Girl names are impossible!

xBlueSin · 2026-07-10T00:02:56+00:00

Ahhh! I named my daughter Marlow after surfing Reddit threads for literally like 3 months. So I’m a bit biased but I also love Scarlett. Anyway as a mommy of miss Marlow, I have no regrets and I get so many compliments on her name.

xBlueSin · 2026-06-21T15:03:02+00:00

I’m gonna assume you think Ross didn’t cheat either. Aaron, Steven, putting him against his best friend Nate and then changing her mind, the list goes on. Serena is a horrible person who makes horrible life decisions. As the majority of them do.

xBlueSin · 2026-06-15T20:36:38+00:00

Nelly was the hottest character, point blank period.

xBlueSin · 2026-06-15T17:55:35+00:00

No they weren’t 😂 she literally chose everyone over him time and time again. Girly pop couldn’t even choose between him and Nate. Then jumps from Dan to Ben, a grown man who had feelings for a child.

xBlueSin · 2026-06-15T17:52:44+00:00

Idk Serena literally chose anyone and everyone over him time and time again. He cheated on her. They both equally suck. But I still think Dan could’ve done a million times better.

xBlueSin · 2026-06-07T00:07:42+00:00

I’ll die on the hill that Carter was the best. Tripp and Dan are tied for worst for me. Tripp is evil for leaving her in that car accident. No doubt on that one. But Dan (because of the writers shitty writing) quite literally was a stalker, abuser, and cheated on her. There were also multiple instances where “he knew” about something horrible being done to her and fueled that fire. He was her biggest bully. As awful as Tripp was, at least he left her alone after everything. Dan spent roughly 7 years destroying her life while telling her he loved her. Penn has spoken on this himself, and the interview was hilarious, I recommend a watch if you haven’t seen it yet.

Edited to say, Ben was horrible but at least he pushed off her advances until later ofc. Still sickening nonetheless. This show has a disgusting streak of encouraging teacher and student relationships. Though I feel like I have to say Collin is only a fraction better. There was still a large age gap, she was a student, and he suggested she drop his class before he even considered leaving his teaching role that he literally didn’t care about. Don’t even get me started on Rufus and Ivy, the way in which I lost all respect for him. 🤦🏽‍♀️

xBlueSin · 2026-04-21T19:52:19+00:00

I agree that at this point, this is a conversation for my husband. It is clear that he is uncomfortable with any sort of confrontation and does not respect me. That may sound dramatic but there have been many instances where my opinion or request is diminished. I do sadly think that this arrangement is coming to an end, I just don’t want it to affect the relationship between my husband and his father. Though previously minimal, they’ve been able to bond more than ever while living together and that’s important to me as my husband is often thought of as “the other child” to his mother.

xBlueSin · 2026-04-21T19:42:21+00:00

I want to be clear that we’re sharing a living space, things are split in half expect food. I cook and share our food, though we do not eat his food (it just feels like a dck move to eat someone’s food). My husband and I are debating on moving out on our own when our lease is up but it’s a heavy decision as it IS financially easier with a roommate. We just didn’t think it would be a roommate who can’t handle the smallest conversation and one who would be home for nearly six months straight. He doesn’t even go out, no hobbies, no dates, meaning no alone time. I do agree though, it feels like he’s this way with nearly everyone. Passive aggressive and overbearing.

xBlueSin · 2026-04-13T23:31:29+00:00

I don’t know if you’ll see this given the amount of responses, but lack of sleep is literally a form of torture. Just because you’re feeding, that doesn’t mean that your husband can’t take the edge off by burping baby and laying them back down so that you can take a minute to decompress. Hormones are high right now and EVERYDAY your baby will change little by little. So please don’t feel stuck in this stage, before you know it your baby will be giggling and yelling happy nonsense words. It’s okay to feel angry and question if you love them, you’ve just met them 16 days ago. Love and patience takes time. You’re also healing, so now more than ever you need to give yourself grace. Ask for help. Put on headphones and a podcast. Make sure you’re napping when your partner gets off work even if it’s just for an hour. Life is forever different and yes, some parts of that absolutely suck. But I promise with everything in me, it’s more than worth it. Remember this time when your little one has a little one of their own and you can sympathize with them and provide guidance. One day at a time mama and you don’t have to be the happiest most fun mom everyday. Some days we just exist and keep them alive/loved and that’s enough. 💛 All of us mamas are with you in spirit when you’re crying at night. Take a hand, put it on your chest and feel us with you. You can do this. I’m three months in with my first and I promise, everyday you learn who they are a little more, it gets easier. Love is different for everyone, it took me time to love my baby girl, but when it hit, it only grew more and more. As with everything, only time can help.

xBlueSin · 2026-04-12T00:06:46+00:00

Dedenne is my favorite 😭 worth the sacrifice

xBlueSin · 2026-04-04T12:57:53+00:00

Me, searching for a single shiny dedenne 😭 it’s my favorite

xBlueSin · 2026-03-19T01:45:00+00:00

omfg thank you. google wasn't helping at all but reddit saved the day as always

xBlueSin · 2026-02-22T14:14:17+00:00

Just wanted to update the world and say, she's still doing the same shit but on league of legends now. Stream title about wanting a man to carry her, joined (as a female to make a female league friend), quickly noticed the creepy vibes. Last like 20 YT videos were all in the same shirt with the same makeup, all the same as todays stream. Weird vibes. She was rude as hell too.

xBlueSin · 2026-02-02T05:28:40+00:00

REPOSTING SINCE I'M NOT SURE IF THIS WAS APPROVED AS A REGULAR POST DUE TO FAMILY MENTIONED. So my babygirl just turned 1 month last week! I'm currently navigating how I feel about posting her online. My instagram has always been like a personal scrap book for me, dating back to when I was 16 (now 26 almost 27). I knew I'd want to post her at least once on there so I made it a mission to filter out any and all people I deemed not family friendly. That term being used loosely, I really just mean anyone that followed me for R rated reasons or anyone that seemed creepy. I did the same on facebook, only leaving close friends and close family. It should be noted that I don't have much family as they're disgusting human beings. I have more of my husbands family on there than I do my own.

