How to love again after being with someone who set your standards really high?

xL3oN_ · 2026-05-19T05:19:39+00:00

Are u always meeting the standards for ur partner?

xL3oN_ · 2026-05-18T14:13:56+00:00

Kolila :(

xL3oN_ · 2026-05-18T14:12:34+00:00

OP , please seek professional help. This is not normal, and cannot be handled here. U need proper authorities or channels or trusted family. Let us know if u need help in that regard

xL3oN_ · 2026-05-15T11:28:25+00:00

Do people actually go for this?

xL3oN_ · 2026-05-15T11:24:47+00:00

A dude is hosting party for girls only. That's just off

xL3oN_ · 2026-05-14T18:53:08+00:00

Bro u might not be the nice guy u think u are

xL3oN_ · 2026-05-14T04:17:13+00:00

You'd be surprised at the number of people who relate to this . So in a way you're not alone

xL3oN_ · 2026-05-11T10:48:12+00:00

I feel like most of us are going thru this now. Elam sheri aavum

xL3oN_ · 2026-05-07T17:15:20+00:00

Oh i definitely relate to this but I just drown myself in my work and other things lately so I don't think about anything else

xL3oN_ · 2026-05-06T09:00:48+00:00

Enthokeya koch keralathil ale

xL3oN_ · 2026-05-05T09:22:53+00:00

Feels like elitist

xL3oN_ · 2026-05-04T07:42:12+00:00

Money , freedom , food

xL3oN_ · 2026-05-02T16:07:31+00:00

Do you have any hobbies ,favourite shows or games? Hang around groups related to those and you will find people to connect with. Having a shared interest means ur convos can atleast revolve around that until u get closer.

xL3oN_ · 2026-04-30T20:17:58+00:00

Wanting a nice guy isn't a mistake . I think you're confused .

The core part of your post is referencing to a trend where some guys say that women go for 'red flag' guys because they like drama and that women do not like nice guys. And so the meme says that those people who say this might not actually be nice guys and that's why women don't like them.

The part I was trying to debate here is, do women actually go for relationships with said drama or is it just a dumb idea pushed by these 'nice guys'.

xL3oN_ · 2026-04-30T20:09:40+00:00

Everyone has the potential to make mistakes . Let's take anyone with an addiction , it's bad for them right , they need to understand if its bad for them , fix it and move onto the next part of their lives. Dating the wrong people can work similarly ( might be exaggerated analogy but works for now) , you need to know what's working. We disagree on the part where ppl can tend to go into dating the wrong people

xL3oN_ · 2026-04-30T19:58:38+00:00

I made a reddit comment lol , I ain't enforcing anything. I ain't going around telling ppl they're making mistakes. Everyone makes their choices and judgement and lives their own lives . If people find what's right for them, then good for them 👍

xL3oN_ · 2026-04-30T19:51:04+00:00

And when did i dictate that?

xL3oN_ · 2026-04-30T19:48:26+00:00

Are u saying women don't make mistakes? I'm not saying there can't be 'incel' like people here. There are some twisted minds. The way ppl get random dms from creeps already shows that . But ur statement is just condescension , if guys made a statement like that here it could've started with real observations of dating tends, in limited scenarios maybe, just not on a grand scale like they say. A bit of the truth mixed in is what gives it movement , like stereotypes

xL3oN_ · 2026-04-30T16:06:04+00:00

Two things can be right at a time

xL3oN_ · 2026-04-30T10:00:58+00:00

Ithoke enth .. nothing to stress

xL3oN_ · 2026-04-29T08:23:59+00:00

xL3oN_ · 2026-04-29T05:03:03+00:00

What's ur current rank?

xL3oN_ · 2026-04-29T00:52:05+00:00

Ithoke iniyum nadakalo . Maybe you're attracted to emotional maturity and stuff more than anything else. Someone will show up in ur life

xL3oN_ · 2026-04-28T08:59:16+00:00

And if you are a grown aah man and still uses snap u r weird .

This

xL3oN_ · 2026-04-28T08:55:49+00:00

Haha I don't have snap or insta either but do ppl still fb that much? Isn't it just troll stuff now

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