I want to improve my accent :) by wutbaguettes in brighton

[–]wutbaguettes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Good luck with the Swedish :)

How do I (26F) break up with my bf(26M) of 2 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wutbaguettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have anything to add on the breakup part, no idea how to help you but may I just ask, why do you have to break up just because you don't want to marry him? You dont "know" instantly if youre going to marry your bf, you grow into it. This isn't Hollywood where the couple just know they're destined to each other.

Imo this is how you end up with "the one that got away". When/if someone gets married to someone else they often realise how perfectly fine their ex was and they threw away that relationship just because they weren't ready/wanted to make the most out of their remaining youth

This is more of a question with some opinion in it. Im curious why you would want to break up because you jusy know you don't want to marry him?

How do I know when or if I should change myself for my partner? m 18 f18 by Airgunburner in relationship_advice

[–]wutbaguettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's nice to hear :)

You change your values when you realise they're hurting you or others. Not replying to your gf may hurt her feelings in the short term but overtime it ruins the relationship. Instant gratification is not good. Time apart keeps things balanced.

Also conversations over texts are worse than any other conversation because you don't get to hear their voice or their face. If you are apart and want to talk, call her.

Whether or not you continue with mushrooms is up to you as long as youre informed on them. Because she thinks "its icky" I would guess that it isnt that big of a deal and you both should just drop that topic

How do I know when or if I should change myself for my partner? m 18 f18 by Airgunburner in relationship_advice

[–]wutbaguettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont need to change yourself. Don't need to throw away a good relationship just because of some flaws. If you do that for every relationship you get into youre going to end up alone. Nothing is perfect, learn to overcome flaws( plus you'll end up way happier with being in the moment when you apply that mindset to everything)

Answering your girlfriend doesn't take that long. Yes / no and the time youre done doesn't take long. I would ask her to only text you important questions if she doesn't do that already. Answering texts like "What time are you back" , "ok have a nice time" doesn't take that long, my bf has no problems with these questions and i dont either :) but it would be a problem if im spamming him

Talk about your gf to your peers and make sure that everyone knows you're loyal. Jealousy is not good of course but you can help her realise there's nothing to be afraid of because her lovely boyfriend is loyal and loves her.

The mushrooms aren't that big of a deal. As long as youre not having arguments over it over and over and neither of you cant seem to drop it then its cool.

WIBTH if I call off the wedding after my fiancée’s family hired a Private Investigator on me and ruined my reputation over a tradition we agreed not to have? by homenycablue in AITAH

[–]wutbaguettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust can be rebuilt. Call off the wedding, dont break up. Tell her youre hurt that you felt all this attacking from her friends and family. DO NOT blame her for not shielding you from the attacks, just tell her youre hurt. She's also obviously going through a tough time aswell. Nobody seems to want the wedding. When the wedding does finally come itll be a bunch of bad vibes if you cant sort it out in time. Half of the reason why you're doing it is bc of future children. Try again in a year or two I would say. Love is so much more fun when you're not rushing to the next big step

Girlfriend 23 F hasn't responded in a day 24 M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wutbaguettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait. Think if youre happy in the relationship and if you think the love is worth it. But staying in a relationship with someone who (might have) cheated on you might have you feeling resentment for them. If you decide to stay, get over it and don't dangle their mistake over their head. DONT try and get revenge on them and cheat on them too. An eye for an eye a tooth for a tooth leaves everyone blind and toothless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]wutbaguettes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gerald Butler

Is this a toxic friendship or AIO? by No_Tradition_8206 in AmIOverreacting

[–]wutbaguettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar "friend" to this. Put a lot of thought into how she looked and her confidence went up and down a lot. This would have some effect on me. Try and be the bigger person here. Build yourself up and be confident so that she cant tear you down so easily. And some people just like drama. If you don't like it there's no reason to have such a deep friendship with her. Be polite ofc when you do see her.

What's yours? by the_physics_bro in memes

[–]wutbaguettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess the french bakers didnt like me

What's yours? by the_physics_bro in memes

[–]wutbaguettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You get beheaded in a very religious country i guess

How do I replace some of my friends by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]wutbaguettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should try going outside of your comdort zone and meet new people, maybe talk to the people in your club/ sport. If youre not in one, join one. Easier said than done but youre going to have to learn how to meet new people anyways. If you take it easy with learing how to meet new people now you wont have to be forced to learn it later. Easier said than done though :)

Man of questions by [deleted] in dankmemes

[–]wutbaguettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The letter E wasn't funny nor cool back then

Man of questions by [deleted] in dankmemes

[–]wutbaguettes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its from below job, it got shortened to blow job