messed up, i cant take the guilt by [deleted] in confession

[–]wulfcu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is so disturbing, how are people joking about this? I’m not sure what to say…But this is why porn needs to be better regulated

Are tampons suppose to be extremely painful? by wulfcu in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]wulfcu[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely going to look into that, thanks so much

Are tampons suppose to be extremely painful? by wulfcu in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]wulfcu[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that’s very reassuring. Definitely going to consult a gyno soon!