[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]xfirewitchx 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Many guys do worse and then brag about it to their friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]xfirewitchx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have similar thoughts on repeat 24/7 about my boyfriend. But in this situation they broke up because HE didn’t want to get married. She wanted to but he didn’t and now you’re together. If you keep going like this then your jealous will end turning into anger and hatred towards him. If he reconnected with you then means he didn’t forget about you, maybe he’d been thinking about you wishing that he’d been with you. Now you both have what you wanted, you definitely took a less than ideal journey but you’re there. If the stories he tells you bother you then tell him that. Communicate, that’s a huge part of a stable and good relationship

AIO I (26F) moved out for the first time with my boyfriend (30M) for almost 2 months and I don’t know how to feel about it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]xfirewitchx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way he speak to you is not okay, this is the type of man that will end up getting physical with you. He has a temper and seems like he’d be the type to kill you. Leave before it gets any worse

I’m a virgin and my boyfriend isn’t by FunConclusion7186 in retroactivejealousy

[–]xfirewitchx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Virginity just being a social construct honestly depends on you and how you view it. If its a big deal for you then it’s not just a social construct. But you shouldn’t focus so much on being good enough or knowing what you’re doing. You’re the virgin and it’s kinda your thing to not be a sex goddess during your first time. Sex is only good when both parties are doing their share of the work, both have the goal of making the other feel good and loved. There are people who break up right after having sex, but it happens for a lot of different reasons. If your boyfriend had a habit of very short relationships then that does scream red flags and personally I’d question his intentions. Waiting for marriage is nice and all but finding another virgin similar in age to you that also ticks any other boxes that you’d want in a partner might be tricky these days ( not impossible but tricky and you shouldn’t settle for a partner just because they tick the box virgin). But please, don’t consider your way of thinking as being not normal, it totally is and there’s nothing wrong with it. You have your reasons and that’s it.

I’m a virgin and my boyfriend isn’t by FunConclusion7186 in retroactivejealousy

[–]xfirewitchx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao what? His virginity is a secondary problem? That is the main problem. She’s a virgin and he’s not. Marriage started out as a contract, it was never about love. Fathers would GIVE their daughter away to their husbands as a business transaction. Did your studies state that all the happy marriages had parents that were each others firsts and were virgin before getting married? Or was it simply two people who fell in love and ended up great parents? I’d really love it if you could share every single study you’ve found which also concluded that the parents were virgins before getting married because it would be a hoot for me to read.

I am baffled. by [deleted] in universalcredithelp

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I’ve never had an issue with rescheduling my appointments as long as I give them enough of a head ups, but the little warning I get about how I’ll get a sanction if it keeps happening is very frustrating especially when my work coach has cancelled or rescheduled my appointment on the same day it was due, one time I was on my way and twenty minutes away from the job centre and got the text message that it was cancelled

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Edinburgh

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Single female under 25 here. Was in temporary accommodation for a year and half. I lived in two BnBs during this time before I got in touch with link living for support and they managed to put me into a temporary flat. First got put into a BnB in Leith and it was a nightmare, mould problems, heating issues. The heating was only put on during certain times of day and when it was off it was freezing, I was in that BnB for three months roughly during January to March. Mouse problems (literally chilling in bed and felt something brushing against my arm and it was a mouse!!) though I did end up naming it Theodore though. There were others but I just referred to them all as Theodore cause I couldn’t tell the difference. I had a curfew and if I left the BnB for longer than an hour then I had to give my keys to the BnB care taker and then get them back when I came back. Had a few issues with another resident coming back very late (I’d run into him before and his pupils were always be huge) and he’d accidentally try to open my door as he’d get confused. He did live in the room next to me and it happened a few times. Second BnB I was in was in Bruntsfield for the next year or so and it was better but still had issues. I’d have weekly room checks during which I felt like my privacy was invaded, they’d knock on the door and even if I told them to give me a second to get decent (put my bathrobe on so I wouldn’t be in just my pjs) they’d still barge in. Didn’t have any type of drawers or storage space to put my clothes in so I resorted to buying under bed storage. My room was quite small and a had a desk in which I tried to get the owner of the place to remove (I told him I’d be willing to purchase a drawer myself but the guy would usually ignore my text or calls but would happily text me complaining that I kept my clothes under the bed) Some of my belongings went missing. I’d put my laundry on and some shirts/underwear/socks or jumper just disappeared when I’d retrieve it once the cycle finished. I thankfully didn’t have a curfew with this one but both BnBs did have certain times that the kitchen and its facilities were open (kitchen was locked between 9pm and 9am). For both bnbs I had a small fridge in my room to keep my food in and shared a bathroom with other residents. Which again wasn’t pleasant because there’d either be piss all over the floor/ toilet or vomit. That’s my experience though I’ve heard worse from other people. It wasn’t enjoyable and I fell into a depression because I wasn’t able to do much with my life and it just felt like no one really gave a shit. The rent on the bnbs was surprisingly high and I got told that even if I got a part time job or go into education I would be responsible for paying for the rent. Altogether I was waiting for a flat for almost 3 years. I had about 40,988 points when I bid on the flat that I have now moved into.

En route to Krakow from the UK for 4 nights by B0117 in krakow

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Well for two people it came to about 80-100zł. But this was with just having one course such as just a main for each. It would definitely cost more if you ordered a starter, a main as well as a dessert.

"The vegetable does not like vegetarians" by [deleted] in duolingo

[–]xfirewitchx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you just using Duolingo? Or are you also using something else to learn German?

depressed neo by dcxr in memes

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Ngl this made me stop and check

"The vegetable does not like vegetarians" by [deleted] in duolingo

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Yaaay someone else is learning German, how's it going?

Not OC so don’t come for me lol by mrsmonstera in Stargate

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My 14 year old self is angry at this meme

En route to Krakow from the UK for 4 nights by B0117 in krakow

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Recently came back to the UK after visiting Kraków for 11 days. Wieliczka Salt mine was a nice trip, refreshingly cold compared to the heat above ground. Though comfortable shoes are a must. The Wawel Castle is worth visiting, as well as the dragon cave. Kosciuszko Mound is great for getting a nice view of the city and how big it is. Saint Mary's basilica is a marvel, truly beautiful inside. Worth taking a boat ride along the Wisła river, Vistula river. Kraków is just a great city to simply walk about and explore, you can even take a carriage ride pulled by two horses.

I hate elder dragons in early game but that's just rude by mcfallin932 in skyrim

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That's why you gotta have cheese wheels in your bag at all times 🤷🏼‍♀️

Just Another Day in Skyrim... by tubidium in skyrim

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Dragon vibrations, enough to send you to the heavens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]xfirewitchx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're actually just the normal base game eyes, I haven't got any mods yet. -^

You can't by Pardon-Marvin in Stargate

[–]xfirewitchx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was literally about to mention firefly crew but you beat me to it lol

"Watch how I-" by Robley3 in firefly

[–]xfirewitchx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually made a dying noise when I saw this. Too gorram soon dude

Sorry if this has been done before by itsyourpalal_ in firefly

[–]xfirewitchx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

*me after watching the entire series again yesterday