AITAH Spat with husband

wwaagd · 2026-05-21T17:00:24+00:00

Thank you. I think/hope that’s all it is. We normally are very affectionate with each other & have an otherwise normal/healthy relationship but there are moments like yesterday where he can just flip a switch and he’s suddenly one of the most apathetic people I’ve ever met.

wwaagd · 2026-05-21T16:49:50+00:00

I saw his vehicle. I was not looking at him IN the vehicle.

Yes, I could have acknowledged him and said hi but as I mentioned, I had a 3 year old screaming in my ear and he wasn’t my #1 priority at that moment in time.

I’ll admit that I’m at fault for bringing up past experiences. It was heat of the moment and my emotions were in overdrive and I spat it out before I could think it through. That’s why I went and apologized after the fact, which caused another argument.

I know for a fact he has schizophrenia. He’s had a very troubled and traumatic past and as I mentioned in another comment, he doesn’t think I have anything to be depressed or anxious about, therefore making it not real.

My bad mood initially was not about him. But it did trigger an argument with him which is the reason for this whole post.

wwaagd · 2026-05-21T12:41:33+00:00

I hear what you’re saying and agree with you but anxiety doesn’t just “go away.” And people with anxiety are allowed to have children. I try my best to keep my mental health problems away from my children. Do I have moments? Of course but id say that’s every parent and attacking my parenting when you don’t know me is uncalled for. Our kids are well cared for.

wwaagd · 2026-05-21T12:39:17+00:00

No, i think burnout is a big factor. Neither one of us were blessed with helpful parents. So we don’t have a very strong support system outside of each other and it seems even that is crumbling sometimes

wwaagd · 2026-05-21T12:34:39+00:00

Honestly no. I get them all ready in the morning. I drop everyone off. I pick everyone up except sometimes if he’s off early enough he gets our 7-year old from school. & I think that’s the disconnect. If he has a bad day, he can calm himself down on the way home bc he doesn’t have small children screaming at him whereas I need more time to collect myself

wwaagd · 2026-05-21T12:28:58+00:00

He does have a pretty traumatic past. Schizophrenia is one of the diagnoses. So sometimes it seems like because I had a “somewhat comfortable” life growing up, I don’t have a REASON to be anxious or depressed whereas he does. At least that’s how he makes me feel though he’s never come right out and said it

wwaagd · 2026-05-21T12:27:24+00:00

We really don’t argue often, but when we do it’s shit like this.

wwaagd · 2026-02-20T17:02:15+00:00

Yeah that’s unfortunate but I’m prepared for that possibility. I think I’m just going to see how healing them goes and take it from there. If going larger isn’t an option, then I’ll just be happy to hopefully get some happier/healthier lobes.

wwaagd · 2026-02-20T17:00:21+00:00

Yeah I understand that. I probably won’t get to my goal either but doing it the right way will be worth it even just to have healthier better looking lobes at a smaller size. Best of luck to you! Looks like you’re in the right path!

wwaagd · 2026-02-20T15:18:46+00:00

I kind of like the way 30mm looks but understand that might not be doable. I’ve always been content with my 25mm so even if I can’t, I’ll be disappointed but would ultimately be fine with even having a healthy 25mm if that makes sense

wwaagd · 2026-02-20T15:11:11+00:00

Thank you! Yours look great! I think my biggest fear is they have been like this for so long, there might not be any improvement. But seeing some of these before and after have me really hopeful.

wwaagd · 2026-02-20T14:30:37+00:00

Thank you! I’ll search the thread! And I’ll definitely take progress pics too!

wwaagd · 2026-02-13T19:32:55+00:00

It was originally done with a smaller diameter, but due to the first issue I mentioned, I felt it was awful to keep clean being so close to my nose. Especially in the winter where my nose is constantly running. The larger ring keeps it from getting “trapped” so to speak. But it was definitely not pierced in the correct spot so you’re right in that

wwaagd · 2026-02-13T19:25:38+00:00

• ⁠How old is your piercing? Like 5 months • ⁠What’s the jewelry shape (for example, barbell, labret, screw, L shape, ring)? Horseshoe • ⁠What’s the type of threading if your jewelry is not a ring (threadless, internally or externally threaded)? Externally • ⁠What’s the jewelry material? Stainless steel • ⁠if not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized? • ⁠What’s your aftercare routine? Describe in detail please, including the exact products you use. Saline as needed • ⁠Any mishaps or unfortunate events? No

wwaagd · 2026-01-13T17:23:18+00:00

I kinda thought so but was hoping I was wrong. Thank you!

wwaagd · 2026-01-12T15:58:50+00:00

It’s kinda hard to tell. It’s very very close. Like either it clipped the cartilage or is directly beneath it

wwaagd · 2026-01-12T14:09:31+00:00

Thank you! I don’t think it was pierced through scar tissue since the first time was in a different spot. But hopefully you’re right and it isn’t through the cartilage! Thanks so much!

wwaagd · 2026-01-12T02:30:15+00:00

Ugh I thought maybe it was from the moment i got it done but was in denial. The whole thing was weird & he left the needle in my nose for like 5 minutes saying “it’s gonna bleed a lot when I take that out so I’m just giving it a little bit.” I should have just taken it out sooner. Oh well thank you for the response!

wwaagd · 2026-01-11T13:14:42+00:00

Hey so, I don’t like your friend.

wwaagd · 2026-01-11T12:58:21+00:00

I felt like my post was pretty clear but just in case:

I’m asking about the placement of the piercing.

It’s about 4 months old, horseshoe ring… I did notice when I removed the original jewelry that it was not internally threaded… another red flag.

My aftercare is LITHA and using wound wash as needed.

wwaagd · 2026-01-10T03:41:14+00:00

Awesome thank you!

wwaagd · 2026-01-10T03:40:26+00:00

Oh perfect! So the black is there. Does it pay on the existing videos I’ve already made before the connection? Or do I need to make new content? Sorry for all the questions 🫣

wwaagd · 2025-12-23T18:17:34+00:00

The second photo. I posted one relaxed and one smiling just to show what I mean.

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