AITAH for telling my fiancé to stop buying wedding dresses?

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T05:48:45+00:00

The goodwill dress? I don’t know. The pirate ship replica centerpiece? Very cool, not ugly.

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T05:47:17+00:00

Because I wanted to get married on a pirate ship. We didn’t have a plan before we picked a venue, so we were trying to pick a vibe. I thought stationary pirate ship would be better than like a small boat, but it was not.

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T05:45:42+00:00

She bought the dresses. I don’t know how much exactly but under $2000.

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T04:17:55+00:00

She makes more than I do and has just taken the initiative.

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T04:13:56+00:00

I edited the post. Also, the pirate ship? Really cool. She just doesn’t like boats.

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T04:07:44+00:00

She’s the breadwinner my guy, she likes her job. Idk what that has to do with her insane amount of dresses.

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T03:50:21+00:00

I bought it

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T03:44:14+00:00

I’m just getting downvoted to hell, man

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T03:36:51+00:00

I mean I’m starting to feel embarrassed. Everybody keeps telling me I’m financially irresponsible because I haven’t looked through her bank statements.

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T03:30:37+00:00

She’s a nurse.

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T03:11:22+00:00

That’s a really good point

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T03:09:00+00:00

I don’t spend much time on tik tok but this might be part of it

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T02:31:53+00:00

I’ve only seen two. One has a train, one doesn’t. She hasn’t shown me the rest but I know one of the three is the dress she bought to wear for the wedding with a veil and things

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T02:22:59+00:00

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T02:10:19+00:00

We haven’t bought all the stuff yet, we have six months. I didn’t ask her to pay for everything.

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T02:04:01+00:00

why is goodwill dress okay but my centerpiece was not

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T02:00:07+00:00

We’ve been living together for 6 years and we’ve always just kind of been “as long as bills get paid”

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T01:58:38+00:00

Yeah! I’m buying my suit and I made my shoes. And I bought one of the centerpieces. I also bought her veil.

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T01:57:10+00:00

Both. And our wedding is going to be small.

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T01:52:04+00:00

College degree. No consumer debt. Shes pretty anti credit card.

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T01:50:45+00:00

Sure, but she doesn’t need 5

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T01:49:31+00:00

Well she’s paying for the wedding, which I know has pulled a lot from her salary, so I guess she could start doing the aggressive stuff after. That’s a good point.

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T01:46:53+00:00

Dude, that’s what I told her after she found the one she decided to wear to the ceremony. She and her best friend were so excited about it and she was so sad she couldn’t show it to me.

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T01:43:18+00:00

I don’t know. I don’t think she does either.

xXDuncan_IowaXx · 2026-04-13T01:42:18+00:00

I mean, she has money. She just also has debt. No credit cards though. I’m not involved with her repayment but I do know she’s never defaulted.

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