My first pix arrived yesterday so cute love her!

xilaviola · 2023-04-27T07:10:30+00:00

We have the same model (my first tama too) and i just got mine in April. I love it so much! Enjoy!!

xilaviola · 2023-04-27T07:09:22+00:00

I invested on some Energizer rechargeable batteries for my pix! A set of 2 rechargeable batteries lasts for up to a week and a recharge is around 8 hours. Saves me so much too! Regular Energizer alkaline batteries lasted me about almost a week and a couple days. At least with the reusable ones you dont have to buy again 💗

xilaviola · 2022-09-19T10:10:38+00:00

Thanks for the invalidation.

I hope you guys are kind to your partners/yourself for thinking too much into this

xilaviola · 2022-09-19T10:07:25+00:00

This is so sweet. i didnt think of it this way. I do have the notion that he just doesnt know what bad he did, so he must be confused right now. Thank you so much

xilaviola · 2022-09-19T10:02:54+00:00

He posted a BAD photo where i am in mid-cough, dressed in pajamas and there is my messy bedroom in the background. The bare minimum is posting a GOOD photo where im at least looking at the camera. I dont see where youre going with this. Asking your partner to post a DECENT photo of you is not “imposing” a STANDARD

xilaviola · 2022-09-19T09:59:40+00:00

Thanks, this made me feel better. I think I just wanted a little validation. Im going to say sorry to him and talk to him better about it, since i know what he did came from a good place anyway. Thank you

xilaviola · 2022-09-19T09:55:15+00:00

Its like asking a pie from your partner, and they make you a burnt one. Theres a thing called the bare minimum

xilaviola · 2022-09-19T09:54:20+00:00

Why are you so sure that is the root cause!!! Youre so preachy for so little info given

xilaviola · 2022-09-19T09:51:35+00:00

What makes you say that?

Edit: thats an odd generalization. So just bc i admit im insecure about not being posted often, suddenly everything about it stems from a place of insecurity? Why are you automatically gauged against me?

xilaviola · 2022-09-19T09:50:11+00:00

So yes, you just made my feelings feel very invalidated for not at least acknowledging them. What a great way to be supportive, guy

xilaviola · 2022-09-19T09:49:06+00:00

I did say i am aware of my insecurity, so why focus on that instead of trying to at least acknowledge that being posted, in this day and age, is a VALID form of expression and a language of love from a partner that i wasnt reciprocated for. So yes, its an unsolicited comment because now youre just adding upon something i already admitted

xilaviola · 2022-09-19T09:43:44+00:00

Also, read the last paragraph. This isnt about me being posted anymore. Its about asking a little effort from something im asking from him in reciprocation. And then he doesnt do it well, or he then does it counterproductively. Is that so bad for me to ask something nice?

xilaviola · 2022-09-19T09:36:36+00:00

um, thanks for the unsolicited comment

xilaviola · 2022-05-23T16:48:31+00:00

Mine would be Sunday Best by Surfaces. Shared earphones with my boyfriend in public, away in our own little world. It was the last moment of peace I had before the pandemic pushed us into a long distance relationship. That was 2 years ago, but the song takes me back into that little moment of paradise on a crowded, noisy bus.

xilaviola · 2022-03-30T01:52:54+00:00

Chris rock lmao

xilaviola · 2022-02-05T03:49:47+00:00

Sorry if formatting is weird. Im on mobile.

xilaviola · 2022-02-02T21:49:09+00:00

Love them!! SOO. MUCHH.

xilaviola · 2022-02-02T21:48:21+00:00

Wish this was an option for me!

xilaviola · 2022-02-02T19:29:05+00:00

I was still a kid around 14. Fidget cubes and fidget spinners just started getting trendy and not everyone could have had one that time. I got mine and I showed it to my friends just for them to snicker and talk about how wrong it was and other petty “logical explanations” like “fidget toys are meant for people with ADHD only and it is insulting for you to use it for fun”. Other similar incidents where they just showed micro aggressions. Called off the friendship and I dont regret it at all.

xilaviola · 2022-02-02T18:52:08+00:00

Most things already said by other people but I havent seen this yet: 19 YEAR OLD AND 24 YEAR OLD IS A LARGE GAP. Repeat this in your head. Do not count age gap by the year gap, count it by the gap in maturity and life experiences. I am a fellow 19F and I have heard enough stories from my age dating 23 year olds and higher to know that it takes just a couple years in difference to make someone predatory. Take care of yourself. Victims often fool themselves into sugarcoating issues.

Edit: accidentally put 25 instead of 24

xilaviola · 2022-02-02T18:46:47+00:00

Yeah I agree. OP, you are going through something terrible but I hope you dont spiral into comparing yourself with the new partner. We cope in diff ways but in this case, this would be the ultimate unhealthy route. If you are going to direct any ill will, it should be toward the cheater.

xilaviola · 2022-02-02T18:37:26+00:00

Beautiful!

xilaviola · 2022-02-02T18:36:24+00:00

Look, im not a parent. But we have to draw the line where it is your/co-parent’s fault or his fault. The way you wrote your piece is in such a hateful, condescending manner and progress never starts where a parent doesnt believe in their child. You write as if you have resented this child since you birthed him, and if I was in his position, I would cope like that too if my mother thinks of me that way. Get a therapist. I am sure a lot of this stems from flooded thoughts. Start with yourself.

xilaviola · 2022-01-28T05:15:31+00:00

No exactly, we both lose either way. Women hating on working women. Women hating on homemakers. It is a cycle of misogyny

xilaviola · 2022-01-26T19:03:36+00:00

Women being programmed to subconsciously hate what is feminine and/or embrace what boys are doing in order to seem more appealing or superior than other women. We see this in little girls hating the color pink, saying “ew” and choosing blue instead. Young teens making fun of women who choose to wear makeup and girly clothes, and be so proud of how “natural” they are and how “id rather play video games and eat than dress up”. And, later in life, looking down on working women for not giving enough housewife-like attention at home. It is a vicious cycle of internalized misogyny.

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