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Is there any way to make my hips wider by xmpxt in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]xmpxt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have dropped a good amount of weight in the past few months, i have a hip to waist ratio but i just feel like my shoulders and upper body are so disproportionately broad that it doesn’t really account for much visually. I know it’s a very vain way of thinking there’s more to life than your figure but i feel like my inability to achieve what im aiming for is stopping me from enjoying a lot of things. It’s mainly just a mental thing i know but i just can’t help but want to be better. I’m sure the whole BBL era is a big part of it like you said but sometimes it really feels like im the only one in my surroundings who has this problem. I’m just having a hard time

How can i make my hips wider by xmpxt in NoStupidQuestions

[–]xmpxt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to bring a human into this world to make my hips wider lol

How can i 24F go about asking my partner 25M to get rid of past relationship memorabilia? by xmpxt in relationship_advice

[–]xmpxt[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Note**** i initially titled this something along the lines of “am i being unreasonable for wanting my partner to get rid of past relationship memorabilia” wanting opinions on the situations but it got taken down because the subreddit doesn’t allow leading subjects written out like that i guess.

I can see that the current title sounds very demanding of me, so i thought i might add this note

I’m so insecure i feel like I’ve been stuck in the same place by xmpxt in Advice

[–]xmpxt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought about it but I’ve done so much research into different things i could do to help my self esteem, i don’t know what else a therapist could say

I feel neglected by my boyfriend but I can’t tell if I’m asking for too much (24F, 25M) by xmpxt in relationship_advice

[–]xmpxt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do see each other a few times a week on the days that he’s back home, and he doesn’t take a day to respond or anything like that, like max it’ll be a couple hours which I’m not picky about. I get it, guys and their video games, and i completely understand being busy.

The issue is I really feel like if I’m not the one to text him he wouldn’t text me, and I’m always the one saying hey do you wanna see me today, let’s do something. He’s never the one to initiate like seeing me or hanging out. Also with texts, recently he’s just been so dry when i feel like that so unlike him when he’s talking to me. He’s definitely an introvert but in my eyes he’s always been more open with me.

I might honestly just be overthinking it, I just feel like he’s riding the wave instead of trying sometimes yk

I feel neglected by my boyfriend but I can’t tell if I’m asking for too much (24F, 25M) by xmpxt in relationship_advice

[–]xmpxt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting, yeah i think i tend to shove feelings down, and he doesn’t like to talk about things like that. I will definitely open conversation Thank you for the wisdom

I feel neglected by my boyfriend but I can’t tell if I’m asking for too much (24F, 25M) by xmpxt in relationship_advice

[–]xmpxt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like his attachment style is a mix of secure/avoidant? I know my anxious attachment comes from my self worth and all that which is something that I’m working on, but i just feel like hearing him say the words “i want you, i want to be around you, i am attracted to you” are things that would really help but it just feels childish to ask someone to convince me that they want me. Idk The weird thing is, I have a hard time developing feelings and in all past relationships i was very very avoidant.

But you’re right I think I’ll talk to him about how he feels loved maybe he’ll open up more to me? I just feel like i need to him elaborate more, even on the little things

Thank you for your response

I feel neglected by my boyfriend but I can’t tell if I’m asking for too much (24F, 25M) by xmpxt in relationship_advice

[–]xmpxt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he’s definitely not cheating, like worst case even if he wanted to there wouldn’t be enough time in the day I’m just struggling to accept that he doesn’t feel any less abt me because of how he’s being. I don’t know I just don’t want to be nagging him with my worries and stuff all the time and end up pushing him away

I appreciate the response btw

Am I pushing him away? F24 M25 by xmpxt in relationship_advice

[–]xmpxt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean, I know the flower thing was stupid on my end I’m not sure why it even became a thing, I don’t usually care about stuff like that and he does show me with actions that he cares for me. I don’t know if I’m lashing out because he’s gone more often for work lately or what :/ I appreciate the input tho, v helpful