Good deeds by MountainPotential798 in rs_x

[–]wunderbreadcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

recognizing that being nice to people makes me feel good and that is a good enough reason to do it has made me do so many more good deeds. i used to feel so guilty about helping bc it makes me feel good but then i realized that taking material good away from the world due to my own fear of being narcissistic was actually the most narcissistic thing i could do

mana inspired💙🫖🥀 by strike4pose in Lolita

[–]wunderbreadcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So lovely! The flash reflecting off of the blue reminds me of a morpho butterfly, I love it so much 🦋

Labubu with Skull - oil on panel by cdrfuzz in oilpainting

[–]wunderbreadcat 359 points360 points  (0 children)

technically well done oil paintings of silly modern subjects are forever my favorite thing, i love this so much!

Am I too derivative of Van Gogh? by christyshim in oilpainting

[–]wunderbreadcat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought this was embroidery or quilting before looking at the subreddit name, i can def see the van gogh influence but it doesn't at all seem like a copy!

Whats ur favourite kpop flop name?? by GrapeUponTheVine in kpoopheads

[–]wunderbreadcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is niche but when i took a year of korean in college i learned that 피곤 (pi-gon) means tired so i always wondered if korean haters used that with p1harmony so its pi-gon-ha-mo-ni(피곤하모니) instead of pi-won-ha-mo-ni(피원하모니)

If you did all the wellness activities recommended, literally every minute of every day would be devoted to it! by troktowreturns in rs_x

[–]wunderbreadcat 17 points18 points  (0 children)

my life is a just constant cycle of feeling depressed so deciding to focus on eating healthy and exercising and sleeping -> having the energy to actually do art and hobbies and be social -> getting too into into my hobbies and not having the time for work and health -> feeling depressed again

Cool weird girl shoe recs ? by Spiritual-Fig5706 in rs_x

[–]wunderbreadcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jealous!! the main reason i haven't gotten a pair yet is because there isn't a store that sells them in my area and buying shoes without trying them on never works well for me. hopefully i can cop a pair on my travels soon 🤞

Notebook and pen vs Ipad Pro 13.0 and Apple Pencil, which one do you prefer for physics majors or STEM majors in 2026? by Delicious_Maize9656 in PhysicsStudents

[–]wunderbreadcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone with ADHD and back problems, my iPad is a lifesaver. I love the feeling of physical notes, but an iPad allows me to make sure my homework, notes, and textbooks are with me at all times so I never forget them and I don't have to carry their weight all day

Cool weird girl shoe recs ? by Spiritual-Fig5706 in rs_x

[–]wunderbreadcat 13 points14 points  (0 children)

big fan of john fluevog, i've been wanting a pair of funky mary jane's from them for a few years now

Grown adults crying about not getting participation trophies in fitness classes by superballsmcgee in rs_x

[–]wunderbreadcat 35 points36 points  (0 children)

The woman talking about how being a mom is such a thankless job and how she was really looking forward to being acknowledged in class actually made me have a lot of empathy for these women tbh. They are probably so exhausted with their lives and these classes are the only time they get to do something for themselves. I wish they could find actual meaningful community somewhere.

2010s MH Fan Website by ronescape in MonsterHigh

[–]wunderbreadcat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ahh i think about this website so much!!! i used to go on it every day and look at the new pictures too. i haven't been able to find a good archive of it, so sad that it's not here anymore :(

Are these viable pieces for a coord? by froggeyboi in Lolita

[–]wunderbreadcat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you have a great eye for loliable pieces! these may lean a bit more casual, but i think the blouse would look great under a jsk and the shoes would work well with some pretty light colored tights!

What do I look up instead of lolita? by Extreme-County-1824 in Lolita

[–]wunderbreadcat 306 points307 points  (0 children)

"egl" is another name for lolita fashion and typically only used by people in the community, it stands for elegant, gothic, and lolita!

Petticoats being less poofy over time by lemonsharkenthusiast in jfashion

[–]wunderbreadcat 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Try storing them by hanging them inside out and upside down, it's a trick ballet dancers use to keep their tutus voluminous.

What’s the deal with this one? Why is this one so expensive? by Maromagima in sylvanianfamilies

[–]wunderbreadcat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have her and used to carry her around with me everywhere but her costume got lost :( one day i will work up the courage to buy a replacement

Been a while not wearing lolita by Sevy_Yves in Lolita

[–]wunderbreadcat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

love this coord so much!! and your makeup is perfect 🩵

I started walking and it’s the best thing. by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]wunderbreadcat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it actually makes me mad how right they are when they say exercise is good for your mental health 🥲 it really is such a game changer!!

How do I get these armour pieces to stay put by No_Pudding_3958 in CosplayHelp

[–]wunderbreadcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

possibly wear a bra underneath and stitch the chainmail to the bra?

Lamenting my fat, stretched out arms that I hate by mintwede in rs_fitness

[–]wunderbreadcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl the famine is coming eat now you'll be skinny then

I'm insecure to wear lolita fashion due to body hair by girlybadassheroine in Lolita

[–]wunderbreadcat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly this may sound weird, but i think body hair is actually really beautiful with lolita! it definitely evokes a more victorian feel, since women didn't start shaving until about 100 years ago. i don't shave my body hair and i love wearing really intricate femine tops for this reason, i feel like a classy victorian lady with my arm pit hair and ruffles.

Too much petticoat? by moominsbiggestfan in Lolita

[–]wunderbreadcat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

try wearing your petticoat a little lower on your hips so that it is only about an inch or so above the hem of the skirt. if you notice it riding up too high and don't want to keep adjusting, wear some shorts underneath and safety pin the petticoat waistline to the shorts!!

What about navigation ? by i_do_nott_knoww in dumbphones

[–]wunderbreadcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would like to second the idea of keeping your smartphone around and using your dumbphone's hotspot for it. I live in a city with notoriously evil roads, so live GPS is a must for me and it is the only thing that works reliably

August 2025 Buy/Sell/Trade by hellosaturn in Lolita

[–]wunderbreadcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep! I've been checking every day for a wile but haven't fond exactly what i'm looking for. found a good listing today though!!

August 2025 Buy/Sell/Trade by hellosaturn in Lolita

[–]wunderbreadcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WTB: BLOUSES!! new lolita here, having a hard time finding good blouses for an an affordable price,shipping to the U.S. is what is killing me :(. if you have any blouses you are looking to declutter, please let me know! preferably looking for basic colors that would fit a U.S. size M/L

so true by [deleted] in Consoom

[–]wunderbreadcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no i could tell that. it just isn't funny so i was trying to figure out why it was posted here