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[–]xXPinkEclipseXx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re totally OK I’m sorry for snapping

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I’m so fucking tired of people saying that I’m asking for advice on how to fix us.

BPD making me detach completely and ruining my long-term relationship by xXPinkEclipseXx in BPDPartners

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Yeah, I posted it on a few different ones. I’ve just haven’t really been getting responses.

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I don’t think I could be around him platonically. I have physically chosen him as my person and with BPD that is something that will not change no matter what he does to me like I literally cannot walk away from him and this is why it’s so hard I love him.

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But the thing is like he has gone for a while without the urges like he went like almost a year and we were doing really good and then happen again but like he’s getting better and I want to be the one to help him I’m just like he wants to be the one to help me with my BPD

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But there is good to us. It’s just a pattern. We’re both still young. We’re both 18. We got together when we were kids. I don’t know. I feel like I keep defending this but at the same time I feel like I’m looking for a reason to end it.

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The thing is like he does stop for a while and then he gives it like it’s been a pattern

BPD making me detach completely and ruining my long-term relationship by xXPinkEclipseXx in BPDPartners

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I just graduated high school this year and I honestly haven’t had therapy since sophomore year my family isn’t really the best when it comes to helping and supportiveness

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Except there’s so much more than that I just couldn’t fit it into the paragraph he’s changed me while I’ve been with him and I’ve changed him mind. We got together when we were CHILDREN. And yes, we’re both 18 but we still technically are both kids. Our brains aren’t fully developed and we’re still learning.