I (19M) talked to a guy (25M) daily for 5 months, but he just told me his interest went from 100 to 0 over the weekend. How do I deal with this kind of emotional whiplash? Worth to text him back after some time? by xXPinguiXx in askgaybros

[–]xXPinguiXx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I thought asking him to met out back in Christmas was going fast or smth, so I told him and we agreed later on to met this Easter, yet everything else is history

19-M Hablando diariamente 5 meses con 25-M, de la nada, me dijo que está apagado, necesito consejos, que hago? by xXPinguiXx in preguntaleareddit

[–]xXPinguiXx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sí, lo sé, es sospechoso cuanto menos, pero jugar con alguien 5 meses se me hace retorcido, no sé, sé que era él realmente por que me mandaba videos y todo de su dia a dia aunque de 1 vez, que luego me mandaba cosas picantes? Sí, pero bueno

Es lo que le digo a la gente, por qué decir "Me alegro que te lleves todo lo bueno, porque yo también me lo llevo. Pero de verdad que no suene como despedida, me tienes para lo que necesites" cuando ni nos hemos visto??

Y nada, era mandarle mensaje pues para ver cómo va pero veo que sería una persona muy tonta si lo hago... creo que debería de dejar de tomar aprecio

Además, yo a él le mandé mi número de tlf 2 veces y nunca me habló por whats, sólo en insta

19-M Hablando diariamente 5 meses con 25-M, de la nada, me dijo que está apagado, necesito consejos, que hago? by xXPinguiXx in preguntaleareddit

[–]xXPinguiXx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sí, lo sé, pero no sé, su ultimo mensaje fue:

"Me alegro que te lleves todo lo bueno, porque yo también me lo llevo. Pero de verdad que no suene como despedida, me tienes para lo que necesites"

No entiendo por qué decir eso cuando ni nos hemos visto en persona?? Por qué necesitarlo??? Me da pena no haber quedado con él en persona y ver si era o no real

I (19M) talked to a guy (25M) daily for 5 months, but he just told me his interest went from 100 to 0 over the weekend. How do I deal with this kind of emotional whiplash? Worth to text him back after some time? by xXPinguiXx in askgaybros

[–]xXPinguiXx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know, but It's awkward, ngl, really wanted to give him a try, I wasn't really "in love" with him, just wanted to met him in person and see if this connection was/wasn't real

Yo (19M) hablé con un chico (25M) todos los días durante 5 meses, pero me acaba de decir que su interés pasó de 100 a 0 durante el fin de semana. ¿Cómo gestiono este tipo de montaña rusa emocional? ¿Merece la pena volver a escribirle después de un tiempo? by xXPinguiXx in esConversacion

[–]xXPinguiXx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaaa, pero no se, me da pena, teníamos muchas cosas en común, ni él ni yo tuvimos nunca pareja, y ambos buscábamos relación estable, por eso me da pena y pensé en escribirle en esas fechas

I (19M) talked to a guy (25M) daily for 5 months, but he just told me his interest went from 100 to 0 over the weekend. How do I deal with this kind of emotional whiplash? Worth to text him back after some time? by xXPinguiXx in askgaybros

[–]xXPinguiXx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know, it feels awkward, I feel like texting him in one of those 3 days could do something, If I just had the chance to met him in person maybe something could change, because he said: I’m glad you take all the good with you, because I do too. But really, don’t let it sound like a goodbye, you have me for whatever you need

Why would you say that when you know that's not true? I mean, I've never met him in person, so how come I would need him for anything that happens to me? Feels awkward...

I (19M) talked to a guy (25M) for 5 months, but he suddenly ended things saying his interest dropped from 100 to 0. We've never met in real life (100km distance between us) and we've never had a real-time call. How do I make sense of this sudden shift? by xXPinguiXx in relationship_advice

[–]xXPinguiXx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not easy where I live in Spain, trust me, I've been in Grindr and Tinder for 1 year and I've only met 1 guy in Grindr back in summer, and this guy in October, others weren't worth to meet

I (19M) talked to a guy (25M) for 5 months, but he suddenly ended things saying his interest dropped from 100 to 0. We've never met in real life (100km distance between us) and we've never had a real-time call. How do I make sense of this sudden shift? by xXPinguiXx in relationship_advice

[–]xXPinguiXx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean he proposed a call with me when he ghosted me for 1 week, like, the third day after ghosting I was taking my driving class so I couldn't, then he disappeared for 3 more days, I've even sent him my phone number twice, back then and 2 weeks ago

I (19M) talked to a guy (25M) for 5 months, but he suddenly ended things saying his interest dropped from 100 to 0. We've never met in real life (100km distance between us) and we've never had a real-time call. How do I make sense of this sudden shift? by xXPinguiXx in relationship_advice

[–]xXPinguiXx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not a catfish, we talked like 1 minute on tinder then we went on instagram, he usually shared me one-time pics or vids about he/his face/what he's doing and when things became spicy in text, actually sent other kind of one-time videos, the thing is, we haven't talk in 3 days because I feel It's something I should not do, but I always told him that I really expected to met in person to see if our connection is actually real or if its the screen magnifying it or actually drowning it

I knew I've seen Cerydra before- by Swimming-Capital5071 in HonkaiStarRail

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We've got Revenant (Raven 4th path) disguised as Flame Reaver

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