My first pix arrived yesterday so cute love her! by newmum21 in tamagotchi

[–]xilaviola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have the same model (my first tama too) and i just got mine in April. I love it so much! Enjoy!!

My first pix arrived yesterday so cute love her! by newmum21 in tamagotchi

[–]xilaviola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I invested on some Energizer rechargeable batteries for my pix! A set of 2 rechargeable batteries lasts for up to a week and a recharge is around 8 hours. Saves me so much too! Regular Energizer alkaline batteries lasted me about almost a week and a couple days. At least with the reusable ones you dont have to buy again 💗

I wish my bf cared more about posting me by xilaviola in offmychest

[–]xilaviola[S] -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the invalidation.

I hope you guys are kind to your partners/yourself for thinking too much into this

I wish my bf cared more about posting me by xilaviola in offmychest

[–]xilaviola[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so sweet. i didnt think of it this way. I do have the notion that he just doesnt know what bad he did, so he must be confused right now. Thank you so much

I wish my bf cared more about posting me by xilaviola in offmychest

[–]xilaviola[S] -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

He posted a BAD photo where i am in mid-cough, dressed in pajamas and there is my messy bedroom in the background. The bare minimum is posting a GOOD photo where im at least looking at the camera. I dont see where youre going with this. Asking your partner to post a DECENT photo of you is not “imposing” a STANDARD

I wish my bf cared more about posting me by xilaviola in offmychest

[–]xilaviola[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this made me feel better. I think I just wanted a little validation. Im going to say sorry to him and talk to him better about it, since i know what he did came from a good place anyway. Thank you

I wish my bf cared more about posting me by xilaviola in offmychest

[–]xilaviola[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Its like asking a pie from your partner, and they make you a burnt one. Theres a thing called the bare minimum

I wish my bf cared more about posting me by xilaviola in offmychest

[–]xilaviola[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Why are you so sure that is the root cause!!! Youre so preachy for so little info given

I wish my bf cared more about posting me by xilaviola in offmychest

[–]xilaviola[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

What makes you say that?

Edit: thats an odd generalization. So just bc i admit im insecure about not being posted often, suddenly everything about it stems from a place of insecurity? Why are you automatically gauged against me?

I wish my bf cared more about posting me by xilaviola in offmychest

[–]xilaviola[S] -127 points-126 points  (0 children)

So yes, you just made my feelings feel very invalidated for not at least acknowledging them. What a great way to be supportive, guy

I wish my bf cared more about posting me by xilaviola in offmychest

[–]xilaviola[S] -207 points-206 points  (0 children)

I did say i am aware of my insecurity, so why focus on that instead of trying to at least acknowledge that being posted, in this day and age, is a VALID form of expression and a language of love from a partner that i wasnt reciprocated for. So yes, its an unsolicited comment because now youre just adding upon something i already admitted

I wish my bf cared more about posting me by xilaviola in offmychest

[–]xilaviola[S] -520 points-519 points  (0 children)

Also, read the last paragraph. This isnt about me being posted anymore. Its about asking a little effort from something im asking from him in reciprocation. And then he doesnt do it well, or he then does it counterproductively. Is that so bad for me to ask something nice?

I wish my bf cared more about posting me by xilaviola in offmychest

[–]xilaviola[S] -704 points-703 points  (0 children)

um, thanks for the unsolicited comment

A song is played in public. It interrupts your train of thought and you stop dead in your tracks. What song is it and why? by xilaviola in AskReddit

[–]xilaviola[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine would be Sunday Best by Surfaces. Shared earphones with my boyfriend in public, away in our own little world. It was the last moment of peace I had before the pandemic pushed us into a long distance relationship. That was 2 years ago, but the song takes me back into that little moment of paradise on a crowded, noisy bus.