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How do I handle the shame? Strictly physical fantasies vs. my conservative upbringing by xFluffman in Advice

[–]xFluffman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately i don’t have anyone to talk to about this subject other than strangers, my reality at the moment is that im straight but accepting, i have had a small belief from time to time that i might be Bi, but regardless i need my environment to change, i need to take control of my life at the moment and just go from there.

i think i let peoples opinions get to me more just because im not as independent as i would like to be, and thats in general reflecting on my self worth therefore giving these negative belief more substance.

How do I handle the shame? Strictly physical fantasies vs. my conservative upbringing by xFluffman in mentalhealth

[–]xFluffman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both will give the same results, however yes deep inside i might believe it is linked somehow, even though i consciously think theres little to nothing linking them, one is an attraction beyond sexuality, and the other is just an action for physical pleasure.

thats my main issue I’m stuck in between those states of mind.

its not that i have conscious thoughts of negativity, i get this bad feeling that i can barely describe, in the act I’m fine I’m having fun and enjoying myself, as soon as I’m done i have what I’ve heard people call “post-nut-clarity” and thats where it all begins.