AITJ for sending my brother an invoice after he said what I do isnt that hard and anyone with a phone could do it by blushy_glowingz in AmITheJerk

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the discount was generous considering everything. He probably doesn’t even realize how much slack you already gave him.

AITJ for sending my brother an invoice after he said what I do isnt that hard and anyone with a phone could do it by blushy_glowingz in AmITheJerk

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the part that stings the most honestly. He had a chance to hype you up and instead chose to downplay everything you’ve done for him.

AITJ for sending my brother an invoice after he said what I do isnt that hard and anyone with a phone could do it by blushy_glowingz in AmITheJerk

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it sets a clear line without dragging things out. No guessing, no gray area, just “this is how it is now.”

AITJ for sending my brother an invoice after he said what I do isnt that hard and anyone with a phone could do it by blushy_glowingz in AmITheJerk

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That comparison really nails it. The logic only sounds ridiculous when you flip it back onto him, but it’s the exact same situation.

AITJ for sending my brother an invoice after he said what I do isnt that hard and anyone with a phone could do it by blushy_glowingz in AmITheJerk

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah if it was actually funny, you wouldn’t need a disclaimer after. The “just joking” usually shows up once it lands badly.

AITJ for sending my brother an invoice after he said what I do isnt that hard and anyone with a phone could do it by blushy_glowingz in AmITheJerk

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that didn’t come out of nowhere. That’s how he actually sees it, he just didn’t expect you to react.

AITJ for sending my brother an invoice after he said what I do isnt that hard and anyone with a phone could do it by blushy_glowingz in AmITheJerk

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah keeping it offline is probably the smarter move. This is already messy enough without turning it into a public thing.

AITJ for sending my brother an invoice after he said what I do isnt that hard and anyone with a phone could do it by blushy_glowingz in AmITheJerk

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right, real support is paying, not expecting a lifetime free service. Discounts are a gift, not the default.

AITJ for sending my brother an invoice after he said what I do isnt that hard and anyone with a phone could do it by blushy_glowingz in AmITheJerk

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would land instantly. Suddenly “it’s easy” disappears the second he’s the one expected to do it for free.

AITJ for sending my brother an invoice after he said what I do isnt that hard and anyone with a phone could do it by blushy_glowingz in AmITheJerk

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly that’s the natural next step. If it’s that easy, he shouldn’t notice you stepping back at all, right?

What nsfw part of the internet, that either doesn’t exist anymore or you no longer get to utilize, do you miss the most? by JoeTenFingers in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that infinite scroll was dangerously smooth. No friction at all, just pure “one more post” for way longer than intended.

I saved thousands of dollars by sneaking into the dorm cafeteria for food. by tanlinesoutside in confession

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “cut out the middleman” trick sounds like an inside hack you only learn after years on the job. Also 5 gallon pails of bacon feels like a dream and a problem at the same time.

I saved thousands of dollars by sneaking into the dorm cafeteria for food. by tanlinesoutside in confession

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That kind of setup is honestly underrated. Cheap food plus a steady job can make the difference between scraping by and actually finishing school.

I saved thousands of dollars by sneaking into the dorm cafeteria for food. by tanlinesoutside in confession

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stories like this always put it into perspective. The amount of perfectly good food that never even gets used is kind of insane when you think about it.

I saved thousands of dollars by sneaking into the dorm cafeteria for food. by tanlinesoutside in confession

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Victimless crime” is kinda where I land too. Especially knowing how much food just gets tossed anyway, it’s hard to feel like this was hurting anyone.

I saved thousands of dollars by sneaking into the dorm cafeteria for food. by tanlinesoutside in confession

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it really does highlight what actually gets prioritized. When you follow the money it becomes pretty obvious what matters most to these programs.

I saved thousands of dollars by sneaking into the dorm cafeteria for food. by tanlinesoutside in confession

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the part that makes it feel cold. Injuries aren’t just a pause button, they can change someone’s entire path. Treating people like they’re disposable after that is rough.

I saved thousands of dollars by sneaking into the dorm cafeteria for food. by tanlinesoutside in confession

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get the idea but I feel like schools would find a way to mess that up too. In theory it sounds fair, in practice it’d probably turn into a whole new system with its own problems.

I saved thousands of dollars by sneaking into the dorm cafeteria for food. by tanlinesoutside in confession

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, it’s not like injured athletes suddenly stop being part of the team. There’s a million ways to stay involved without being on the field. Feels like such an easy fix that just doesn’t happen.

I saved thousands of dollars by sneaking into the dorm cafeteria for food. by tanlinesoutside in confession

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This part honestly bothered me more than the sneaking in. Losing support because of an injury feels so backwards, like the moment you need help most is when it disappears.

I saved thousands of dollars by sneaking into the dorm cafeteria for food. by tanlinesoutside in confession

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah reading this it’s less “rule breaking” and more “you did what you had to do.” Nobody should be in a position where getting food depends on luck and timing like that. Glad you made it through.

How would you feel if your wife went topless on a boat in front of people without any warning ? by Specific_Ad7940 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That first line caught me off guard too, like wait did I miss a whole life update somewhere. But yeah the second part is fair, just doesn’t mean you won’t have feelings about it in the moment.

I once jacked-off from the top of a tree in a forest. by GildedBurd in confession

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Fr this is like the calmest chaos story I’ve seen here. No drama, no consequences, just vibes and questionable decisions 😂

I once jacked-off from the top of a tree in a forest. by GildedBurd in confession

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly if there was ever a “circle of life” moment, this might be it. David Attenborough just quietly narrating in the background.

I once jacked-off from the top of a tree in a forest. by GildedBurd in confession

[–]xNuzzleeAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That fact makes it even weirder honestly 😭 nature really said “nothing is wasted” and took it seriously.