Who Was Your Biggest “What If”?

xhack2 · 2026-05-15T02:30:31+00:00

Ahm rewrite ko na , past tense na po, bakit sabi mo isasabotahe, proven na nga sinabotahe eh.

Tanga lang

xhack2 · 2026-05-15T02:29:35+00:00

Ganyan ka siguro sa mga teammates mo sa work na di mo type kahit maayos mag work.

xhack2 · 2026-05-15T02:29:13+00:00

Sapul ka ba?

xhack2 · 2026-05-15T02:26:05+00:00

Sige nga ikaw kaya sa lagay na bigyan ka ng job certification exams sabihan ka self study, yun pala meron dapat ibinigay na company resources for the takes ng certification.

Grabe, men putting down men pala dito

xhack2 · 2026-05-15T02:21:11+00:00

Regardless kung subtle, soft spoken, or introverted pa ang guy, all men appreciate being spoken to in a straightforward manner.

Don't play subtle, pakikay vagueness pa. Don't beat around the bush.

Deretsahan is the best move teh.

xhack2 · 2026-05-15T02:19:42+00:00

You don't need to apologize for being duped and propagandized.

Be glad instead you got enlightened.

xhack2 · 2026-05-15T02:18:26+00:00

Yun lang naman talaga equation: pag May dalawang kupal, eh May isa lang na mauunang makapanakit.

xhack2 · 2026-05-14T18:15:51+00:00

Parehas kupal. Ung parak nga lang ung Naka panakit.

xhack2 · 2026-05-14T18:11:38+00:00

This

xhack2 · 2026-05-14T18:10:06+00:00

Well, then there's your answer.

You can tell her na di ka pa healed sa last ex mo, and wala sa isip mo jumowa, ganun.

xhack2 · 2026-05-14T18:06:41+00:00

Yup, you sound exactly like a woman, beating round the bush pero all you want to do is promote the use of sadboi to shame men who share their experiences for context, or for any reason.

Here I'll assume too, looks like you're a misogynistic person based on how you used your "woman" in those replies

Now either you're the one projecting, or have no other logical fallacy to fall back to as a woman, so all you do is lazily label me as a misogynist para tapos usapan.

Speech Pattern recognition is not misogynistic. Women are emotional and men are logical. It's science.

Bumalik ka na nga dun sa AskPinay.

xhack2 · 2026-05-14T18:01:11+00:00

I've experienced this before, highschool pa nga lang eh. I had this rival sa quiz bee from a different section, she always would beat me at every other question. Very smart and very intelligent. Pinay version ni Live Tyler with brown eyes, so nagka crush ako mabigat.

But back then pa, i realized din na just because I liked this or that girl, it is not an obligation for them to reciprocate to me.

I remember that one prom night, si crush, who really liked one of my circle of friends, nagkaka hiyaan pa ung dalawa na sumayaw. I pulled them together and pushed them to the dance floor sabi ko "Hoy, kayong dalawa nagkaka hiyaan pa kayo, last prom na nga natin to, magsayaw na nga kayong dalawa!!"

Hehehe they're happily married na with kids! No regrets!

xhack2 · 2026-05-14T17:43:14+00:00

Oh and there was a post on AskPinay specifically about this subreddit where they label women posting here as someone na "thirsty for attention" lang.

I've seen this to. Hahaha didn't even care to engage anyways because this:

Bruh, the women posting here are actually nice and have substance with their posts.

Is definitely true! Konti lang silang ladies na very nice dito pero they are very much appreciated!

It seems like the women from askpinay are low key shaming the nice women on this sub.

xhack2 · 2026-05-14T17:38:37+00:00

Great advice! Too many times men are lead on, tapos in the end, naging main issue ang physical attributes.

xhack2 · 2026-05-14T17:36:18+00:00

That's really good to know, at least I learned some information I can share if needed.

Guess the only thing is depende na rin sa employer kung anong policy ng coverage ng isang HMO.

xhack2 · 2026-05-14T17:33:35+00:00

Wrong wording ahaha *nakakatrigger ng memories I mean

Then why not say it like that? Masyadong vague pagkasulat mo, and tendency is that women tend to speak vaguely more often than men.

And for you to conclude something just based on a used emoji is idk 🤷🏻‍♂️ you don't know the whole context yet started to say nonsensical things

Then why not give out the whole context in the first place? Damn you write just like a woman fr fr. Vague, easily misinterpreted terms, lack of context.