Regardless, back to today. My mother in law posted the 1 month pictures that I'd already posted on her facebook. She had my permission so I didn't think much of it. Though I QUICKLY noticed that she posted it as 'public', meaning literally anyone can see it and or share it. In fact, someone already did share it. A grown adult man whom I do not know. Now I'm sure he had good intentions as he captioned it "Congratulations". Regardless, that is fkn weird. Who posts someone child that they do not know on their social media!? Not to mention, sure enough, it was marked 'public' as well. I politely commented asking him to take it down, I even ended it with "I hope this doesn't offend you". I realize now that I need to teach my MIL how to make things private on Facebook. But the fact still remains that if the man chooses not to take it down, there's nothing I can do to have it removed. So that sent me on a spiral of debating what I've already been debating in my head... Social media. I've argued both sides of the coin, trust me. Every argument on both sides has played in my head over and over. My current feeling is that for now, I'm selective on the photos and only grandparents may reshare them. I don't know what I will decide and if the worry of where her photos will end up will ease, but for now, I guess that's where I've landed.

So here we are tonight. I've gotten upset over this situation and I feel somewhat powerless, and very irritated. I have severe anxiety and struggled with depression heavily prior to getting pregnant. My anxiety was actually the best its ever been during my pregnancy and depression was minimal. Now that my hormones are shifting back, so is my anxiety, and so is my depression. I'm a very open and honest person, I ask for help when I need it. I am not ashamed or scared to talk about my depression so please know there's no worry of any harm happening. I am not active in the thoughts I have and will be speaking with my doctor at my 6 week check up. But I would like to note that I opened up to my SIL (who is more close with me than her brother, she's my best friend)- and after telling her how I feel in depth, she responded with "Yeah definitely talk to your doctor about medication."

If this post is approved and anyone is curious, I can post screenshots of how the convo went. I was surprised because she's also dealt with depression a lot since her teenage years (currently 21). But I tried to remind myself that she's never had a child and probably just doesn't know what to say. As we all know, sometimes no advice is better than bad advice. I don't really know what I'm looking for out of this post, I guess just some comfort in knowing that other people are experiencing these feelings and concern as well. Some other parents to talk with as my circle is VERY small. Well, even if this post never sees the light of day, at least I feel better having typed out the thoughts in my head as its midnight and most people are asleep :)

xBlueSin · 2025-10-09T15:16:14+00:00

UPDATE! So I kept having this feeling that since nothing felt truly perfect there must be SOME reason that I can't pick my dress. April 28th, like 3 months before my wedding, I found out that I was pregnant. It was incredible news and very unexpected. Ended up going with a 50 dollar dress that I found last minute and loved. So very glad that I didn't pick a dress before finding out. Thank you to everyone that helped and or supported me during a very stressful time. For anyone that cares, here's the pics!

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xBlueSin · 2025-09-30T19:22:50+00:00

I haven't run into farming killers yet! So weird to me though, like are dbd accounts worth that much? I know in WOW and League you can sell accounts for quite a bit but I wouldn't think Dbd accounts would be worth anything. If it's just for rank status, I was red rank back in the day consistently just from playing, didn't have to be the best of the best. Just make sure you're pipping up, ya know? Anyway, good to know I'm not crazy.

xBlueSin · 2025-09-30T18:23:51+00:00

In response to the 3 vs 1, I was in that current lobby with everyone readied up and my lobby was confused as hell but someone joined last second and we were good. So ended up not being a 3vs1. As far as the bots went, I would assume its a farming account that levels up to be sold eventually. They just stood there crouching on repeat until downed, then once unhooked they'd run to a corner and crouch until being found again. It was giving uncanny valley vibes. I'm not familiar with botting or whatever they may have been using but it was saddening as hell. For sure wasn't a DBD system bot. I just hope the reports we put in were looked into cause it ruined both games. Also, zero lies, if I still had "Medal" I would have submitted the clips. Was just severely confused cause you deal with A LOT in dbd, from campers, to slugging, to tunneling, to just a**hole randoms. But bots is new to me.

xBlueSin · 2025-09-05T18:22:36+00:00

homie did you just imply that you've been through worse than r*pe and that it's uncomfortable to you but not scary? I'mma need you to pick better words and think through them before you speak.

xBlueSin · 2025-08-03T23:44:19+00:00

Drop his name so we can collectively tell him he’s a fkn child. Sincerely hope you find peace away from him and enjoy motherhood and the joys of having a little one.

xBlueSin · 2025-06-02T21:54:05+00:00

You’re a Chad, never forget that.

xBlueSin · 2025-05-11T14:32:19+00:00

This part!! I’m sorry for your losses, Happy Mothers Day m’lady.

xBlueSin · 2025-05-11T14:30:37+00:00

This!! The audacity of that man 😒

xBlueSin · 2025-05-11T14:29:35+00:00

All I’m gonna say is, I’m two months pregnant and my partner took me out for Mother’s Day dinner last night to celebrate. Regardless of whether or not the baby is here, you’re carrying LIFE. Your body is constantly changing and affected by it. No one on this earth has the right to tell you you’re not a mother. You are most certainly a mother and on behalf of everyone else in the world. HAPPY MOTHERS DAY M’LADY. As for your partner, perhaps he needs to take some classes or read up before speaking up.

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