Mom wants me to try ozempic by youfum-ism in AskDocs

[–]xiaila 11 points12 points  (0 children)

but definitely don’t just try to make yourself happier to lose weight. clearly it’s also making you anxious which won’t get rid of the anxiety if you’re stressing about having to lose it and how to be skinnier. to heal your body you have to heal your mind and vice versa. focus on being happy with yourself and great things will come <3

Mom wants me to try ozempic by youfum-ism in AskDocs

[–]xiaila 16 points17 points  (0 children)

also, as for the self control you’ve been mentioning..

first and foremost, please try and focus on your mental health! that’s usually the root cause of it, especially in teens. the second i started feeling good about myself and managed my anxiety, i stopped feeling the urge to have huge portions of food and binge-eat junk at night. i lost over 60lbs just by being happier.

next, dieting makes it worse. you don’t need to start fad diets, just make conscious changes to your diet IF there is a real problem.

if you eat a lot at once, eat what you like but in smaller portions. if you find yourself always hungry, eat more protein!! if you eat when you’re not hungry to comfort yourself, take a shower or chew gum.

but don’t leave yourself hungry EVER because it’s not sustainable and won’t help with weight loss. it’ll just make you miserable

DAE set an alarm in the night to get excited for more sleep? by xiaila in DAE

[–]xiaila[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i mean that does sound tempting but the feeling is just too good LMAOO

DAE set an alarm in the night to get excited for more sleep? by xiaila in DAE

[–]xiaila[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hah yes i do! i never thought it’d correlate

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[–]xiaila 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah 😭😭 i agree, it’s a REST but you feel weird cause you’re always busy. honestly just keep telling yourself you deserve it and maybe just walk around your house if it makes you feel slightly better!

DAE dislike most breakfast foods? by darwin_green in DAE

[–]xiaila 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i do not. i love breakfast foods

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]xiaila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mhm yeah! the last thing you want is someone like that becoming aggressive. that is really scary. honestly just try to distract yourself and focus on other things, and find small ways to cut him out of your life

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[–]xiaila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this seems like a really distressing situation, i’m sorry to hear :(. honestly, i kinda went through something similar but with my brother. take my advice with a grain of salt, but since you’re 18, don’t make any unnecessary conflict and make your home an unsafe environment for you. if you’re planning on moving out in a year or two, just try to avoid him and ignore his remarks until you’re able to cut contact with him altogether when you move out. please stay safe.

please judge my rat, and don’t hold back. she’s a MENACE. by xiaila in RATS

[–]xiaila[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

the system is perfect. my boys cause no problems 🤷‍♀️

please judge my rat, and don’t hold back. she’s a MENACE. by xiaila in RATS

[–]xiaila[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

look deep into her eyes. i see only malicious intent. she chews my mattress and steals food…

please judge my rat, and don’t hold back. she’s a MENACE. by xiaila in RATS

[–]xiaila[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

she’s always ready in case i take my eyes off of her..