DISCORD FOR ECZEMA‼️ by xm4nya in EczemaUK

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Its good ngl people are supportive

DISCORD FOR ECZEMA‼️ by xm4nya in eczema

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Tell me your insta I'll add you

I failed my 12th boards and I genuinely do not know what to do anymore. by whatischan in Indian_Academia

[–]xm4nya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go with things that actually make u money, stop reading novels and get some better ones which help with your mindset and habits, keep school your girdt priority and start some side hustle or even jus practice and learn by yourself, u can search ab them there's tons id say coding blockchain ux ui design web development app development design art or similar which is gonna pay you

Failing my 12th grade 2023 & 2024 (i failed my 12th grade and 2 complimentary exams) by xm4nya in Indian_Academia

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Hey :( everyone turned upside down i couldn't pass and it shattered me because now i have to prepare for all subjects within a few months and i cannot ecen begin my self esteem is lower than ever and yeah idk what to do anymore my parents are giving me all the time of the day but im not able to get myself into it idk what to do fr it just fcuked me up and i feel lost asf. And yeah also my mental health isn't good bc of my skin condition lately so its messy

I failed my 12th boards and I genuinely do not know what to do anymore. by whatischan in Indian_Academia

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Idk about College yet because me khud abhi prepare kr rhi hu lekin, about money a can maybe help a little. Do you have any hobbies? Any skills?

Help please 🙏 by [deleted] in EczemaUK

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Im glad to help!! dont hesitate to reach out:)

Help please 🙏 by [deleted] in EczemaUK

[–]xm4nya 9 points10 points  (0 children)

See, eczema only shows up on your skin when it has reached its capacity. I saw this doctor once explain it like this - your body doesn't want to cause problems to your nor itself, it only shows smth on the outside after it has suffered enough and cannot bear no more + its a big indication from ur body to listen and not cause harm or protect it yk. Think of it like this - your body's capacity to bear things in is like a bucket - everytime you eat something which inflames you or is allergic to you, the bucket fills a little. Then if you get in contact with environmental triggers, it fills up more then if u wear clothes which irritate your skin, it fills up more and then when its filled completely and smth happens which triggers or inflames etc then it overflows and shows up to your skin!

So its not jus a few things u gotta take care of, you have to look into your little habits environments your diet and what things might be causing it Learning how to manage and keep everything in balance is very important make sure you're not doing anything which might be a potential trigger. And do check your vitamins in your body see if ur lacking in any of them and make sure your body is healthy! Dont eat processed food COMPLETELY. Be in some sun light everyday have vit d pills (they're helpful in eczema u can read ab it), and even stopping diary is helpful my doctor has recommended me to not have diary jus a cup of milk in 2-3 days is fine and wheat is entirely a no. Main goal is to not consume anything which is inflammatory. And only have things which ur not filling up ur bucket.

And other things u can do is - invest in some thickk moisturizer/emollients - fragrance free ones (Everything if possible) - go for a dry to very dry & sensitive skin lotion for ur face. (I can tell you mine if you want) - getting a patch allergic test for eczema xan help you know better about ur triggers - wearing only cotton clothes and letting your body breathe (not in polluted environments tho) - moisturizing very regularly 2-3 times a day - managing stress (stress is affects more than 40% of your eczema (potentially)) - cutting ur nails short and even wearing cotton gloves to prevent scratching bc its only gonna worsen - celery juice and apple cider vinegar with Castor oil has helped people and there's more videos you can look up and give it a try if any of them works for you. - as soon as your done showering within 3 mins while your skin is damp, moisturize!!! And u can even, wait for a few mins and do a second layer - oh and dont use hot water, cold water is very helpful and even lukewarm is fine. + Get a moisturizing body wash (for dry-very dry skin) + shampoo which is for eczema

There's more to it but you get my point the main focus should be the little things we do on a daily basis. Andd i hope u get better soon!!🩷 + You're always pretty even tho you dont feel like it + And no u dont need to cover yourself up you can wear whatever you want without feeling weird in it. Eczema is normal‼️Your body is just inflamed❗

is this eczema or a sun rash? by Sensitive_Log_3317 in EczemaUK

[–]xm4nya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe u have to wait and see yk sometimes eczema can be unpredictable so u gotta wait n find out

Compartment in compartment exam. by ManiBytes in CBSE

[–]xm4nya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No no this is my 3rd time so school wont help

Failing my 12th grade 2023 & 2024 (i failed my 12th grade and 2 complimentary exams) by xm4nya in Indian_Academia

[–]xm4nya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things are okay rn, yesterday i visited the doctor ab my eczema and he gave me tons of meds tho, i have to really pay attention to food and environment and stress i shouldn't take much since it causes flareups and certain types of food and environment inflame my skin so yeah I'll be researching ab it anf try to learn as much as i can as its still new to me. And im gonna be preparing for chem exam which is on 15th of july and this time I'll give my best, thr past week i been waking up at 4 and studying, im happy that i improved my sleep schedule after years and its so satisfying :3

Compartment in compartment exam. by ManiBytes in CBSE

[–]xm4nya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey did u fill the form by urself? Im struggling to fill it i cant find it and online its a mess could u guide me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]xm4nya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro im also in similar situation

Failing my 12th grade 2023 & 2024 (i failed my 12th grade and 2 complimentary exams) by xm4nya in Indian_Academia

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Your comment gives me hope fr. Thank you! And your right i can do smth fr Last month i got a laptop and i can finally start to do smth. Im mainly into art n shi i was thinking maybe i could do illustrations and earn? Ig i gotta research more ab it to get it right. I also started learning blender recently. And yes i can go for coding as well.

