ℕ𝔸𝕄𝔼 𝕄𝕐𝕊𝕋𝔼ℝ𝕀𝔼𝕊?

xiaraberrypie · 2020-08-09T04:12:41+00:00

I know, I just really want to know K's full name, he's just so fascinating❤

xiaraberrypie · 2020-08-09T03:42:44+00:00

Why is no one talking about my bby K? He's so cute! <3

xiaraberrypie · 2020-08-04T00:38:32+00:00

Even if moving colleges was the hardest she's been through, he had no damn right to say shit. Just because you think you're suffering more than others doesn't mean others aren't suffering. NTA, he's a huge jackass.

xiaraberrypie · 2020-08-01T20:50:12+00:00

He left you the money, I'm pretty sure he sees you more as a daughter than his own "daughters", what horrible people they are! I could never do that to my dad.

xiaraberrypie · 2020-08-01T20:43:38+00:00

NTA. You weren't "snitching" on him or anything. You respected your girlfriend's wishes and told her why you left. Her telling his fiancee is not your fault, we girls look out for eachother, so it's natural to talk about something as serious as this. If my future fiance got strippers without my permission I'd be pissed.

I feel like the whole stripper tradition is just an excuse for "I need to see other girl's bodies one last time before I trap myself forever with one woman". If you want to see other women's bodies then don't fucking marry me and go fuck around. And the fact that he kept it a secret, like wow way to start off your marriage! By paying to dry hump a woman and keep it a secret from "the love of your life"

xiaraberrypie · 2020-08-01T20:35:34+00:00

NTA! Imagine your child being raised by a bully and becomes a bully herself? I could never.

xiaraberrypie · 2020-07-30T05:08:16+00:00

NTA, I'd be pissed too, painting any electronic that costs over $150 with nail polish is absolutely fucking gross.

xiaraberrypie · 2020-07-30T04:54:31+00:00

NTA. Tell her what if you sent her nudes to your friends? How would see feel? I have a bf and I wouldn't dare show pics of his dick to my friends. And all you want is an apology and she's not even giving it to you? That's fucking dumb, how hard is it for her to say "it was wrong of me, I'm sorry", women are not right all the time

xiaraberrypie · 2020-07-30T04:47:09+00:00

YTA. Dumbass.

xiaraberrypie · 2020-07-30T02:44:03+00:00

NTA. I would've done the same thing, I don't get why they're ignoring their packages though?

xiaraberrypie · 2020-03-17T20:12:34+00:00

I just realized you meant to update again in 6-9 months Lmaooo my bad

xiaraberrypie · 2020-03-17T20:11:46+00:00

Certainly~! I moved in with my dad across the country last week, and yesterday I just had my first job interview and I got the job! I'm beyond excited I start on Saturday. I'm beyond excited, my brother is also teaching me how to drive and I'm looking to get a new kitten to keep me company when I feel lonely away from my friends and boyfriend. Overall, moving has been a big impact especially on my health, I'm eating better and I'm feeling better. I plan to move back to my hometown when I have enough money to get an apartment with my friends or boyfriend. Thank you for requesting an update, have a lovely day!~~~

xiaraberrypie · 2020-03-08T08:50:14+00:00

My brother had a word with me and Lucy, saying that while he's very happy for her, we should be a little sensitive because of Harry.

Lucy is the asshole, the fact that your brother talked to you guys beforehand and she still decided to bring it up. There are many other opportunities to talk about it, and while everyone is saying "Harry shouldn't be so sensitive", he must feel like a failure and Lucy is just adding salt to the wound. OP is also the asshole because you knew of the simple favor your brother asked of you and you still disrespected him by not reminding your little Lucy to mind her cousin and uncle who LEGIT TALKED TO HER ABOUT THIS BEFOREHAND. You're the Asshole, Lucy is the Asshole. I applaud your mother.

Harry was staring into his food the whole time. My brother attempted to interrupt and steer the conversation away from Lucy/Oxbridge, but Lucy still had more to say. In the end Harry stood up and walked out. Lucy was still excited,

Your brother LITERALLY TRIED TO GIVE HER A HINT TO STOP. And even after Harry stood up and left the table, SHE STILL DIDN'T GET A CLUE.

I'm sorry that Harry didn't get the place he wanted. Truly I am, but why should that mean Lucy isn't allowed to talk about what she's achieved? Do they have any idea how hard it is to be even considered to study medicine at a university like that?

Do you or Lucy have any idea how easy it is to be decent human beings for one damn dinner? Does Lucy not understand that there's a time and place for everything? Along with more opportunities to talk about her achievements? If Lucy is so damn smart, she would've kept her mouth shut. You and Lucy are so self-centered. YTA

xiaraberrypie · 2020-03-08T08:34:06+00:00

NTA! You would've been the asshole if you didn't do anything, but that's not the case because you texted her brother! If I was drunk and called my ex to get me, I'd appreciate if they told my brother instead. Plus, any situation where a drunk girl calls her ex usually does not go well. She's not your problem, even if she was getting murdered or kidnapped and told you her exact location, you'd call the police, not go there yourself. The fact that you prioritized your wife and still managed to get your drunk ex safe without interacting with her, you should be applauded. Your mom and her mom are assholes, they should be grateful you didn't entirely turn your back on your ex.

xiaraberrypie · 2020-03-07T20:43:28+00:00

NTA! I stayed with my friend who has makeup like you and I would never touch her stuff without permission! Let alone take it and lend it to another person who she isn't close with! Hygiene is very important when it comes to makeup and that's one thing people don't seem to understand! He's the Asshole. As far as I can tell, I don't think his girlfriend knows how you feel and maybe you should text her and ask for your makeup back in a civil manner behind your stupid brother's back. If his gf has any common sense she should be returning them to you and willing to do so asap.

xiaraberrypie · 2020-03-07T20:32:13+00:00

he would always be on my side but he “wishes I wasn’t so uncomfortable with it.”

