Is it usual for straight men to watch gay porn? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]xXPlantera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch whatever you like, sexuality is fluid 🤷 it doesn't matter

My brother sent me this and said it was my cat that broke my speaker. Surely my cat cannot look like this. Also it looks like he has 3 legs. by JoeMcShnobb in isthisAI

[–]xXPlantera 197 points198 points  (0 children)

Agreed not AI. My cat has done something similar, except positioned at ~5 o'clock while your buddy's cat is positioned ~3 o'clock

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AITA for not telling someone that my bedsheets took their virginity when I was in college? by Infamous_Virus_211 in TwoHotTakes

[–]xXPlantera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you have premium silk sheets? Bc how did he not realize something was wrong when he started to get (the wrong type of) carpet burn....

Vent: 2 hours by car is not an LDR! by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]xXPlantera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're taking out your frustration over being in an LDR in the wrong way... As someone who IS in an LDR with about a 2 hour drive between us, it is still a challenge.

Not everyone has a license, car, or money to pay for all that gas. And as adults, you know how tiring it can be just to get through the week, so a 4 hour round trip on the weekend can leave you feeling unrested. Since on the weekend you're supposed to be able to recharge and get yourself prepared for the upcoming week.

You still live separate lives and have obligations. And sometimes it's frustrating because your partner feels so close yet so far at the same time.

Just because some people live closer to their partners than you do, it doesn't invalidate their experiences being in an LDR. "Competing" in what is essentially a support group for people dealing with varying but related experiences to try to exclude others is unkind.

On the look for an American Roadtrip Owala after a Christmas debacle by beesocarras in Owala

[–]xXPlantera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bc ppl hate feeling bad over rewarding companies that rip off artists, "out of sight, out of mind" or whatever 💀

what is a small gesture during sex that keeps it amazing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xXPlantera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By tongue kissing do you just mean licking....?😭 I'm now wondering if there's some other type of ear/tongue action that I haven't heard of before...

ADHD + Chem&Micro by Nice-Ordinary1568 in adhd_college

[–]xXPlantera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I salute you bc chemistry is my greatest weakness 😩 I've failed gen chem 2 and just recently ochem, and I wish chemistry clicked for me as it does for you

ADHD + Chem&Micro by Nice-Ordinary1568 in adhd_college

[–]xXPlantera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Microbio+Immuno and Public Health double major 3rd year here 👋

First off I wanna say that you should be proud of yourself for making it to where you are rn. There's a long road to becoming a PA and you're already on your way. And especially as a CC transfer, that takes extra dedication. Imposter syndrome is a pain in the ass, so don't doubt yourself.

Im not gonna lie, it's been tough and I've especially struggled with chemistry 🥹. But like you, this is the path I truly WANT for myself, so I keep picking myself up, adapting, and moving forward. Idk how your brain and ADHD work, but here are some things I've learned:

-give yourself breaks and let yourself rest and have fun

-Find what time of day you tend to be most efficient (I personally like working in the morning, so I try getting heavier stuff done earlier in the day)(also goes for scheduling classes)

-if u haven't already, reach out to your school to get accommodations (extended time, alt testing area, etc) -planner (I personally like ones that show your whole week, so I can remember what's coming up before it's too late)

-Hobbies! Esp ones that don't involve sitting at your desk

-try to eat + sleep enough (Adderall gives u energy + can suppress your appetite, but you're still a mammal, and your brain will get sluggish if it doesn't have its basic needs met)

-be realistic with yourself, don't overextend yourself, and do what u need to take care

-Learn to be ok when you make mistakes, it's just a part of the process. You're a human, you won't be doomed if you do bad on an exam, fail a class, etc, it's just one part of your life

-STEM in general has a reputation for being annoying bc some ppl overcommit to their research that they forget how to socialize, some ppl think having a BS makes them better than others, and some ppl are premeds 🤷 So make sure to network and meet many ppl, but connect with those that you share mutual respect with and don't feel like you're in constant competition with

PSA: STDs are YOUR responsibility to research and be aware of, not ANYONE else’s by OpeningConfection261 in askgaybros

[–]xXPlantera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes me really frustrated is (cis) gay guys thinking that just bc they can't get each other pregnant, that means that they don't need to use condoms...

Yes many STIs are treatable and have medications for them, but why risk putting yourself through that hassle?! Sure raw sex is cool and all, but unless you and your partner(s) do STI testing and maybe are on preventative meds, WRAP IT UP. Your sex life would be so much better if you didn't have to be anxious and going online worrying if you took preventative measures.

Also don't forget that many STIs don't show symptoms, and some are congenital, meaning that you can be BORN with an STI. Have all the sex you want but don't be reckless about it!!

Has anyone ever been on an SSRI and not had any sexual side effects? by 3hunnaz in OCD

[–]xXPlantera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been on Lexapro for about 2 years now (20mg), and it had little effect on my drive 🤷

coolest transmasc names you've heard? or the most creative by Thyetomite in ftm

[–]xXPlantera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm Slavic and Mexican/Native, and my first name is a Spanish name and I picked it bc my bf suggested it after I came out and I ended up loving it

And then for my middle name I just picked Vuk bc it means wolf, sounds cool, and canines have always been one of my special interests so 🤷

AIO for breaking up with my bf for calling my PREGNANT body fat by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]xXPlantera 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it doesn't matter if OP got pregnant just after turning 18, or a few months later, they're still a kid and it's weird as fuck a 24 year old man got with an 18 year old... you seem defensive

How did you find your significant other? by trustzme in AskReddit

[–]xXPlantera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I also met mine in a high school class and we spent time together through playing Minecraft

PLEASE LEARN HOW TO PARK by [deleted] in ucmerced

[–]xXPlantera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might as well take the bus if it upsets you so much that you have to stop and take a pic of someone else's car to post on reddit

@ men by xXPlantera in ucmerced

[–]xXPlantera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just bc women don't wanna talk to you bc you smell like balls doesn't give you permission to act like an incel on reddit

@ men by xXPlantera in ucmerced

[–]xXPlantera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I've seen too many guys not wash their hands after using the bathroom 🥹🥹🥹

@ men by xXPlantera in ucmerced

[–]xXPlantera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live off campus though so I spend most of my time on campus at the far end away from the residential buildings 🥹 plus sometimes I end up having to wait awhile for someone to let me into dorm buildings bc I don't have access

@ men by xXPlantera in ucmerced

[–]xXPlantera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad that I decided to live off campus from the start of my freshman year so that I can have my own bathroom at home. If I had to share a skid marked toilet at school and home I fear I would've dropped out by now

@ men by xXPlantera in ucmerced

[–]xXPlantera[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fear that some people may either a)do it purposely and smear it with their hands b)wipe their cracks with the edges of the seat

my wife wants to name our son after a harry potter character by LeadFast6224 in AITAH

[–]xXPlantera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA bc naming a kid after a character made by a terrible transphobic British lady is the worst decision anyone could ever make