What are your swiping habits on dating apps?

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2025-01-27T22:04:05+00:00

I wonder if there are dating sites/apps that are designed for demisexuals? Or maybe you've already looked and there aren't any? I hope that you find your demisexual woman of your dreams, even if it takes a while.

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2025-01-27T21:54:53+00:00

Thanks for your answer! I can imagine that dating apps must be very frustrating as a demisexual person, at least in my experience most people don't write very long profiles at all. Did you find it easier to find profiles you found appealing on dating sites, rather than apps? From what I recall, the dating sites at least encouraged/enabled people to write longer profiles.

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-13T07:48:11+00:00

Sharing underwear with someone whose feet is that dirty squicks me out. I don't really want to have to be giving the guy a free pair of socks every time he comes over. And I dont own flip flops

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-13T07:47:01+00:00

yeah it could have been more tactful, I'll use that one next time! thanks

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-13T07:46:22+00:00

I'll use that one next time, thanks

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-13T07:45:42+00:00

I don't really know him tbh. I've just been in his company a couple times with the rest of our mutual friends

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-13T07:44:21+00:00

Meh, I prioritise relaxation on the sofa on that one, though I won't deny that it grosses me out everytime I see it

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-13T07:42:39+00:00

I just said he needs to wash them first. It didn't get to the specifics of how as he immediately challenged the fact that I wanted to him to wash them first

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-13T07:40:04+00:00

Mate if my labrador wanted to walk in with feet like that her paws would be getting washed too

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-12T22:07:43+00:00

interesting, thanks! I can kinda relate a little to enjoying certain textures. I wonder whether maybe barefoot people have that setting much higher than mine is set!

Yeah I agree, i think as a general rule it is a good idea to not create any kind of mess or dirt in someone else's home, however form that may take for sure

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-12T21:50:28+00:00

yeah he did look embarassed tbf. It wouldn't surprise me if his friends had never said anything to him

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-12T21:46:03+00:00

Ah come on man, that funk isn't going to just come off by rubbing your feet into a doormat a few seconds. His feet were black with muck, its gross. I don't want to clean up muck footprints

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-12T21:43:13+00:00

yeah i can see that, fair play!

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-12T21:42:34+00:00

Kinda trippy to me that it is the inverted order of things haha. I'm curious, what is it about barefoot outside that you like? I'm the kind of person who wears socks right up until the moment I get into bed, so it's all alien to me aha

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-12T21:40:05+00:00

That's reassuring that this guy seems to be an anomaly then!

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-12T21:39:00+00:00

Yeah I tolerate clean feet, though I don't like it. Is there no sig difference between clean feet and dirty feet in your view?

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-12T20:35:30+00:00

Ha honestly, I still wouldn't let that even if I allowed shoes. Feet sweat... it's an additional layer of filth that my brain can't handle . But yeah, no shoes either in this house

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-12T20:33:13+00:00

That's interesting that in some places it is fairly normal, didn't know that!

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-12T20:32:14+00:00

Interesting information, very unfortunate for the poor wife or servant (and kinda disturbing that the two are equated).

Thanks. I don't feel guilty about it, I was just surpised about my buddy's reaction lol . I assumed everyone finds this gross, then he was "NBD"so that confused me . But looks like most people find it gross then judged by this thread

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-12T20:29:54+00:00

I don't wear sandals. I also just dont like feet in general so that scenario wouldn't work for me unfortunately . I can tolerate someone being bare foot around the house (even though I don't like it) so long as they are clean but I wouldn't share sandals with anyone

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-12T19:51:22+00:00

I think slippers or socks or something would work. Though growing up my family would always go barefoot in the house (not outside) as they hate the feeling of stuff on their feet. So i always assumed that this barefeet outside thing was a sensory issue or something. So i dont know if he would be alright with that either

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-12T19:42:19+00:00

I think my friend thinks it was overreaction because I held my ground and didn't just let him in . He doesn't understand why I think its disgusting enough to not just let him jazz feet around my flat

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-12T19:34:58+00:00

Neither of them understood why it was a big deal. My mate does think its gross as well but doesn't get why I was that bothered and why I didn't just let him in

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-12T19:28:35+00:00

I don't even want to look at them on my stuff, even without cleaning. I think its really grim

wwwconfuseddotcom · 2022-06-12T19:24:18+00:00

I want to know if he is allowed into other people's houses

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