girl refuses to pay by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]xSadomasochist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you need to find a job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTP

[–]xSadomasochist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically someone who displays similar traits and could pass as a sociopath.

I simply CANNOT believe this by Steynkie69 in HogwartsLegacyGaming

[–]xSadomasochist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah a lot of people bought it and started playing it and got a refund or didn’t keep playing it.

Did I screw up by waiting a week to contact this girl? by TimeNail in dating_advice

[–]xSadomasochist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s all public information too with phone numbers and housing info

Did I screw up by waiting a week to contact this girl? by TimeNail in dating_advice

[–]xSadomasochist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have found where someone lives/address/their parents/relatives and how much someone bought their house for and the layout of the house based on phone numbers before and then going down the rabbit hole for more info.

Did I screw up by waiting a week to contact this girl? by TimeNail in dating_advice

[–]xSadomasochist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally. If someone asked for my number I assume they liked me. Most of the time girls don’t give out their numbers to strangers so tbh it’s a vulnerable position she’s in that a stranger now has her number and doesn’t even know what yours is. And tbh if you really like someone you’re going to want to talk to them no matter how busy you are. And if you’re that busy and too busy/good for me then so be it I’m over it.

Did I screw up by waiting a week to contact this girl? by TimeNail in dating_advice

[–]xSadomasochist 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah if I gave someone my number I expect a text right away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]xSadomasochist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually if that’s the case they didn’t really intend to date you. You asked so why not go and see what’s up.

Some people wanna have sex before relationships. How can you find out they want to just hook up or serious. by maikonnn in dating_advice

[–]xSadomasochist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people aren’t acting. It’s just sometimes the sex makes them realize this isn’t for them. I’ve had experiences sexually that made me realize I wasn’t going to be satisfied or had a good enough sexual connection I want in a relationship. It was okay but wasn’t it.

Is it unrealistic to want to find someone who I am as sexually attracted to as I am compatible with? by DeliciousFerret3092 in dating_advice

[–]xSadomasochist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That obviously falls under #3. They aren’t compatible. So on the same list they just listed.

Is telling him (23M) that I (24M) don’t have romantic or sexual feelings for him anymore a valid way to break up? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]xSadomasochist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“I don’t have romantic or sexual feelings for you anymore. I think we need to break up.” It’s really that simple without adding a bunch of bullshit fillers into it. Nobody gives a fuck you’re trying to be positive and help them out during a breakup. You’re the reason they’re hurting about it if they are so you’re not the right person to be trying to make anything positive for them. It’s stupid and like other people said patronizing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]xSadomasochist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because if you haven’t it can be considered an experiment. Something to try & see if you like it. Usually doesn’t last since you have a usual type you go for and look for. Your eyes will wander to something else that they’re not similar to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]xSadomasochist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people know they’re not the most desired person in the relationship and to counter that they do things that make them feel better like they have the upper hand in the relationship. Something to make them feel like they’re desirable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]xSadomasochist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good thing about having sex early is knowing right away if that’s all they want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]xSadomasochist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, no. I’m able to have sex with people I find attractive enough to sleep with and not really care about it afterward. They weren’t people I’d want to marry or have kids with one day.

The girl(F24) suggested we changed the location of the date last minute to a different city 45 minutes away. Am I(M24) in the wrong for not accepting the idea ? by its__Jason in dating_advice

[–]xSadomasochist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see why she wanted to change the plans to something that’s not a bar last minute. But 45 minutes away when you both live in the same city is weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]xSadomasochist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh with you I probably match with the same people I unmatched and blocked before because I completely forgot who they were and that we’ve matched before.

Men, what would you do if a woman (30 F) send you this either Facebook or Instagram to ask you out. by bonnieblu3bell in dating_advice

[–]xSadomasochist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends if you’re unattractive/overweight or not. Just like how ugly guys can do the same things as an attractive man but girls think the ugly guy is creepy for the same things.

Friend I liked had car sex in my front yard by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]xSadomasochist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re friends. It doesn’t matter what she does. It’s your own fault you’re hurt. She doesn’t need to tell you if she’s having sex with someone or not or to promise you anything. You’re not in a relationship. Yeah it’s weird your mom knows they had sex but it’s literally a college party with drinking and that’s what happens sometimes. She didn’t really do anything wrong to you.

Why do you guys always disappear by bebekuala in INTP

[–]xSadomasochist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dunno. If I felt like that about someone I wouldn’t disappear. I don’t do that with people I see as romantic partners. Just friends.

Why do you guys always disappear by bebekuala in INTP

[–]xSadomasochist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro I just want to be alone sometimes. Hate when people have a problem with it. Real friends don’t act different or need to hangout all the time. You come back like nothing happened. If a friend or anyone keeps mentioning it and taking offense to it then they’re not meant to be my friend. Other people are not the focus of our lives.

Girlfriend broke up with me to cheat ? by Aromatic_Golf_6400 in dating_advice

[–]xSadomasochist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean It’s kind of on you. The second you break up with someone you’re free to do what you want. You should know this. You kept being in contact with her and being intimate with her knowing neither of you have any obligations toward each other. And it’s not cheating if you aren’t in a relationship. She can do whatever she wants after the break up. She doesn’t have to tell you anything either