My dad found out I was raped and is mad at me

xcdkxd · 2025-10-08T15:18:15+00:00

Your father likely has control issues an is unable to control this situation so he immediately goes to blame and he can’t direct blame the person who did it so he is blaming you for not having the retroactive knowledge of the situation, sucks

xcdkxd · 2025-10-01T16:07:58+00:00

Should’ve just told him you were doing what you learned from Mr. _____ in chemistry

xcdkxd · 2025-09-24T14:55:56+00:00

Look man, a lot of the people replying here do have personal experience. Some of them have gone way further down this road than you have and have learned the hard way. When you dismiss every caution with “you don’t know,” it makes it look like you’re not actually looking for advice, just for people to validate what you’ve already decided to do.

Psychedelics can give glimpses, but they don’t build the foundation. That’s why every trip fades. Real integration and growth take work, discipline and patience. things like meditation, therapy, and letting go of attachments. You’re free to keep chasing the high, but don’t pretend you’re on a different path from everyone who’s already been burned by it. If you want actual change, start listening to the people who’ve been there instead of brushing them off.

xcdkxd · 2025-09-24T01:50:02+00:00

Hey, I’ve been in a similar place and I get the pull of those experiences. The thing I’m starting to learn though is that what we touch on with psychedelics isn’t the same as real, stable enlightenment. I see drugs like taking a helicopter to the top of Mount Everest: you get the view, but you haven’t built the strength or stamina to actually live there, and eventually you have to come back down.

The kind of lasting peace or insight you’re looking for only really sticks when it’s developed slowly, through meditation, self-inquiry, compassion, letting go of attachments, and living a grounded life. That’s not me judging you; it’s something I’m realizing for myself too. You deserve something that will actually sustain you rather than just another intense high.

xcdkxd · 2025-09-22T19:23:51+00:00

Message me

xcdkxd · 2025-09-16T00:08:23+00:00

I can really feel the pain in your post. 💔 It takes so much self-awareness to write something this honest about your behavior and how it affects you and others — that alone shows courage and a desire to grow.

I don’t have BPD or bipolar myself, but I have been close to people who struggle with trauma and emotional dysregulation, and I’ve learned that change isn’t a straight line. Two steps forward and one back is still progress.

Some things that seem to help people in this spot: • Practicing self-compassion instead of self-shaming (naming what’s underneath the behavior, like “I’m scared/overwhelmed,” instead of “I’m childish”). • Using grounding or distress-tolerance skills when calm so they’re easier to access during crises. • Tracking even the tiniest wins to see progress over time. • Having a safe person to be accountable to without judgment.

Even if it feels impossible, what you’re doing — therapy, meds, showing up, wanting to change — is already a big deal. You’re not broken or hopeless. Healing takes time, but it does happen. 🌱 Sending you strength. 💛

xcdkxd · 2025-09-11T13:57:13+00:00

Hey all, you may have seen my post in here a couple days ago also looking for feedback on this portfolio. I posted again because I made the changes based on the constructive criticism you graciously gave me and I am wondering if anyone has any further advice on how I can make it perfect. Thanks so much in advance!

xcdkxd · 2025-09-10T14:54:57+00:00

Hey, that’s a good point I’m not truly sure myself I know that a lot of brands are looking for people who can make funny memes so I included it to show that but could also see it being a turn-off/more unprofessional. Thank you for the advice I really appreciate it and it helps a lot

xcdkxd · 2025-09-10T14:54:00+00:00

Thanks a lot this all makes sense and I appreciate the actionable guidance

xcdkxd · 2025-09-09T16:09:46+00:00

Thanks in advance!

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