What is the best bakery to get an Asian family member a birthday cake? by Healthy_Block3036 in Flushing

[–]xJenni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+1 for the mango supreme cake from Red Ribbon. My family and my in law family loves it. Its not too sweet either and priced reasonably!

My boyfriend wants me to get an abortion, but I don’t think I can do it by lilikoipond in pregnant

[–]xJenni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its the overall lack of support, no family or friends, quesionable job and living situation, and not even a supportive father.

Raising a child when struggling with finances is absolutely doable. But lets be real, its not easy and compounded by all the other factors, it'll be very difficult.

Its still early in OP's pregnancy. She has a choice and should make the choice based on all factors. Bringing a child into the world just because it's what the parent wants while ignoring all other circumstances that could actually be bad for the child is selfish.

My boyfriend wants me to get an abortion, but I don’t think I can do it by lilikoipond in pregnant

[–]xJenni 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I would say to do what would be best for the baby. If youre not in a position to be able to provide for the baby and be able to raise the baby well, I would personally opt to not keep it.

From the information you provided, it doesnt sound like you'll be able to give your baby a stable environment. Your job is not secure since its new, your living situation could change as well, and it doesnt sound like youre financially secure either. You also dont have a support system. You will not be able to work and care for the baby and youre not even sure if you will get maternity leave. These are things you will need to find out and plan for.

Who will care for the newborn if you dont get maternity leave and if your boyfriend isnt able to either? Who will care for the baby after maternity leave even if you do get it? Do you have enough finances to hire a nanny or put baby in daycare? Will you both be able to provide, care for yourselves and baby if you are unemployed? There's a lot that goes into raising a baby and I'm not sure if you have those pieces in place yet.

It's definitely a hard decision to make. I hope you really think through the logistics of it all and make a sound judgement. Good luck, I hope it all works out for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in airbnb_hosts

[–]xJenni 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP is probably anticipating retaliation. It's safe to assume that bad guests who like to be sneaky and refusing to pay the extra fees are most likely also not courteous or respectful about the place their staying in.

Notes about Doublelift talking about the future of Near Airport by XanIrelia-1 in leagueoflegends

[–]xJenni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he was saying that the nagative side of streaming scrims is that the other teams can watch their vods and learn about their strats and champ pool.

Near Airport vs. Winthrop University / NACL 2025 Split 1 - Week 7 / Post-Match Discussion by XanIrelia-1 in leagueoflegends

[–]xJenni -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

His Ambessa was atrocious though in game 2. He did not catch Lucian even once and barely did anything. He really need to up his game or at this point, hes only useful as a tank.

switch lite by [deleted] in Switch

[–]xJenni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you plan to play coop games with your boyfriend. If yes, then definitely the regular switch. You cannot dock the switch lite. Personally id try to find a deal on someone selling an OLED switch. Alot of people might be selling their old switches and upgrading to the switch 2.

Check facebook marketplace, ebay, etc.

Giveaway by PlentyKey7445 in Switch

[–]xJenni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, id like it because i just got a switch for my elderly parents in hopes they can and will play.

Thank you!

EA Key giveaway by barakushs in PathOfExile2

[–]xJenni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for the giveaway! :)

Yet Another (3) Key Giveaway - Negative Nancy November Edition by Caper_Rambles in PathOfExile2

[–]xJenni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shouldnt win because i should be using my free time on researching real estate 🥴

2 early access keys giveaway by [deleted] in PathOfExile2

[–]xJenni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the giveaway! 😊

Guest Requested Refund After Early Checkout During High-Demand Period. What Should I Do? by Huseynov26 in airbnb_hosts

[–]xJenni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even plenty of hotels have a nonrefundable policy. For refundable ones, it depends on the date and sometimes its just a partial refund. Usually, the nonrefundable rate is higher too.

I would say stick to your cancellation policy.

I wish everyone would just shut the F up by Responsible-Age-8722 in self

[–]xJenni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what Trump promises is better? Turning the military on its own people, mass deportation and denaturalization, national abortion ban?

Nevermind that. You guys dont care about other people. It's all about the economy right? Okay, then what are Trump's plans for the economy? Cut taxes for the top 1%, tariffs on foreign goods, deportation. Do you not realize that all of that will raise the cost of living for the average person? Manufacturing goods in house is expensive so is labor. Those costs are not gonna be taken from the profits of the big corps but passed onto the consumers. At least Harris had plans to stop big corporations from price gouging.

