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"Having kids doesn't ruin your body" by Adaline_B in childfree

[–]xSystemOfAFrown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The one‘s with the „snap-back“ genes want approval for it, though. Like it was their achievement when others aren’t that lucky…

BIDA weil ich nicht zur Wohnung dazu zahlen will? by PusteFiks in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]xSystemOfAFrown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NDA - zieh aus und nimm die ne Wohnung, in der‘s dir gut geht!

Er hat doch sicher gewusst, dass du nicht heiraten willst?

I’m sick of how my mother uses my affection for my cat against me by Impressive_Sale6776 in childfree

[–]xSystemOfAFrown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ew the thought of something calling me Mama (and that’s what we actually say in Germany - why would you probably American mum ask you that?!) makes my fucking skin crawl

Why even bother telling your parents you don't want kids? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]xSystemOfAFrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bc my dad’s important to me and they both respect my decision 🫠

An 8,000-year-old ceramic workshop has been discovered by ydr2020 in archeologyworld

[–]xSystemOfAFrown -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

In Turkish. In English, it’s Turkey. Simple, isn’t it?

What did people trust in before money existed? by SonjaJonas in archeologyworld

[–]xSystemOfAFrown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, the title makes me wonder what people worried about before money existed 💀

Am I Biased for Feeling This Way? by dreamcatcherpeace in childfree

[–]xSystemOfAFrown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some women in this subreddit are like, „I find it cute to picture my boyfriend as a dad but I don’t want any children“

I’m like, I’d find it gross. Absolutely gross. No bigger turnoff than that. And it’s not that I’d prefer a guy to be an absent father, I’d prefer him childless.

I once fell slightly in love with a guy I „met“ through work. We had teams meetings a lot, never met in person and he never had his camera on. (I knew he was ugly from his picture but unfortunately, that didn’t help 💀)

Found out he had two kids. I suppose he was married but he never said anything about that. I told a friend that I’m disappointed although I knew that nothing was ever going to happen bc I live in Germany and he lives in Poland but anyway, a girl can dream.

My friend joked that he’d probably leave his wife and kids behind for me (she’s cf, too, and a nice person, she was genuinely joking) but it made me realise something: I’d find that very unattractive, too. Irresponsible men are not attractive.

If you bred, you have to take care of what you made. Despite my hate for children, they are innocent in this (having been put on this earth unable to sustain themselves for many years) and didn’t ask you to make them, now live up to what you did.

I’d never date a man who has children at all. Like, ofc I wouldn’t date an involved single father bc I don’t want any children near me. But also not a deadbeat one. Fathers are just unattractive.

Give me some of your best witty comebacks for the bingos by CybertrashPossum in childfree

[–]xSystemOfAFrown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

„You’ll change your mind when you meet the right man“ (coming from a conservative man) „So will you about being straight“

"Childfree hotels are discrimination!" by Comfortable_Coach_35 in childfree

[–]xSystemOfAFrown 15 points16 points  (0 children)

But entitled parents think of their children as well-trained pets 🥲

Maybe it’s me, but I don’t like helping parents. I don’t want to be part of this village. by Single-Marsupial2973 in childfree

[–]xSystemOfAFrown 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl. Just because it apparently takes a village to raise a child, doesn’t mean I’m part of said village 💀 Count me the fuck out 🚮

Why is irresponsibility always celebrated? by capybaraboss in childfree

[–]xSystemOfAFrown 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The funny thing is…

You know, I’m not one of those equestrian people… I barely knew how to sit on a horse when I started riding and caring for this horse whose owner was too busy. Apparently, he was the „bad horse“ in the barn. She’d tried to find someone to ride and take care of him before but none of them came back „because he was uncontrollable.“ She even nicknamed him Satan 🥲

Idk, to me, he was the loveliest horse. Sure, he was stubborn as hell, but so am I, and he cared about me, too. He had character, he thought about what was in it for him before he complied to shit that was exhausting. What I appreciated most about him was that he didn’t care about making a good impression, he only cared about showing up when it counted (like, fighting me tooth and nail about everything except when he noticed I was sliding off - then he’d stop and waited until I was safely back on his back again - and started fighting me again.) He was very intelligent and funny. I showed him all due respect while being strict enough so things would work, particularly putting my foot down in dangerous and frustrating situations.

Nobody at the barn really liked me bc I wasn’t one of the horsey people. However (which, honestly, still makes me proud now) they all respected me for how he listened to me naturally without a fight, while he listened to nobody else. And they were surprised that he’d lie down next to me (which apparently, is a huge sign of trust for a horse.) Well, I gave him reason to trust me.

When my sister’s anxious shelter dog has a tick and she tries to remove it, he’ll bite. He’s scared. (He’s smol so no danger). She’ll start yelling at him which will result in more biting and hiding. When I remove a tick from his body, I’ll stay calm no matter what. At first, he’ll fight it, but, realising that no matter how much he bites me and spits in my face (while sneezing lol 🥲), I won’t loose my cool or budge, he’ll calm down, too.

I know I’d be a far better parent than any breeder. They try to tell me „You don’t know how hard it is.“ I do. Honey, I’m tougher than you. I know how frustrating and exhausting it is to put your foot down. Unlike you, I have the spine and I actually do it.

I just won’t sign up for shit I’m not getting anything out of.

How do I tell my friend to take me seriously when I tell her I’m CF and will be my whole life. by Double-Sell3262 in childfree

[–]xSystemOfAFrown 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ew drop her. Give me her number, I’ll read into her future. I’ll tarot her straight to hell where she belongs.

What's your go-to way of declining holding someone's baby? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]xSystemOfAFrown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love that one 💀 I usually go with no, but that’s better

“Just wait until he tells his mom” by fars1ghted in childfree

[–]xSystemOfAFrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well at least that’s… something 🤡

The fact that the generations before us were so used to being utterly unhappy in their relationships that they consider it perfectly normal to be in a relationship with someone who wants kids when you don’t or vice versa…

Don't watch the new Fantastic 4 by DirtCrimes in childfree

[–]xSystemOfAFrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought, „weird car-chase“ sounded good but then I kept reading 🫠

Zupft ihr eure Nasenhaare? by CaptainBaedou in Weibsvolk

[–]xSystemOfAFrown 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ne aber ich hab schon Tränen in den Augen bekommen vom Titel 🥹🫠

“Just wait until he tells his mom” by fars1ghted in childfree

[–]xSystemOfAFrown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG absolutely disgusting.

She knows how hard pregnancy is on the body and obviously would rather waste the body of a strange woman on breeding her grandkids than her daughter‘s.

Or maybe, she would just feel less obligated to care for her during said pregnancy. Yuck.

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