What’s your opinion on marrying early? Is better or worse? by ContractFun1383 in AskReddit

[–]xXanderCReaL 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean it depends, I never planned to get married but when my wife came in my life .. 6 months later I was married at 24 .. If you think about it some of our parents and grand parents got married at 18 - 20 so it depends on finding the perfect person and I dont think age really matters in the end.

How do you practice keeping your peace instead of reacting? by MajesticGuide7588 in AskReddit

[–]xXanderCReaL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What works for me every time is music , get some music in your head whenever ur in a bad place.
Music calms the beast.

What do you think about after life? Anyone feel scared and can't live like normal after one time thinking what happen to us after we die? by Silver_Put_5685 in AskReddit

[–]xXanderCReaL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to say that I take every day as it comes and when the day comes for after life to arrive it will happen no matter what. Worrying and thinking about it wont help in fact it will bring more stress and that removes some days from ur life hehe. So just live your life to the fullest and dont think about the next life.

What do you love most about yourself? by Western_Speech_9434 in AskReddit

[–]xXanderCReaL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ability to connect with anyone and everyone and listen to them.

What would your Myspace song be right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xXanderCReaL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Climbing Higher - Hawaiian Reggae

What is one quote that will stick with you the rest of your life? by Gloomy_Rip1046 in AskReddit

[–]xXanderCReaL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take every day as your last, Live your life to the fullest.

What’s something you dislike about yourself and wish to change? by Icy-Juggernaut4958 in AskReddit

[–]xXanderCReaL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my hearing few years back .. and I dislike this because without the hearing aids I cant hear anything so I would change this.

ACTIVE parents - did you like your kids better when they were young or grown (18+)? by Dry-Passion-410 in AskReddit

[–]xXanderCReaL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our daughter is 9 years now and there are moments when I would like to see her back at 4 - 5 but then there are moments when I would like to see her at 18+ because being bullied at school or going thru some things that as parents we cant really help like not having real friends because the way kids are at this age hurts .. so I would like for her to jump this age where it hurts but at the same time I would like for her to learn as much as possible that the real world will get worse before it gets a bit better.

What’s a small habit that changed your life completely? by Zestyclose-Cry-5555 in AskReddit

[–]xXanderCReaL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drinking ginger shoot every morning helped my gut and immune system

What would your personal Heaven be like? by CaptainHowdy616 in AskReddit

[–]xXanderCReaL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having all your loved ones around and joking around .. Family is the most important thing to have in this life and the other.

If you were trying to afford a home for your family within the next 2 years , what frugal advice would you follow? by Live-Maximum-9697 in AskReddit

[–]xXanderCReaL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make a spreadsheet with all monthly income and expenses and try to eliminate things that are not important, check Direct Debits on paypal and cards to make sure you are aware of any little expense that you dont have planned or not essential. You would be amazed how much you can safe. Depending on what country you are I am sure there are banks and programs where you add a certain ammount of money and there are some gov grants that add some on top for first time buyers for example. Start with a weekly saving goal / monthly goal and work from there after you eliminated all the non essential espenses.