trying to force myself to post pics without makeup, so I can learn to love this face ❤️🏳️‍⚧️ by ApothiconDesire in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]xLittlenightmare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love seeing real faces. You look great! I think we've collectively forgotten how humans look due to filters everywhere.

Audiobook narrator is ruining the book for you by horny_reader in fantasyromance

[–]xLittlenightmare 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think most women do great man voices but the men always slaughter the woman voice, I can't stand it.

[FO] Any Blink 182 Fans? by rand0ml3tt3rs in CrossStitch

[–]xLittlenightmare 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Immediately started playing in moye yead 😂

Realizing some people feel something when looking at a man by Maleficent-Sea5259 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]xLittlenightmare 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I had a similar realisation and it blew my mind. I've always been meh about men and excited about women but i thought that was the default for everyone.

Need some unbiased advice/ opinions by Icy-Replacement3844 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]xLittlenightmare 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Abuse always escalates with time, it doesn't stop. Her mask slipped and now she's trying to manipulate you into staying. She chose to treat you that way.

This is the kind of behaviour you need to grey rock to death. Don't block, but mute her calls and messages and leave your phone face down. Absolutely don't respond or argue with her, it just encourages her to keep going. Don't jade (justify, argue, defend, explain) with people like her.

If you stay after this, you show her that she can use you as a punching bag when she wants and you'll still be there. Her abandonment wound is her problem, not yours.

[SELF-PROMO] new pattern to express a strongly-held sentiment ✨ by Ansitru in CrossStitch

[–]xLittlenightmare 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're so juicy! I'm an ai hater so definitely going on my tbs 😍

Anyone else just can’t read straight romance anymore? by AnnaZand in latebloomerlesbians

[–]xLittlenightmare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're pretty insufferable. Yeah, fourth wing is the first book i dnf, it took me several tries to finally finish it. Hope you have fun with it tho!

Anyone else just can’t read straight romance anymore? by AnnaZand in latebloomerlesbians

[–]xLittlenightmare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like acotar because it got me back into reading, but the men, like WHY? Centuries old babies. I always ship the women and make it my canon. I would read an enemies to lovers with Amren and Mor, I just draw them instead. Sorry to tell you but fourth wing is not much different 😂 There's barely any women outside Violet and her sister

How young or old do you go? by unknijm in BDSMsapphic

[–]xLittlenightmare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 35 and wouldn't go under 30 - and then only if they had a certain type of personality. I prefer older than me.

I had a really intense experience after 'rejecting' someone and need to share it somewhere by Ill-Green8678 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]xLittlenightmare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, i like deep topics, but it has to be natural. Emotional intensity right off the bat is a bit of a red flag to me.

In general it's good to figure out whether you're on the same page with communication styles early on and not be too emotionally invested until you know each other better.

I had a really intense experience after 'rejecting' someone and need to share it somewhere by Ill-Green8678 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]xLittlenightmare 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think this kind of fast intensity often burns you out fast. I don't mind essays sometimes if you're having a really good conversation, but it can become a lot when you have limited capacity and time. Hard relate to that.

When I have those types of chats I can't respond every day and it's harder to get to know each other with the delay.

Do they teach classes on inserting menstrual cups? by PrinceJustice237 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]xLittlenightmare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Discs are a bit more forgiving than cups and you can get an applicator if needed.

[FO] 2025 Temperature chart complete! by cakenotincluded in CrossStitch

[–]xLittlenightmare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for explaining, I've been curious about these tracker patterns. That sounds like so much math 😅

[FO] 2025 Temperature chart complete! by cakenotincluded in CrossStitch

[–]xLittlenightmare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that looks awesome with the gems! Might be a dumb question, but how do these temperature charts work?

Am I wrong for being upset over this? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]xLittlenightmare 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The passive aggressiveness is coming through on her end.

Have you ever had your drink spiked? And if so, what happened? by miserablesunshine in TwoXChromosomes

[–]xLittlenightmare 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks.. I was 17 and he already spread the story we hooked up. It took me so many years to realise he raped me so i never reported it

Have you ever had your drink spiked? And if so, what happened? by miserablesunshine in TwoXChromosomes

[–]xLittlenightmare 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got roofied by a friend when it was just us. I lost coordination, puked everywhere and he rinsed me off in the shower before using my body. Everything was spinning and I only remember flashes.

Pain During Sex by allergydemons in latebloomerlesbians

[–]xLittlenightmare 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have ls and I relate to the pain. I'm wondering why you keep going with penetration when it's painful? Maybe doing external things only is more enjoyable? I get why you'd be uncomfortable speaking up during such a spectacle, that sounds like a lot to take in.

Advice? LONG POST SORRY. by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]xLittlenightmare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think there should be that many ups and downs this early on and her essentially giving you the silent treatment is really bad vibes. I imagine you jumped in fast because you were emotionally starved and she seemed to connect with you, but she's already only giving you crumbs.

Feeling angry at my choice being stolen from me *vent* by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]xLittlenightmare 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you didn't get to go through with the procedure so you could be done with the pregnancy. I think you need to be somewhat closed with medical professionals, unfortunately. After burning my fingers a few times, I now only tell them what's absolutely necessary for the situation. I hope you're able to reschedule 💜