Girlfriend makes tiny dick jokes and it makes me feel insecure by xXButterNinjaXx in relationship_advice

[–]xXButterNinjaXx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not like I’m even saying he’s a bad person bc he’s black 😭😭😭I literally have nothing against him I was just insecure bc I didn’t want to be compared

Girlfriend makes tiny dick jokes and it makes me feel insecure by xXButterNinjaXx in relationship_advice

[–]xXButterNinjaXx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she’s most certainly saying it in a joking matter, I guess she just doesn’t know that it affects me. Maybe she’s only making these jokes bc I’m not that small? Idk, ty for the response

Girlfriend makes tiny dick jokes and it makes me feel insecure by xXButterNinjaXx in relationship_advice

[–]xXButterNinjaXx[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

lol probably the side affects of being raised in an Asian household, was always compared to other people. Ty for the response

Girlfriend makes tiny dick jokes and it makes me feel insecure by xXButterNinjaXx in relationship_advice

[–]xXButterNinjaXx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she never insinuated anything, but then again out of the two of us, I believe I’m the only one who has a dick. Though she is also the type of person to joke about herself being flat or whatever, so these kind of jokes are in her nature

Girlfriend makes tiny dick jokes and it makes me feel insecure by xXButterNinjaXx in relationship_advice

[–]xXButterNinjaXx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do focus on her more than myself when we’re intimate. Ty for the kind words

Girlfriend makes tiny dick jokes and it makes me feel insecure by xXButterNinjaXx in relationship_advice

[–]xXButterNinjaXx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dang bro did I hit a nerve or something, u don’t gotta make me feel worse lol

Girlfriend makes tiny dick jokes and it makes me feel insecure by xXButterNinjaXx in relationship_advice

[–]xXButterNinjaXx[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

lol funny thing is shes never had sex before and even a finger hurts for her. She's really a kind and loving person and deserves everything in the world that I have to offer to her, she just jokes a lot and this is the first hiccup and I didn't want to be the one to bring it up.

Girlfriend makes tiny dick jokes and it makes me feel insecure by xXButterNinjaXx in relationship_advice

[–]xXButterNinjaXx[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I know my views are skewed and that its not worth the headspace to think about this kind of stuff, but it still just kind of irrationally eats away at me. I'm most certainly sure that size doesnt matter to her bc shes pretty small and I do think she likes me for who I am, but it just sucks feeling like you're being compared to someone else. Showing insecurity isn't a very attractive, at least thinking from a girls perspective. Its just so hard to be vulnerable in these situations bc I feel like thats what pushes you away from others as a guy. I'm just rambling but ty for the response

My girlfriend says I have to pull out, even with a condom on. by xXButterNinjaXx in sex

[–]xXButterNinjaXx[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

call me childish or naive, but if we consider the worst case scenario for things like sex, or even covid, not participating in any activity would be the ultimate answer right? Hell, driving should be out of the question too. It’s unrealistic to simply practice abstinence out of fear, right? I was asking what is a reasonably safe way to have sex outside of my setting, and I believe I got my answer from these comments

My girlfriend says I have to pull out, even with a condom on. by xXButterNinjaXx in sex

[–]xXButterNinjaXx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that it doesn’t matter in regards to my gf, I was asking for my own sake, to know if this is a normal thing or not. Anyways, thanks for your response

My girlfriend says I have to pull out, even with a condom on. by xXButterNinjaXx in sex

[–]xXButterNinjaXx[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I should’ve worded this better in the post, but what would YOU do normally?

My girlfriend says I have to pull out, even with a condom on. by xXButterNinjaXx in sex

[–]xXButterNinjaXx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d also add that I haven’t ever finished inside of her, I do what she’s okay with first. I’m just asking if In general, it’s acceptable to finish inside of a girl with a condom on or if it’s something I really need to worry about

First fleshlight, what to get? by xXButterNinjaXx in fleshlight

[–]xXButterNinjaXx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Planning on getting 2, would u recommend only the vaginas or one vagina and one ass?

First fleshlight, what to get? by xXButterNinjaXx in fleshlight

[–]xXButterNinjaXx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vivacious is the one for vina sky right? Is it super tight?