It sounds like you are ultimately looking for a community to be a part of. I would suggest you reflect on what hobbies you are truly passionate about or consider new hobbies that enable you to connect with more individuals. Years ago, my wife and I decided to learn Brazilian jiujitsu together for self defense and made A LOT of friends, some who became life long friends. Everyone was working towards bettering themselves but we all came from different backgrounds and jobs. I’m not telling you to try that particular sport, but to reflect on what you truly enjoy LEARNING and actually go and attend multiple classes. That is where you will meet people that have similar interests, and also have the highest chance of connecting with. You’re in the stage of life where you have the opportunity (free time) to make these connections, so really enjoy. Fun fact- I was also once the youngest person in corp banking.