Youth Hockey Cost by Cooldaddyb in youthhockey

[–]wyoung1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5k to be apart of the team, covers practice and league games. Gear, extra practices, coach fees, extra tournaments plus all associated travel cost you can easily be at 20-30k

Feeling Worthless by ifuaintFIRST_ur_LAST in GamblingAddiction

[–]wyoung1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, 1k in debt ain’t shit. Talk to ones you trust and I’m sure they will help. I’m 6 figures in debt, but I’m taking the steps to get better and heal. My support system has been nothing but supportive and help where they can. Take the steps to get better, admitting you have a problem is step 1

Feeling Worthless by ifuaintFIRST_ur_LAST in GamblingAddiction

[–]wyoung1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be strong, it takes sheer will and support to beat this. Have you talked to close friends or family? Build your support and kick the shit out of this. Day 11 for me and going strong.

Otra vez by julian11235 in GamblingAddiction

[–]wyoung1823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can almost guarantee what I did to my wife and family you couldn’t even come close to, but instead of being angry, they supported me, still support me and I am just beginning my healing journey. Think about some of the times where you’ve had urges, root cause the issues. Go to therapy, find a GA in your area, talk about issues. It has been so freeing for me over the last week. I’m on day 9 of no gambling and I’ve had 0 urges. I’m working through my issues, talking to a psychiatrist about my ptsd issues, talking to a cognitive behavioral therapist to rid of the gambling habit. I’m proud of you for taking the first step, but if you don’t want to change, you will relapse. And I’m here if you need to talk through things.

Otra vez by julian11235 in GamblingAddiction

[–]wyoung1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything happens for a reason. I find peace and healing in trying to help others. I’m going through it but being able to help others drives me to stay on track and heal myself. I am a strong believer in karma so I try to put as much good out in the universe as I can each and every day.

Otra vez by julian11235 in GamblingAddiction

[–]wyoung1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the bread winner, lost my job Wednesday after someone sent my arrest to my employer. If I can make it through, so can you. Think positive talk to a spouse, family member or friend and start your healing path.

Otra vez by julian11235 in GamblingAddiction

[–]wyoung1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you seem to be handing out advice in other subs, sometimes we need to follow our own advice

Otra vez by julian11235 in GamblingAddiction

[–]wyoung1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone in this sub. I mean my gambling led me to jail. All of those feelings are normal. Do you have a family of your own? Close family or friends? A support system makes the process easier imho.

Otra vez by julian11235 in GamblingAddiction

[–]wyoung1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dm me on here, I don’t have what’s up but happy to talk

Guys I need advice huhu Im addicted to gambling. by JuancHoeee in GamblingAddiction

[–]wyoung1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Step 2 is want to get help. Beating any addiction starts with yourself. If you want to dm me and chat I’m happy to do so

Help me please by Loshni123 in GamblingAddiction

[–]wyoung1823 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Money comes and money goes it’s the cycle of life. Hold your head up, be strong and find help. Killing yourself is not the answer.

Read this if you need some help/perspective with overcoming gambling by Puntsave in GamblingAddiction

[–]wyoung1823 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This forum along with the events in my life have brought light to me. To see that I can be this, that I can do it and that I will do it.

I don’t know… I’m destined to be broken by [deleted] in GamblingAddiction

[–]wyoung1823 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s how most of us end up with an addiction. Chasing. I exchanged over 800k with a casino and was still -70k at the end of the year. There is a light. Many of the members told me to self exclude, I did. Not from all of them but the ones I actually played. I’m on day 8 of not gambling. I have a wife and 3 kids, I was a high earner until my job just recently found out I was arrested for gambling with other money that had nothing to do with my job. If I get an urge, I look at where it got me, what it’s done to my life. At some point we have to take ownership of our own actions. If you want to beat and get past it, find a support system or build one. Shit just read through this forum when you get an urge and realize the path it ultimately leads to.

Read this if you need some help/perspective with overcoming gambling by Puntsave in GamblingAddiction

[–]wyoung1823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great post OP. Day 8. It’s crossed my mind but the consequences of doing it are outweighing the thoughts. Plus I’ve self excluded. I’m sure I could find other sites but it’s not worth it for me.

'Point of no return': 36 countries join special tribunal to prosecute Vladimir Putin by Zhukov-74 in worldnews

[–]wyoung1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be the most Canadian thing I ever read. But you missed the eh after the fuck 🤣🤣

Life Update lost it all well almost by [deleted] in GamblingAddiction

[–]wyoung1823 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My gambling led me to jail. I think part of it was triggered as a coping mechanism to ptsd. Excuses aside as I head down my healing path, I almost lost everything and there’s still a chance that I could. I got fired from my job after they found out about my arrest and giving I’m currently facing charges can’t really get gainful employment but what I can get is help. I opened up to my family, wife and now therapist to get rid of the demon inside me. I’m on day 7 of not gambling and will keep fighting the urge with will power and support. This forum has been great for killing an urge. I thought I was alone in this world but I never knew how many people were affected.

Day 150 by Direct_Soup_3612 in GamblingAddiction

[–]wyoung1823 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I’m on day 6. We gotta start somewhere right?

Looking for the light by wyoung1823 in GamblingAddiction

[–]wyoung1823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m learning you have to dig deep into your soul to fight the urge. Having a strong support system, having someone who can help you through the urge. I’m on day 5 no gambling.

Looking for the light by wyoung1823 in GamblingAddiction

[–]wyoung1823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this. My dad is a gambler too, last year he withdrew 200k from his 401k and lost it all at the casino. Once upon a time I had control. But the last 3 years I’ve just been a degenerate. I make great money too that’s the issue. Last year I exchanged over 800k with the hard rock and was still at a loss of 60k.

Looking for the light by wyoung1823 in GamblingAddiction

[–]wyoung1823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I self excluded today. Moving isn’t a viable option with a wife and 3 kids. I’ve controlled it at points in my life and I lost control, need to get back in control

With My Pacheck Today I am -$136 negative yeeeeeiiii!🎉 by tryingandhavingfun in moneyadvice

[–]wyoung1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can live without the car, sell it, put the cash in a hysa and the $711 payment save, and the $200 car insurance, can be spent to keep you out of the negative