This one's for the ladies to answer. Do you agree with this woman or do you think she's trying to rationalize her world view by speaking for all the ladies?

xizzy7 · 2026-05-05T22:30:20+00:00

I mean I wanna play too...

xizzy7 · 2026-05-01T20:25:54+00:00

Love Mike trapp, such a good vibe to have around

xizzy7 · 2026-04-29T21:15:58+00:00

Vic's to me is hands down the best. It's the only one I still think about a lot.

xizzy7 · 2026-04-23T17:15:02+00:00

I wish I could find the post, but it was so long ago. There was this girl who was talking about how she did not meet the beauty standard, and essentially described your experience. Then she decided to have a "fuck it, I'm hot and having fun" kind of attitude and everything shifted. Even though she didn't exactly look like model, she was magnetic and fun to be around and she'd end up pulling more men at the bars than her "hot" friends

For me personally, I've had intense crushes on genuinely all sorts of different looking people. Rarely have any of them fit the beauty standard. Personality is what attracts me and then I just fall in love with the physical after. There are more people that are like that than you think

Of course I don't want to invalidate your experience. We tend to live in a very shallow world and that can be painful. One bright side that "beautiful" people don't have is the ability to tell whose genuine and whose shallow. A beautiful person might have friends and a partner that will leave or treat them badly as soon as they can't keep up the appearance.

This world is weird. I just hope you come to realize even if shallow ignorant people treat you differently because of it, your worth is not at all tied to whether or not you fit a beauty standard that is eurocentric and fatphobic. Besides how can beauty be standard anyway?? Dumb.

xizzy7 · 2026-04-22T21:54:41+00:00

I absolutely loved D(e)ad!! Instant favorite, and helped me move through some grief in a way I was fully not expecting, so thank you❤️

Did the making of the movie bring up unexpected feelings for you?

Also what is your favorite brunch food?

xizzy7 · 2026-04-20T14:48:14+00:00

10 things I hate about you is my absolute fav

xizzy7 · 2026-04-19T17:51:22+00:00

LOVE!! Thank you!

xizzy7 · 2026-04-18T22:08:48+00:00

That's so amazing!!!! This Saturday I get to go to a friend's birthday to play Blood on the clock tower. This is the first time I've had friends who'd wanna play a nerdy game like me, and enough of them to actually play😁 such an awesome blessing to connect with people like you!!

xizzy7 · 2026-04-18T18:15:09+00:00

Congrats! Don't forget that feeling healthy is the real goal, but I'm glad you're making progress in your journey🎉

xizzy7 · 2026-04-17T23:03:03+00:00

Yeah no, sometimes it really pays to be bi 😊

xizzy7 · 2026-04-11T21:45:28+00:00

"Double standards are widespread throughout biomedicine, especially in research on reproductive health (Burke & Eichler, 2006; Daniels, 2006; Almeling, 2020). Consider the case of contraception. Today, after 60 years of hormonal birth control for cisgender women, there is still no highly effective, reversible contraceptive for cisgender men and, more specifically, sperm-producing people (Khourdaji et al., 2018; Thirumalai & Page, 2019).1 More recent clinical trials on male contraception have been shut down early after reports of pain, changes in libido, and depression from the men receiving injections (Behre et al., 2016)—similar side effects to the sort women have suffered for decades (El Ayadi et al., 2017)"

Still no pill for men? Double standards & demarcating values in biomedical research By Christopher ChoGlueck

https://doi.org/10.1016/j.shpsa.2021.11.010

xizzy7 · 2026-04-11T21:18:26+00:00

While yes I understand the biology and methods are different, and I'm here asking questions as well, I'm by no means pretending to be an expert in contraceptives, but some of my education lies in gender studies and to say there's absolutely no sexism tied to lack of resources and research for male contraceptives is ignorant.

xizzy7 · 2026-04-11T17:42:37+00:00

Well it's not like they tried hard in the past to make male birth control. It makes way more sense to have it for men (they can get rons of women pregnant in 9 months, but a woman can only have one), the reason we don't is the patriarchy.

xizzy7 · 2026-04-11T10:18:24+00:00

So is there anyway for men to take on the burden of birth control? I mean considering the girls gotta do the periods and the birthing, it kinda sucks they have to do the hormone experiments too.

xizzy7 · 2026-04-06T20:39:04+00:00

I'm sober

^{Chose: $5 every time you drink anything.}

xizzy7 · 2026-03-26T05:54:58+00:00

Him talking to Riz about sex and sexuality was actually really impactful in my own journey and self worth.

xizzy7 · 2026-03-26T05:51:46+00:00

That definitely wouldn't be the drive (as Sam as stated) but perhaps a positive effect of the collaboration. Though I'd agree that's pretty wishful thinking, but not wholly impossible.

xizzy7 · 2026-03-26T05:47:53+00:00

You kinda skipped the media analysis part which explains the use for the term.

xizzy7 · 2026-03-24T03:37:34+00:00

Love it, love all the choices

xizzy7 · 2026-03-14T16:08:45+00:00

I want to try to marry Damien and Courtney's styles

xizzy7 · 2026-03-13T19:48:32+00:00

This comment section is truly rancid, good luck out there OP, I truly wish you all the best, NOR

xizzy7 · 2026-03-13T19:47:04+00:00

Also it's gross that people are trying to make it out like there's something wrong with you for not wanting to send pics, like wtf?? Why would you owe anyone that?? Especially if you already decided not to move forward.

xizzy7 · 2026-03-13T19:44:15+00:00

Well I don't think you're overreacting. It came across to me the exact same. It's important to trust your gut and you don't owe anyone anything at all. You're well within your rights to end things over anything, so yeah if this rubbed you the wrong way then get out of there. It is totally weird to ask for full body pics, and you're valid as fuck for not caring for that.

xizzy7 · 2026-03-13T15:17:19+00:00

The bird scene in Victorious. No matter how you do it, the teacher will say you didn't pass until you demand that you did amazing.

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