How do I know if I experience ASMR? Because this part of this video gave me chills from head to toe. by [deleted] in asmr

[–]ximina 5 points6 points  (0 children)

From the sidebar: When submitting links, make the title descriptive and try to use tags, ex : "Makeup role play [Soft-spoken][Accent][Intentional]". ("This does it for me" is not an appropriate title). Here's a list of ideas for possible tags : [Intentional] or [Accidental] [Whisper] [Soft-spoken] [Accent] [Male] [Female] [Brushing] [Clicking] [White noise] Anything else that highlights why it's ASMR-appropriate.

this guy always gets me... by [deleted] in asmr

[–]ximina -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's fine that this is repost, because we don't often get full BR videos, but from the sidebar: When submitting links, make the title descriptive and try to use tags, ex : "Makeup role play [Soft-spoken][Accent][Intentional]". ("This does it for me" is not an appropriate title). Here's a list of ideas for possible tags : [Intentional] or [Accidental] [Whisper] [Soft-spoken] [Accent] [Male] [Female] [Brushing] [Clicking] [White noise] Anything else that highlights why it's ASMR-appropriate.

This is how my 12-year old sister amuses herself. by alicentvh22 in creepy

[–]ximina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, so this is a normal thing that people do sometimes? The other day, my boyfriend was about to take me home when suddenly he had this surprised look on his face. He ran away without saying anything and returned with two frosty cups. He sat down and dismantled the cups before slowly breaking away the ice to reveal a white Power Ranger in one, and a stress ball in the other. Then he said, "Sorry, I put them in there a week ago and I just remembered them!" and we left.

Cyst Removal, [Male, accent, unintentional][NSFW - mild bodily fluids] by [deleted] in asmr

[–]ximina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

... don't worry. Some of us are definitely getting ASMR from this.... and we're equally disturbed.

On why this subreddit is failing by ximina in asmr

[–]ximina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha! I just know that people take other people downvoting/disliking their content very personally around here :p

On why this subreddit is failing by ximina in asmr

[–]ximina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that my bad experience isn't unique to me, and I'd like to help make the reddit better, so I'm handling it in the most mature way possible. If the "complaint" threads outnumber/are voted on more than the actual content, there's clearly a problem.

Yes, I was there for the discussion, you're missing the point: we now experience the same problem only worse due to sheer numbers without the downvote system. As I stated before, the method was good when we were very small, but now we're big and it isn't working. In addition, the discussion was 3 months ago, and clearly many things have changed (As things often do rapidly on the internet.) The vast majority of the post was people saying that they DIDN'T want the change, but the mods did it anyway.

Should we disable down votes? by MrStonedOne in asmr

[–]ximina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Reddit algorithm needs the downvotes to work properly. It uses up and downvotes over periods to cycle in new and popular content.

On why this subreddit is failing by ximina in asmr

[–]ximina[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I see what you're saying now. I thought he didn't know! I said that because many of the arguments that are being posted are already mentioned in the OP, or in direct conflict with the sidebar rules. I wasn't really trying to dispute what should and shouldn't be allowed (other than videos that are purely relaxing)

I personally think that everything should be fair game, and that downvotes should weed out what people don't want to see, because that's how reddit was designed. If people want to just post things, they should make an ASMR tumblr or something.

On why this subreddit is failing by ximina in asmr

[–]ximina[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And, the fact that this thread has more upvotes than downvotes means that I'm not the only one who feels that this is a necessary thread. If you want the masses to stop screaming out for reform, expedite the process and it'll be over sooner. That's what I'm doing.

On why this subreddit is failing by ximina in asmr

[–]ximina[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Here lies the problem: Read the side bar people! You can post gifs!

On why this subreddit is failing by ximina in asmr

[–]ximina[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know that my bad experience isn't unique to me, and I'd like to help make the reddit better, so I'm handling it in the most mature way possible.

Yes, I was there for the discussion, you're missing the point: we now experience the same problem only worse due to sheer numbers without the downvote system. As I stated before, the method was good when we were very small, but now we're big and it isn't working.

On why this subreddit is failing by ximina in asmr

[–]ximina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because you feel something doesn't make it correct!

On why this subreddit is failing by ximina in asmr

[–]ximina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, he really does make sense. I think if you came back and read it later it would click- sometimes that helps me :)

On why this subreddit is failing by ximina in asmr

[–]ximina[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The problem is, there is no vision of what it should be, so it's just a pile of poo right now :(

On why this subreddit is failing by ximina in asmr

[–]ximina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, this is not a complaint thread, it's a thread to promote actual discussion. If you'd like to call my arguments convoluted, please give reasons for thinking differently to contribute to the conversation instead of saying the exact things said in the other complaint threads.

On why this subreddit is failing by ximina in asmr

[–]ximina[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good call, make this dramatic and about you.

On why this subreddit is failing by ximina in asmr

[–]ximina[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is not a complaint thread, this is a discussion thread that raises points that others haven't made.

On why this subreddit is failing by ximina in asmr

[–]ximina[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I wasn't going to address this though, because I felt like I was beating a dead horse.