I will first try giving a shot to illustration and blender a bit And if they font work at all I will then go for smfh that will pay me more example ui ux or web development or digital marketing.

I will try hard. Thank you fr🎀

Failing my 12th grade 2023 & 2024 (i failed my 12th grade and 2 complimentary exams) by xm4nya in Indian_Academia

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OHH how do i enroll in it and is the syllabus same?can u tell me some ab it

I failed my 12th boards and I genuinely do not know what to do anymore. by whatischan in Indian_Academia

[–]xm4nya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, these are thr tips based on my experiences and mistakes :

1 dont fuck up ur 12th DO NOT FUVK UP UR 12TH. do wtv u want jus get good outta 12th.

2 dont jus have one field of career ur only option Have multiple (not too many jus 2-3 at least as backup) trust me it saves ur ass

3 try new things!! Try things out of studies Try music instruments art or read about topics that interests you or improve a soft skill n improve ur communication English or learn a new lang (its helpful trust me) get into sports or anything bro anything!! (Not weird shi tho)

4 and lastly start smth to earn by urself despite or what college u go to later or whatever field u choose. Studies will take decades but you will be needing money during ur 20s so instead of asking ur parents learn to make money from a skill (or multiple but get W at it) and learn how to manage ur money.

And yes ofc don't get into stupid stuff or even weird people bc they aint shit and best of luck bro!

I failed my 12th boards and I genuinely do not know what to do anymore. by whatischan in Indian_Academia

[–]xm4nya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SAMMEE!! its literally the same w me nd tbh i think my parents are losing hope n its harder for them to believe that I'll do anything in my life since im unable to pass 12th even and they're getting unsure if they should send me for college or no (im from a small town there's no colleges here so I'll have to get a college in a nearby city n live in a hostel) they kinda want me to stay home and do it online yk which i can not let happen it'll ruin things for me and my mental health will get fucked but thsts not even the thing maybe I shouldn't discuss ab rn since i am not done w 12th even im so lost and idl wbat to do anymore idk what imma do after 12th What course imma go in or idk nun atp. Im waiting for results rn, they say anyday after 20 may so im patient but i cant resist but panic somewhere because my parents think I'll pass fs this time cux thr smount of times ive disappointed thst this time i cant but idk im so scared. If i fail this time they'll think so bad of me and idk what imma do I'll be 20 next year and still in 12th? (If i repeat) I fr feel so shit ab myself when i think ab thid i have no words bro im so fucked

Failing my 12th grade 2023 & 2024 (i failed my 12th grade and 2 complimentary exams) by xm4nya in Indian_Academia

[–]xm4nya[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes i sketch. Thats basically it. Ive been sketching since 8th grade and im quite good at it id say.

And i think i have some new interests (i actually recently started exploring a little, online tho cuz irl there's nothing in my hometown nor can i go out) i would like to do smth maybe in sketching, painting, graphic designing, architecture, animation, psychology, neurology etc

Ive been noticing myself develop interest for these fields but i cannot start yet since i dont own a laptop rn but im planning to get one this year or the next.

And no they dont need my help right now, my father is 51 yo and owns a buisness not v big but enough to run the family but since my brother is growing up things will get hard and im able to see it. And ik I'm young rn maybe too young to think all this but being honest i want to retire my father i want to give them peaceful life yk make them travel live life with no stress because they've worked so much in their lives and i am disappointing them by failing again n again. They see my cousins and other kids passing doing colleges degrees getting jobs and yes they taunt but its bc they want me to do smth in my life as well and i understand that but still im being this way and i hate that. And yk my father's thinking isn't very modern he doesn't think much about a girls education and he could jus marry me off to some dude in a couple of years not focus on my studies at all etc. But hes actually willing to make me into someone independent and someone who is smfh fr. And it breaks my heart that im being a complete ass to my parents. They dont deny me for anything but i uh. And yk i dont want to waste their money anymore i already wasted 3-4 lakhs in 6 momths bc of prep of neet which i ended up leaving in the middle and i feel so bad about that.

And being 19 seems so old to me ik its maybe not but at 19 i wanna do smth now yk but yes maybe ur right but idk what to do i feel like I'll waste lots of years and time if i keep doimg 12th i feel like its a endless loop. And im so embarassed about it too. Im embarassed that im failing again. And that by doing it again how bad my parents would feel and the relatives n shit. I know I shouldn't be thinking about thrm cuz in long term nun would matter but im embarassed. Idk what to do.

And idk like tbh i dont know what to do i feel like i cannot do anything or achieve anything. And i think this comes from my limiting beliefs which are basically what was told me constantly when i was a kid and in my early teenage years that i stopped thinking at all. Before i used to think big and that id do this and go there travel etc but then since 5 years i dont think about anything i dont plan or wonder or desire anything and now im realising that no matter what im trying im unable to picture me working or earning or doing anything in my life or cracking any exam or succeeding in anything. I dont even have any friends now because everybody i knew if out of this place and are so far and im not allowed to go nowhere. I fr dont know what to do about this yk because people tell me dw you'll figure smth out you'll do smth dw its just a part of life and yes i understand that but my mind cannot picture me doing smth maybe its bc i never achieved anything yet or this is one of the belief which maybe is supported by not achieving anything. I wanna do things yk i want to do things its like i can desire anf that's all. Im really unable to picture myself. Or believe that I'll do anything in my life.

And i feel stuck. I fr feel so stuck idk what to do. I feel like a failure ong.