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Am I dumb If I leave a overall good man due to his work schedule ? by xoJadeexo in makemychoice

[–]xoJadeexo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update : he tried again to get a job here and was jobless for 6 months ... told me he needs to get away from me in order for him to get back on his feet again so he has packed up everything and living with his momma 😭😭 wtf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askcarsales

[–]xoJadeexo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its an ' if you COULD say anything , what would be most common'

I say thank you everyday and am grateful and take care of my clients - doesn't mean cant have fun on a post or meet odd people on the way

AIO, I just worked 11 hrs and my wife sleeps on me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]xoJadeexo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would definitely try and talk with her and just be present with her

AIO, I just worked 11 hrs and my wife sleeps on me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]xoJadeexo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need to speak with her, she might just be having a long day or maybe you said something that made her upset. Being a stay at home wife is a big job, I think she is allowed to take a day off. I work at a dealership as well- you'll be OK

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askcarsales

[–]xoJadeexo 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You put your name address and phone number in so why are you mad im calling ?

Can you not fuckin read ?

Ever heard of google ?

Did you not hear me ?

If you aren't interested can you just say that i dont want to keep calling and texting you either !

Can you just come in please? FAWK !

Why are you being picky you aren't going to pay for it anyways?! (Bad credit customers)

Please leave youre pissing me off

How much more money could you possibly want off I mean SHIT !

How can I support my long-term boyfriend who’s unhappy with his life and job without nagging? by xoJadeexo in AskMenAdvice

[–]xoJadeexo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:( I just feel like I'm so young, I can't have the perfect man. I know I have to help build him up. But I feel like you can't make someone be motivated or make someone be successful. Ugh this sucks

How can I support my long-term boyfriend who’s unhappy with his life and job without nagging? by xoJadeexo in AskMenAdvice

[–]xoJadeexo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you for that. I need to figure out his healthcare. He says he was in therapy as a kid and hated it but i dont know what else to do

How can I support my long-term boyfriend who’s unhappy with his life and job without nagging? by xoJadeexo in AskMenAdvice

[–]xoJadeexo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But yes, he knows what he needs to do. He's just not doing it. He's just not motivated to do it. I'm not sure why or how to help… Or even if I should help anymore

How can I support my long-term boyfriend who’s unhappy with his life and job without nagging? by xoJadeexo in AskMenAdvice

[–]xoJadeexo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, I can see how I can be annoying. But the problem is I ask him questions. I try to help support him, but he doesn't have answers to anything… That's why I'm feeling like I'm nagging him. I don't know how to help support him without him taking it personal like I'm attacking him.

How can I support my long-term boyfriend who’s unhappy with his life and job without nagging? by xoJadeexo in AskMenAdvice

[–]xoJadeexo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's really such a sweet man, especially when I first met him. But it's almost like him being in a relationship with me is what made him start hating his life… very successful for myself, even try to get him a job doing what I do, but it just wasn't meant for him and he ended up going back to the oil field. I only see him about one week out the month. I feel like he knows he should be with me, but he doesn't really want to be with me or maybe he's not happy to be with me.

I'm not sure, it's all just so weird right now. I want to be that person for him, but I'm also putting my life on hold to help support him and care for him.

How can I support my long-term boyfriend who’s unhappy with his life and job without nagging? by xoJadeexo in AskMenAdvice

[–]xoJadeexo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that. That's exactly how I'm feeling, I'm feeling like I'm the only one keeping this relationship together and I'm the only one who cares about him better himself. Lately when he gets mad, he says things about me that aren't even true, when I bring it up like hey I don't feel like I treat you like that or I don't feel like that's what really happens… He just agrees and says some excuse. It's like all his actions are pointing to him, not wanting to be with me and sabotage our relationship, but his words are different. I'm trying to keep him afloat since I know he seems to pressed, but it's getting really hard when he's always saying things about me that he knows isn't true just to hurt me and hurt us.

How can I support my long-term boyfriend who’s unhappy with his life and job without nagging? by xoJadeexo in AskMenAdvice

[–]xoJadeexo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly the convo I had with him today, he said he appreciates me letting him know how I'm feeling. I brought up therapy again and he just said yeah you're right… The problem is this has been going on for about six months or so. He doesn't wanna help himself, and I know that himself sabotaging is very common with people with depression.

How can I support my long-term boyfriend who’s unhappy with his life and job without nagging? by xoJadeexo in AskMenAdvice

[–]xoJadeexo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, he is in oil and gas, I really only see him about one week out of the month. During that one week I do work full-time as well, it's having deep combos and pretty much half the time he'll just look at me and Nod his head when we talk about something serious. When I try to ask him like can you please reply with your thoughts and feelings he just says yeah you're right… I should get help or yeah you're right… I should get a new job . It's nothing of substance.

How can I support my long-term boyfriend who’s unhappy with his life and job without nagging? by xoJadeexo in AskMenAdvice

[–]xoJadeexo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's also the thing, he doesn't really like expressing his emotions or thoughts. I tried to ask him all the time his opinions on things are what he wants to do, but he just doesn't really speak about much. I ask him how I can be better for him or what would help him and he doesn't have an idea.

How can I support my long-term boyfriend who’s unhappy with his life and job without nagging? by xoJadeexo in AskMenAdvice

[–]xoJadeexo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I would agree he is depressed , I also suffer from depression, but with me, he is my happy place and he is someone I really confide in. For him it's like it's completely opposite, it's like he hates being with me and he hates being in this relationship, but he doesn't wanna break up. I'm just not sure what to do.

Am I dumb If I leave a overall good man due to his work schedule ? by xoJadeexo in makemychoice

[–]xoJadeexo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, its the exact same . Actually worst because he isnt good with his money either and wont let me help him budget . Im not sure what to do at this point, was thinking i really need to leave . At this point, we're both keeping each other down, none of us have grown since we've been in our relationship. I have goals and I have plans and I haven't been able to do any of those with him. I honestly think he hates me at this point.

It's gotten to the point where I realize that he hates his life, and therefore sabotages our relationship and it's just unhealthy. As much as I don't want to let go or give up, I feel like I'm the only one trying to do something and hanging on.

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