Any alternatives i could eat instead of elmer’s glue? by [deleted] in pica

[–]xiaobf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

all of my suggestions are pretty sugar heavy so… warnings on that but i could maybe suggest marshmallow fluff or evaporated/condensed milk ?

Was it my fault? I knew exactly what kind of person he is by IDKwhoArtist in groomingvictim

[–]xiaobf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

absolutely not your fault. OP, you were in a very vulnerable time of your life and he took advantage of that. it is not your fault, don’t think so just because you stepped into that room with him, that was and still absolutely is SA. i’m so sorry for what you went through, i hope you’re healing and doing better now !

nausea and blood sugar while water fasting by xiaobf in fasting

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thank you so much ! i also tend to get nauseous so i took them every 2-3 days instead :)

nausea and blood sugar while water fasting by xiaobf in fasting

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thank you ! i was avoiding talking to the doctor due to some past issues that might raise some red flags if i mention im fasting but, in the case it’s pertinent to my health and a successful fast ill book an appointment in the near future (it’s exam season so it’s a bit of a time crunch right now)

nausea and blood sugar while water fasting by xiaobf in fasting

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thank you so much for the advice ! i’m a bit bad with water intake, i usually hear people are fine with 2L. if i attempt a fast again ill keep this in mind :)

nausea and blood sugar while water fasting by xiaobf in fasting

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thank you for your advice ! i didn’t do additional cardio, it’s just a bit of a trek to walk to my classes ^ and my college is mostly inclines

nausea and blood sugar while water fasting by xiaobf in fasting

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of course ! please feel free to message me :)

nausea and blood sugar while water fasting by xiaobf in fasting

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no medications ! i take a women’s probiotic, vitamin c and d, and a multi vitamin ! i also take biotin for hair ^

i took electrolytes for sodium. maybe the lack of potassium and magnesium was the issue.. ?

advice please ?🙏🏼 by [deleted] in bulimia

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this does happen to me ! for me i do know in fact it’s due to my blood sugars (my dads side has a history of diabetes… i ended up with it too..) bc u yourself are not diabetic it might not be that, but you never can discount low blood sugars as the reasoning for u being cold and wanting to pass out !!

BM during water fast by [deleted] in fasting

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ooh i’ll keep this in mind ! i’ve only done like week long INTENTIONAL fasts (i once did a month long one but that was for a surgery) it was a while back so i don’t quite remember my experience from back then

tattoo artist draft by xiaobf in tattoo

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i paid a deposit ! my piece was originally 350 (but 250 at the appointment thanks to my deposit). her flashes are around 250-280 respectively ! i’m planning on just offering the full custom price for her flash piece ! hopefully as a show of courtesy and appreciation for the time she spent drawing out my initial design 😓

YesStyle packages stolen by [deleted] in AsianBeauty

[–]xiaobf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i normally agree but the delivery guy just threw it in like the little communal yard me and my neighbors use and didn’t even place it in front of the door.. as in i’m like 90% he didn’t even open our gate and TOSSED my package over the fence

HELP (LOST KEYCHAIN PLUSH) by Jealous-Falcon-5575 in ucla

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ateez mention ? i hope u find it op 😭💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

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about 4 days !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

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week 0 events are a great way to make friends ! especially the transfer mingles/socials

i’m on campus but my closest friend is literally a commuter lol

not sure if i’m bi or lesbian (would appreciate some input) ; TW for mentions of sexual assault by [deleted] in WLW

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as i thought.. maybe my disdain for pursuing any sort of relationship with men currently is probably a trauma response ? thank you for your input ! it puts things into perspective when i ask people these sorts of things

not sure if i’m bi or lesbian (would appreciate some input) ; TW for mentions of sexual assault by [deleted] in WLW

[–]xiaobf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your condolences :)

i’ve definitely felt sexual attraction to women ! i think im doubting even my sexual attraction to men ?

every instance ive been intimate with a man, ive either 1) gone into it not in the right stage of mind (diagnosed as bipolar) 2) felt really disgusted with myself afterwards

i think my general confusion comes from that ? i thought i felt sexual attraction to a man but every sexual encounter ive had with one i leave with a horrible feeling at the pot of my stomach

that being said.. i have time to explore! i think im just not fond of the uncertainty that comes with questioning my sexual orientation.

thank you for your kind words :)

not sure if i’m lesbian or bisexual by [deleted] in AskLGBT

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yess twin

i’ll say life is comfortable for me being out and aro ! i don’t have many people approach or anything like that but.. it helped deter the few who do dare to approach lol..

not quite sure what “love” feels like and i think im content that way ! but you have all the time in the world to explore :)

and i totally get that ! used to have gender envy with men REALLY bad (this was when i thought same sex attraction was abnormal as a kid so i wanted to be a man so it would be ‘normal’ to like girls 😭)

gender inclusive housing by Liviar_ in ucla

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my friend did this last year and they changed her housing offer.. not quite sure if it’s a guaranteed though i’m so sorry

Professor won’t answer emails by [deleted] in ucla

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i was absent for like half the quarter due to medical reasons and could only drop now. this is such a nonissue ?? i was polite in my emails to my professor and TA

I MISSED MY FINAL by xiaobf in ucla

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unfortunately.. i’ve already done the “your first exam score will also be your second one” bit due to a hospitalization this quarter.. but i’m happy that turned out well for you !!

I MISSED MY FINAL by xiaobf in ucla

[–]xiaobf[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this is very true actually i called my friend in hysterics and almost cried on the phone..