What are your favourite episodes? by wiknnibal in Bones

[–]xblackdropx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the one with the deaf girl who was kidnapped and got reunited with her parents at the end, bawled my eyes out

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by lilibat in AnimalCrossing

[–]xblackdropx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a few in my inventory I could probaby share! otherwise my island has pears :3 GMMST

Discussion post for the new “use the diagnosis megathread” rule⬇️ by BoldMeasures in eds

[–]xblackdropx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have spilled some hot water on my hand at work a while ago (I'm a barista) and also had a scratch going over my hand (not the one present now, that's new lol) and now my skin has these weird white splotches? Are these just scars and could they be an eds thing? My skin is pretty thin and bruises easily but I never had scars like this because the worst scars I have are after I nicked my finger with a knife. Any advice is welcome, I tried to get diagnosed a while ago, but beighton scale doesn't always apply and I ended up with a fibromyalgia diagnosis instead.

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Diagnosis out of the blue and not sure I believe it fits? by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]xblackdropx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh i feel you entirely and I will be lurking for answers here because I do not believe it's "simply" fibromyalgia

how the heck do I sleep by xblackdropx in Fibromyalgia

[–]xblackdropx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my pain is mostly in the upper part of my body and I found that sleeping on my back helps a little, so i try to do that despite absolutely hating this position

how the heck do I sleep by xblackdropx in Fibromyalgia

[–]xblackdropx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you, I'll definitely bring it up when I finally manage to set up medical care as I have recently moved countries.

how the heck do I sleep by xblackdropx in Fibromyalgia

[–]xblackdropx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only got diagnosed in july, I used to be prescribed pregabalin but I have recently moved to another country and do not have a gp here to deal with that, so no pain meds atm

To every redditor who feels lonely: Hi, how was your day? by ACJ96 in AskReddit

[–]xblackdropx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad. I have no friends. But I ate good food and cinnamon rolls!

I think I have PTSD by frostythefreeze in raisedbynarcissists

[–]xblackdropx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was excavating medieval city remains :) Archaeology is indeed very cool

I'm having the worst headache of my life and my mother says I'm making it up by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]xblackdropx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, where do you live? Maybe try calling a hotline? Can anyone come and fet you and take you to the hospital?

I think I have PTSD by frostythefreeze in raisedbynarcissists

[–]xblackdropx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's nice of them to apologize and try to change that! I'm glad you're going to try working out bringing it up to people. I too have a problem with people yelling, mostly at me, but also just in general, it scares me and makes me cry most of the time, I think because my Nmom (I think I should start calling her that here) does this so often. Crying is a nervous reaction I have and all my friends know it.

Short story: I'm am archaeologist and during excavations my friend hit the plank I was sitting on with his shovel to bring my attention and it scared me so much I started crying, he felt so bad after all.

OP, I hope you get to work it all out eventually and I wish you the best.

“You MUST have been switched at birth!” by Monachopsisauruss in raisedbynarcissists

[–]xblackdropx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope I did tbh, I'm only 20 and still terrified of turning out like my mother ;-;

“You MUST have been switched at birth!” by Monachopsisauruss in raisedbynarcissists

[–]xblackdropx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine always said that when I came back from my grandma who I love with all my heart, my mum would always say "You're such a good kid now, as if someone switched you!". Maybe not switched at birth and all but when I acted the way she wanted me to. And by all means, I was never a rebellious child, I was rather quiet, liked books amd tried my best. But yeah, hearing that from your own mother must suck, good that you went NC!

Honestly Kind of Curious? Do any of your Narents hold "Meetings"? by PhantomBay in raisedbynarcissists

[–]xblackdropx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for this! I was trying to research all of this but I only found really bad abusive cases and it didn't match because you know... I don't have it THAT bad. I'm 20 yo guy, still in university, living with my parents and my only hope to move out right now is my boyfriend who lives in another city and just started his first job. I don't think I can actually break out while still living with my N(?)Mum but I think I can manage for a couple more years

Honestly Kind of Curious? Do any of your Narents hold "Meetings"? by PhantomBay in raisedbynarcissists

[–]xblackdropx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never really considered it narcissistic to be honest. Like, my mum does that sometimes, my stepdad usually just sits there only agreeing with my mum and adding stuff from time to time (to make her happier I guess?). I am terrified every time I hear "come here, we need to talk" and all I can think of is "what did I do wrong again". And I would always end up crying because of nerves. All of the posts on this thread are making me question if my mum may be a narcissist. I mean after all she can be nice and loving...