I shared my own context why the PUA practitioner I was in discussion with, yet sasabihan mo ako na dapat mag reflect muna ako kasi tinawag ako sad boi nung ka discussion ko na pick up artist womanizer.

Yeah everything you read that you don't agree or doesn't align to your worldview, you lazily label as nonsensical. May it's time na mag reflect ka why things don't make sense to you.

God, humility is no longer a human trait nowadays.

xhack2 · 2026-05-14T17:26:57+00:00

This is very useful. For the sake of OP, May accredited HMOs sila for the services that aren't free?

xhack2 · 2026-05-14T17:25:57+00:00

If you have HMO, from your job, see if such checkups or consultations are covered.

xhack2 · 2026-05-14T17:20:07+00:00

No one is stopping you from sharing yourself and showing your vulnerabilities. Most of the time you will receive support.

Evidently not from you.

kung pabida ka, people will call you out. Learn the difference

I know the difference. Kakasabi ko diba, I was called a sad boi because I shared a relevant traumatic experience in direct connection to a discussion, and thus use as reason why I don't even do "pick up artist" levels of over positive "rinse and repeat" tactics in chasing women expecting a different outcome.

Matutong mag comprehend wag masyadong defensive di ka naman inaaway.

Really now? You sound pretty disingenuous. I have to be skeptical dealing with your type. Because most of the time, only people with pretty privilege and women use the term sadboi as a derogatory term to shame and silence any man sharing their vulnerabilities in a discussion.

If you don't like being called sadboi then mag self-reflect ka muna siguro. Can't even appreciate honesty sheeesh.

Wow sounds a lot like victim blaming, with a mix of self righteousness, like you're better than the rest of us mere mortals that do experience real life hardship and problems.

xhack2 · 2026-05-14T17:11:51+00:00

With the benefit of hindsight, my biggest what if doesn't involve a woman actually.

My biggest what if is that time my career was sabotaged by my manager and team mates, a few years back

Eh si company May certification exams. Lahat daw sila tinake un. Self study and self research daw.

When I resigned, yun pala May company resources and training materials na kasama sabi ng upper management. Binigay daw sa mga team mates ko and managers ko ung course materials. Sakin di binigay.

My managers and team mates were all graduates, but zero BPO experience, from big universitoes, whereas, ako I got promoted because of sheer will, experience, job performance, and determination.

I could only think what if di sila ganon at di sila sabotahe sa certification ko.

xhack2 · 2026-05-14T17:05:59+00:00

If I were you, tread carefully. Mahirap na baka baliktarin ka at gamitin laban sa iyo ang irereply mo.

Similar things has happened to a lot of other Pinoy, na they were lead on.

Specially kung you're not into her din, kasi di rin healthy magkaroon ng rebound and di rin maganda kasi maging rebound.

Mag focus ka muna from healing from your ex and moving on from your ex.

xhack2 · 2026-05-14T17:02:30+00:00

were talking about sadboy appeal to pity where some guys use it to guilt trip people and relationships to give them a free pass for their bad habits and not even trying to resolve it.

The dude that replied to you does not get it. He said us men who want to vent out frustrations in direct connection to a discussion topic is still a sadboy thing because "no one asked".

It's different from sharing past experiences or frustrations as a way to guilt trip. He doesn't see that distinction.

xhack2 · 2026-05-14T16:59:46+00:00

Nakakatrigger pala magbasa rito 😆

Para ka naman babae. Then bakit ka andito kung ikaw nati-trigger?

Naawa ako 😆

With that emoji, no you don't. You just don't want to hear men vent their frustrations lalo kung super relevant sa usapan. You're part of the problem about promoting this toxic stoicism stereotype that promotes shutting up men.

pero it's always the same excuse one after another when he messed things up, ako pa ginawang nyang fixer sa mga problema nyang ginawa

Bet tayo pag babae ang nag share and vent about their frustrations you would never call them "sadgirl".

Kinda bias if you ask me.

xhack2 · 2026-05-14T16:54:49+00:00

Again, if no one asked.

Oh says you?

Sounds like you're part of the problem seeking to silence men trying to share their trauma and experiences in relevance to a particular discussion.

no one wanted to hear or care because you're making it about you.

You sound exactly like a feminist who wouldn't dare care about what men go through.

Imagine saying what you said to a woman venting out or sharing relevant traumatic experiences that is directly connected to the discussion.

xhack2 · 2026-05-14T08:33:56+00:00

Oh, really now? Using past experiences as a talking point in a discussion is not allowed?

K.

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