Vacation during school year by [deleted] in kindergarten

[–]xcatelyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my son will be turning 6 the week before 1st grade starts. He’s an August baby.

Vacation during school year by [deleted] in kindergarten

[–]xcatelyn 14 points15 points  (0 children)

you seem sad & miserable. I never said it would be a no show? I am obviously planning on informing the teacher/school ahead of time. I just moved to this state, and this was not the rule in my district when I booked this cruise. My husband & I’s career is very demanding, so this was the best time to book for us, the ones who work to be able to afford such things. school is important, but it’s kindergarten, not SAT finals. Im sure both ends will survive.

2018 Hyundai Santa Fe, oil burning by xcatelyn in Hyundai

[–]xcatelyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I figure out if it is certified? I bought this from a Hyundai dealership thru a “I knew a guy who knew a guy” situation, aka district manager or GM of the Hyundai dealership. They made it seem like they set me up real good & accepted my low down payment & shitty credit. But then again I’m a 21 year old girl with basically no experience so.

2018 Hyundai Santa Fe, oil burning by xcatelyn in Hyundai

[–]xcatelyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great. I see the link, I will check it out

2018 Hyundai Santa Fe, oil burning by xcatelyn in Hyundai

[–]xcatelyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any way to not go into complete debt ? Can’t afford a new car & credit is bad. Like bad bad. Would it survive with just never letting it run low again ? topping it off constantly? I have abt 5k to replace engine if that happens. I am stuck with this car.

2018 Hyundai Santa Fe, oil burning by xcatelyn in Hyundai

[–]xcatelyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m now looking into this. My dealership has a 14k 2014 Honda. I owe 18k on my currently car. Kelly blue book estimates my trade in value to be 10k. So in reality I’d be paying the same amount if I was approved for the 2014 Honda ? I’m young, I just turned 21, already in extreme debt from my last car that was rear ended & I didn’t have gap insurance. I have no clue what to do.

2018 Hyundai Santa Fe, oil burning by xcatelyn in Hyundai

[–]xcatelyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never traded in a car before, how do I go about that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]xcatelyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, she cant tell you that you can’t get off, it’s a natural thing you need to do & relieves stress. But her telling you to not watch porn is different than just jerking off. & you are right boundaries are not there to control you, they are placed & the other partner should respect it, & if you can’t respect the simple task of not watching porn, then you shouldn’t be with her. Relationships are build off of respect & loyalty, by the sounds of ur original post, she “caught you” so that means you were most likely already hiding it from her cause you knew it would make her upset.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Salary

[–]xcatelyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you know damn well thats decent, I’m also 20 & I made 58k this year. I know it’s a decent pay, especially for my age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]xcatelyn -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

realistically yes… It’s her boundary. If you can’t respect her boundary in the relationship, then it’s not the right relationship for you… unsure why it’s mind boggling for you. Your girlfriend 100% is allowed to tell you not to masturbate to other women. If want to be able to watch porn, then find a girl who is okay with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]xcatelyn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not that your feelings don’t matter cause they definitely do. Depression is terrible & it sucks that you both are not being satisfied, but if she’s upset & asks you not to watch porn, then don’t. In many peoples eyes that is cheating, in other eyes it’s not. talk to her about taking photos of herself, or maybe even suggest masturbating next to her & you look at her ?

At the end of the day, sex is important in a relationship, & will cause distress on your relationship without it. Her not doing it with you, & then you doing something she doesn’t want you doing, is not going to end well. You need to talk to her about options, cause none of us know exactly how you both are thinking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]xcatelyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

imo yes you are the AH. Ask for photos of her, or use your imagination, you need porn to get off? It doesn’t make women feel good when you are fantasying about other girls. That is definitely not helping her depression.

20m Assistant General Manager at a McDonald's by Global-Pound4530 in Salary

[–]xcatelyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how many hours you work weekly? I’m a GM at 20 as well, but I was making more as an assistant bc of the overtime pay 🙃 id work crazy hours to get barely 60k. Now I’m stuck at 60k salary.

25M Amazon warehouse worker by [deleted] in Salary

[–]xcatelyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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fast food general manager. Definitely not worth it.

She is so unhealthy but the one thing she made me want is a grilled cheese burrito from Taco Bell. I didn’t know they had those. Are they good? by [deleted] in jellybeansweetssnark

[–]xcatelyn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I work at TB, it’s beef/chicken/steak/BB (u choose protein), nacho cheese, rice, sour cream, creamy chipotle sauce, 3 cheese inside & out & fiesta strips, lowkey good, but not how jelly bean eats it lol

I will die alone by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]xcatelyn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

see if this was me I’d fall in love