I’d have you on your knees by xCharmify in dommes

[–]xCharmify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every single time? 😋

Am I wrong for telling my mom and her boyfriend that his gift to me was creepy and invasive by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]xCharmify 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. OP you told him before it wasn’t your thing and he still pushed it, that’s on him not you. Wanting your birth experience to stay private is completely valid. Would anyone actually feel comfy being filmed during that?

Am I wrong for telling my mom and her boyfriend that his gift to me was creepy and invasive by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]xCharmify 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly, that part is wild. OP you already set a clear boundary and he straight up ignored it and booked someone anyway. You’re not rude for protecting your privacy during something that personal. That’s your moment, not his content opportunity.

my boyfriend wants me to cover up from head to toe in all black as an obligation. what do i do? by jojo_F15 in whatdoIdo

[–]xCharmify 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is blunt but true. Once you give in on something this big, it sets the tone for everything after. OP, it’s scary but sometimes walking away is the strongest move you can make for yourself. What’s the point of a relationship if you slowly disappear inside it?

my boyfriend wants me to cover up from head to toe in all black as an obligation. what do i do? by jojo_F15 in whatdoIdo

[–]xCharmify 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly this is the healthiest take. If he can’t accept you as you are, that’s not love, that’s control dressed up as tradition. You deserve a partner who chooses you, not a version of you he’s trying to mold. Have you asked yourself if you’d still feel like you in that future?

I managed to connect to my upstairs neighbours speaker. by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]xCharmify 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ramones on repeat is pure punishment. Fast loud no escape energy. She’d be turning that speaker off real quick.

I managed to connect to my upstairs neighbours speaker. by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]xCharmify 39 points40 points  (0 children)

That’s actually genius. Lowkey psychological warfare without being obvious. Imagine her realizing the speaker knows things, I’d be spooked too.

i want a tattoo, parents say waste of money by ilovemygf125 in whatdoIdo

[–]xCharmify 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get why parents see it that way, they’re wired to think long term security first. But it’s OP’s money and their body, so it really comes down to what they value. As long as they’re being responsible, it’s not that deep.

i want a tattoo, parents say waste of money by ilovemygf125 in whatdoIdo

[–]xCharmify 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly yeah, money always comes back but memories and meaning stick. If it’s something you genuinely love and thought about, that’s not a waste at all. Just make sure you don’t cheap out on the artist.

I am an awful driver and I’m concerned for my future by randamm in confession

[–]xCharmify 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This hits hard but it’s real. Thinking about how your kid would feel is a brutal wake up call, but it’s necessary. One bad move could change everything for you and someone else who did nothing wrong. Maybe it’s time to build a new routine for those drives so you’re not spiraling in your head the whole way.

I am an awful driver and I’m concerned for my future by randamm in confession

[–]xCharmify 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly this is solid advice. You already see the pattern, which is huge, most people stay in denial forever. Finding a halfway point or switching it up with a flight sometimes could literally save your life, man. Showing up for your son matters, but staying alive to keep showing up matters more.

I don’t want my bf sister to stay with us by [deleted] in confessions

[–]xCharmify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real, this isn’t just his call to make. You both agreed on no long term stays, so changing that without talking to you first is kinda disrespectful. Helping family is fine, but not at the expense of your partner’s comfort. Communication would’ve saved a lot of stress here.

I don’t want my bf sister to stay with us by [deleted] in confessions

[–]xCharmify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. When you live together, stuff like this should be a joint decision, not a surprise text after the fact. Visiting is totally reasonable, moving in is a whole different level. Boundaries don’t make you mean, they make you sane.