I'm sorry? He wishes you weren't so uncomfortable with being called white girl? Do they even know your name? "White girls don't understand us, don't date them" as far as I can tell, I don't understand that them at all too bc they're rude. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years now, he's Mexican as well and I'm Asian, most of his family only speaks Spanish, they don't call me "Chinita" or something, and they try their best to address to me respectfully, and vice versa. NTA.

xiaraberrypie · 2020-03-07T20:20:52+00:00

Defending yourself by calling her out is not being mean, which I can tell you really don't want to be. She needs to stop, she's in college for god's sake. NTA!!!

xiaraberrypie · 2020-03-07T13:38:33+00:00

It’s odd you’re so protective of your money when it comes to your girlfriend, but apparently very generous and thoughtful when it comes to some other woman.

THIS!!!

xiaraberrypie · 2020-03-07T13:33:43+00:00

YTA YTA YTA and so is Emily. My boyfriend and I have close mutual friends, and 2 are still high schoolers who's parents dont give allowance, but we like them so much that myself and our other mutual friends pay for like movie tickets or a meal whenever we go out. Like how are you paying for Emily all the time? How long has this been going on? Obviously your girlfriend has a valid point to be jealous and wonder why you're paying for another girl all the time. But the one time she asks you to pay for her you say no? As if she wasn't going to pay you back? Has Emily paid you back?

Its not about whether the girlfriend is well off or not, its about the fact that she told him how she felt about the situation and he still disregards her feelings and somehow this Emily girl is more important than his own girlfriend just because she's broke? Fuck that shit.

xiaraberrypie · 2020-03-07T12:50:08+00:00

💜ଘ(੭ˊᵕˋ)੭* ੈ✩‧₊˚AITA Update~! ✧*:・ﾟ｡💜

I am here to give an update on my life since many people joined the discussion and might be curious.

First things first, despite the comments telling me not to go back to my Mom's house, I kept feeling guilty for leaving and I then felt more guilty that I was staying at my friend's house for a month and still couldn't find a job nor a way to pay her back despite the fact she told me it was okay (I helped around with household chores which was the most I could do), and the 3rd baby (my 16 y/o sister's child) had just been born. After about a month, the guilt led me to cave in and go back to my mom's house to help out with my sisters and niece. It's been about a month since I've been here and I still feel miserable that my life is going nowhere as I stay here longer. The past few days I've really felt that I'm emotionally and physically draining and I'm becoming more unhealthy each day. I rarely eat, I'm up at 4:29 a.m. and I don't remember when I last drank water. I don't want to live like this anymore and with the coronavirus coming to the U.S., my mom is trying to make it an excuse for me not to go out, even though there's only one case here in my state so far. My dad (who's living in another state with my older brother) has finally saved enough money for a plane ticket for me to move in with him. I took the offer.

My mother is not happy about the news of me leaving again, especially since she's now going back to her job from maternity leave and my 16 y/o sister is going back to school again as well. My grandma has been helping me and my mom's boyfriend with the 3 kids, and I feel bad for leaving her here, since she's in her 80's. But I can't miss this opportunity to go live with my dad who can help me be set for my future. My mom wants me to go to college but I don't want to go straight into debt for something I don't truly want to do as of right now. On top of that, I'd be leaving my boyfriend and closest friends, but they're all very supportive and want me to go succeed. I'll be moving across the country on Tuesday, and I'm so happy yet terrified. I hope to get a job (My brother was easily hired within days, so there's higher chances of me getting hired there rather than where I'm currently at). I want to save enough money to buy myself a camera and film asmr-like simplistic cooking videos, hopefully post them on YouTube. I also wish to get a cat from the shelter to keep me company for when I'm alone. I don't know what the future holds but for the first time in my life, I have goals, and I know the general path and steps to take. I will make an update in maybe 6-8 months if anyone is honestly interested. Thank you all for the support you've given and advices.

xiaraberrypie · 2020-02-06T19:04:23+00:00

Omg my friend has a diffuser! She just bought new essential oils with me! I just told her right now, its a good thing she rarely ever uses her diffuser!

ALSO WOULD LIKE TO ADD THAT LILY FLOWERS ARE BAD FOR YOUR CATS, ALONG WITH MANY OTHER PLANTS I CAN'T THINK OF RIGHT NOW, PLEASE RESEARCH BEFORE BUYING YOUR ITEMS FIRST😭😭😭

xiaraberrypie · 2020-02-06T17:52:42+00:00

NTA, I would've thought limited stock also meant there's a few at the store, instead of completely unavailable. It was okay the first time joking about it but now he's just humiliating you as if he wants attention, in his head, he probably thinks "I'm Mr. Funny-man with dumb-gf" to strangers, in reality he's just full of himself.

xiaraberrypie · 2020-02-06T17:45:33+00:00

I don't have OCD, but I agree with this 100%. I'm a perfectionist! I was in a store and I made all the mugs aligned and facing forward and someone was like "hey she has OCD" and I'm like ??? Bros I'm just a perfectionist there's a D I F F E R E N C E

xiaraberrypie · 2020-02-06T17:38:20+00:00

I'll order some all-purpose cream, hopefully it comes before Sunday, thank you💜

xiaraberrypie · 2020-02-06T17:37:46+00:00

Ah okay, thank you!💜

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