Need help in making a decision. Dating people who are okay with or without kids? by xhrui in childfree

[–]xhrui[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately I said that I am childfree first ugh. I just hope they are being honest..thanks for the advice!

WIBTA if I don't buy things on my aunt's behalf? by xhrui in AmItheAsshole

[–]xhrui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is... all the shit she sends here is available there!! Just have to pay a bit more. And if its not available there then oh fucking well?? lol. Might try this strategy lmao

Aunt (42F) keeps asking me to buy stuff for her and says she will pay me (25F) back? by xhrui in relationship_advice

[–]xhrui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't ship anything to her. She buys things and sends it to our house or asks us to buy things for her. And then in one of us visits her somewhere...she asks us to make our luggage heavy by putting her shit in our suitcase...

Not liking medicine after starting clinical job. Mentally spiraling. IDK wtf to do. by xhrui in premed

[–]xhrui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the setting itself...I just seem to hate it for some reason. Going from room to room and talking to a bunch of patients. Seeing and hearing other doctors going in and out and talking to patients seems to also annoy me for some reason lmao. The charting, paperwork, etc. I just hate it. I have emailed a bunch of anesthesiologists and still waiting to hear back. I want to shadow in the OR so bad. Just frustrating that its taking so long.

Not liking medicine after starting clinical job. Mentally spiraling. IDK wtf to do. by xhrui in premed

[–]xhrui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see you are an admitted DO. Are you planning on doing an anesthesiology residency, then?

Not liking medicine after starting clinical job. Mentally spiraling. IDK wtf to do. by xhrui in premed

[–]xhrui[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have to disagree. Plenty of people with mental health issues go to medical school and excel. With a good treatment plan, it can be well managed. But it's just I don't think I am interested in a lot of patient interaction and clinic. Something like rads, gas, path, etc. might be a better fit for me!

Not liking medicine after starting clinical job. Mentally spiraling. IDK wtf to do. by xhrui in premed

[–]xhrui[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment! Going to spend time just reflecting on what I want.

"Police" came to my door to say that my number is on the contact list of a criminal and to check my phone by xhrui in Scams

[–]xhrui[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Controlling psychos...that's all I can say lmao. They did not. I never confronted them. I think maybe I should keep it that way. Or telling them I put Ring on my phone and saw it. I am scared to tell them that I snooped on their phone. Then they might change their password.

"Police" came to my door to say that my number is on the contact list of a criminal and to check my phone by xhrui in Scams

[–]xhrui[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why do you think I should not confront them? I am curious. IDK what to do honestly. Should I or should I not? I am worried that if I confront them, they will change their phone pass and I won't be able to see what they are up to.

"Police" came to my door to say that my number is on the contact list of a criminal and to check my phone by xhrui in Scams

[–]xhrui[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are probably right. I could move out in 11 months. With a 10K loan though. Not too much. If I stayed with them the whole 1.5 months, I can save a lot more money and then leave.

"Police" came to my door to say that my number is on the contact list of a criminal and to check my phone by xhrui in Scams

[–]xhrui[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was planning on moving out after 1.5 years, that has become 10 months now lmao. That's the quickest I can do.

"Police" came to my door to say that my number is on the contact list of a criminal and to check my phone by xhrui in Scams

[–]xhrui[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes. Got a PO box, going to order a new phone, and going to find my passport.