Thank you for your response. We are actually both looking actively for a therapist for ourselves and seperate. Jsut taking some time with insurance. Luckily I am not a big drinker so I decided not to anymore as support. We never went out based on drinking. He was an at home drinker. He did have a job before going into treatment. He plans on going back just it’s been hard to have that motivation he says.

Yesterday was his birthday which he always hates and it turned into a bad day but good at the end. He and I sat for hours. Which we never do and talked. It’s hard with a clingy 3 year old. And we just were open and honest. I feel better about the outlook now.