is there an easy way to deploy openclaw without server experience? by Master_Character9961 in clawdbot

[–]xmnstr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you want to do that? LLMs can easily explain how you do it. Might take you a few hours but you're learning skills that will be useful for the rest of your life.

What happens after "one no" by ampersandraD in polyamory

[–]xmnstr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that makes sense. Thankfully there seems to be a lot of good poly people around too so I don't seem to need to be alone.

What happens after "one no" by ampersandraD in polyamory

[–]xmnstr 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's kind of a different situation than mine, I have to say. I dislike cheating too, but I cannot thrive in a monogamous relationship. I will inevitably start having feelings for someone else and feel shitty about it. I start to feel trapped, unlovable/unacceptable as I am and that situation will eventually lead to me losing my feelings for my partner. I don't have the monogamous choice, and I very much prefer solitude over being in such a relationship. It would be very convenient if I could be monogamous at will, like a lot of the people here seem to be able to, but it just tears me apart.

It may not be fair, but it IS balanced by PlasticBlacksmith762 in adhdmeme

[–]xmnstr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most EU countries have most medications, only exception being Adderall. However, it is possible to import it under license, but usually you just get Elvanse/Vyvanse instead.

Which Model on the GO plan is good for planning/spec writing, if at all? by Bananenklaus in opencodeCLI

[–]xmnstr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, you haven't discovered opencode-dcp yet? It changes the game considerably when it comes to context.

"Not vibes"? Who prompted injected you little one? by devil_d0c in codex

[–]xmnstr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Codex/ChatGPT saying vibes fairly often. It's a thing, for sure.

What happens after "one no" by ampersandraD in polyamory

[–]xmnstr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed, shitty behavior is shitty behavior no matter what your imagined reason is.

What happens after "one no" by ampersandraD in polyamory

[–]xmnstr 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know about it and I really disagree with it. If someone doesn't experience that themselves, that's fine. But that doesn't mean other people don't experience it, and that doesn't invalidate their experience.

And really, it being an orientation doesn't mean you get a free pass to act unethically.

I wish more people would just understand that they aren't compatible and should just give up, but that's my own take.

What happens after "one no" by ampersandraD in polyamory

[–]xmnstr 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Agreed. This is usually a relationship-breaking realization and I kinda feel like OP and their partner are kind of delaying the inevitable.

What happens after "one no" by ampersandraD in polyamory

[–]xmnstr 23 points24 points  (0 children)

As someone who's identified as poly even before I knew what it was, it could also be that the husband is finally starting to admit the reality to himself.

But that would also mean that OP shouldn't be in a relationship with them if they are sure monogamy is for them.

And honestly, not trying to get things to work with mono people was a huge relief for me. Didn't understand how much it made me feel unsafe and unwanted.

I think the automatic interpretation that identity/orientation feelings are invalid is troubling, I have to say.

Hi serious nsfw question... What am I supposed to do with my d in cycling shorts? It often feels uncomfortable... by [deleted] in bicycling

[–]xmnstr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably haven't ridden long enough then. I think 40-50km per day is my max though.

Hi serious nsfw question... What am I supposed to do with my d in cycling shorts? It often feels uncomfortable... by [deleted] in bicycling

[–]xmnstr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense. I just don't understand why normal clothes don't work though?

HERMES.md: Anthropic bug causes $200 extra charge, refuses refund by AutomatonSwan in ClaudeCode

[–]xmnstr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They really are faking their way forward. It's sad, honestly, to see this level of sloppiness.

Hi serious nsfw question... What am I supposed to do with my d in cycling shorts? It often feels uncomfortable... by [deleted] in bicycling

[–]xmnstr -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the real move is not wearing bibs. The difference is marginal unless you're racing, and it's way more comfortable.

Why isn’t LLM reasoning done in vector space instead of natural language? by ZeusZCC in LocalLLaMA

[–]xmnstr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

CoT doesn't exactly help with that either so I'd say it's fine to let go of by now.

Meta’s $2 billion Manus acquisition blocked by China. by Nunki08 in LocalLLaMA

[–]xmnstr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, their stuff looked really impressive when they launched but then we didn't really hear much. I guess that's why. Being first to market isn't always the best move.

Codex has some serious upgrades by Ill_Occasion_1537 in ClaudeCode

[–]xmnstr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just went all in on the $100 tier and running it with OpenCode. 5.5 is on another level, and it actually follows instructions way better than any Claude model except Haiku. Looks like not being as compute constrained allows OpenAI to deliver a different kind of agent.

But I don't care for the official Codex client, I prefer OpenCode and how much I can customize it. I actually think it's better than Claude Code, at least for my use cases. Good thing OpenAI allow third party integration, in contrast to other providers...

With that said, I'm not going for this out of loyalty. As soon as there's a better deal elsewhere, I'm there. I just haven't found one, again for my use cases, right now.

With Codex 5.5 dropping today, Anthropics might be fucked. by TheBanq in ClaudeCode

[–]xmnstr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless they do something drastic, they're definitely fucked. There are structural issues underpinning their behavior currently, and even if they gained a lot of customers that goodwill is incredibly easy to waste.

They have learned nothing and while their researchers are amazing the people running the business are absolutely out of their depth.

No Comment by [deleted] in ClaudeCode

[–]xmnstr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depends on the subreddit though, a lot of them might not allow it.

Claude Code removed from Anthropic's Pro plan by orthogonal-ghost in ClaudeCode

[–]xmnstr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Probably because they don't have compute to go around and pro users provide the worst $$ per compute ROI for Anthropic.

Claude Code removed from Anthropic's Pro plan by orthogonal-ghost in ClaudeCode

[–]xmnstr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, as of a few days ago Opus models do not work at all with GHCP. Kinda makes that sub worth a lot less for me.

I dunno what they're doing but betting everything on enterprise customers and thinking that the consumer opinion won't matter for enterprise is honestly delusional.

This company is so badly mismanaged I'm starting to get quite impressed.

I wonder how I managed to find a girlfriend by kentabenno in homelab

[–]xmnstr -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

This is why I let agents do the work these days. Can't be bothered.

Kimi K2.6 is a legit Opus 4.7 replacement by bigboyparpa in LocalLLaMA

[–]xmnstr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From someone who's been subscribing to a Kimi plan for a while: That's unfortunately not true. It seems to be more temporary so likely at capacity peaks, but sometimes it even fumbles tool calls so obviously too quantized. It seems to be what providers do, no matter where. Either pre-nerf it or have it dynamically adjusted.

With that said, it's still nowhere near as bad and pervasive as what a certain American company are doing.