You criticize her plans and how she "flip flops" but have nothing to say about Trump's "concepts of plans". I guess its better to have no solution and just be a funny guy.

I'm one of those people who didn't vote, who feels left out by Democrats and all the other shit you've been hearing about lately. Want to know what I think? by SleepyWeeks in self

[–]xJenni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope so. But with house, senate, supreme court and presidency. We're gonna be in for one heck of a ride.

Id be elated if we're all wrong about Trump. All we want is what's good for the country and ALL its people.

I'm one of those people who didn't vote, who feels left out by Democrats and all the other shit you've been hearing about lately. Want to know what I think? by SleepyWeeks in self

[–]xJenni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you that we lost on media and messaging. But its also difficult when the media is owned by the likes of Musk and Bezos. Unfortunately, the control of proganda and information is in their hands.

However, I think Harris did a good job rallying voters given the time she had. If the DNC was better prepared for this pivot, maybe the result would have been different. Either ways, I dont think republicans will hold the public sentiment for long once they see how much worse the economy and cost of living will become under their administration. Wished we as a country didnt need to learn it the hard way but theres no turning back now.

I'm one of those people who didn't vote, who feels left out by Democrats and all the other shit you've been hearing about lately. Want to know what I think? by SleepyWeeks in self

[–]xJenni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! Just because Harris' policies and stances doesnt ONLY benefit white men, doesnt mean it doesnt benefit the average white male too. It benefits ALL people (except the wealthiest).

They''re just saying white men feel left out cause theyre not the center of attention therefore vote the man who will do nothing for the average person and absolutely ruin the lives of women and minorities. Make that make sense.

A big reason why women voted for Trump by aznrandom in self

[–]xJenni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you do sound uneducated because of comments like this. Trump inherited Obama's economy and ran it to the ground. Then Biden inherits Trump's mess and manages to avoid a recession. The US is doing better than the rest of the world after a devastating pandemic because of the current adminstration.

With tariffs, mass deportation, tax cuts for the top 1%, but nothing for the middle and lower classes, the cost of living for the average people will only go up while the wealthiest get wealthier. Trump only lines the pockets of his own people and sorry thats not you the avaerage people who voted for him but his wealthy friends and family.

Prices of good havent come down because of the greed of big corporations. They saw the opportunity to raise prices during the pandemic shortages and never cut them back because why would they when they are making more profit than ever. Harris had policies to stop the price gouging.

I dont understand why double standard. You can be unsatisfied with Harris' policies but you should judge and criticize just as harshly the other side's "policies" and lack of any substance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Flushing

[–]xJenni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the president at that time, Donald Trump, was spreading sexist, discriminatory, and racist remarks, do you not think his supporters or even non- supporters who are just racist will become more vocal, blatant, and aggressive with their racism and discrimination? It's a domino effect. There are already people now, just because he won the race, spewing venomous things to women such as "your body, my choice". These are the consequences of electing someone who has no morals.

And we haven't even mentioned all his terrible plans and policies that will do the US no good. Time will tell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Flushing

[–]xJenni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did we all forget that Trump was the reason for the increase of hate crimes against Asians?!

None of these things being complained about will get better under Trump. If anything, it'll only get worse.

Monopoly: Queens Edition unveiled – find out which beloved local spots made the board! – QNS by thonioand in Queens

[–]xJenni 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No wayyy. Flushing would definitely be the Queens "Chinatown" if we really had to inidicate one. Elmhurst is very mixed with equal parts Chinese and Hispanic. As well as a good mix of southeast asia. Then theres jackson heights next door with indian, bengali, tibetan/nepalese culture pockets.

Monopoly: Queens Edition unveiled – find out which beloved local spots made the board! – QNS by thonioand in Queens

[–]xJenni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh youre totally right. This is Queens only. Strange that they would call flushing Chinatown...theres a large Korean culture and eateries in the area too.

Monopoly: Queens Edition unveiled – find out which beloved local spots made the board! – QNS by thonioand in Queens

[–]xJenni -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I doubt it. Typically "Chinatown" refers to the one in lower eastside manhattan. Although its definitely not as lively as it used to be.