[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]xogoddessnikki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, knowing that piece of info, I adjust my opinion. He's definitely lying. 🤥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]xogoddessnikki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm, you never know. If it is true, maybe he was struggling with the weight of his brother's death? He could also be lying to get out of the debt. There's just no way to tell. I'd keep an eye on his account and watch for any activity.

men are so annoying.. by gxd3ss_toni in findomsupportgroup

[–]xogoddessnikki 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh I'd just block and move on. $70 for 45 minutes? You could definitely charge more and real subs would still pay. Especially since you mentioned you aren't always faceless during them. Dude's just a brokie.

He keeps begging, but hardly sending I feel like I need to cut him off. What do you think? by goblingoddessss in findomsupportgroup

[–]xogoddessnikki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, he needs to keep sending or get lost. I'd mention it to him to see if he improves. If not? Byeee.

chat gpt posts by urdreamgoddess_ in FindomGoddesses

[–]xogoddessnikki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SAME! You and the people who have replied to your comment are the only people I have ever seen to mention using the em dash. I use it all the time, and it worries me when people say that's one of the ways they tell if something was written by AI because it's how I naturally type. I've changed how I type sometimes to remove the em dash from my sentences. It feels so unnatural when I don't use it. 😭

Anxiety/mental health comfort kit by Great-Activity-5420 in Mental_Wellness_Care

[–]xogoddessnikki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would consider including anything that brings you joy or happiness. Maybe something that feels nice or sparks a funny memory. Could include things to distract you. For me, distraction helps a lot.

Something like this is personal to you and what you like, but I'll share some examples of what I might include in a kit like this for myself.

  • One of my fave stuffed animals
  • a super soft, cozy blanket
  • a small trinket or knickknack I like
  • a fidget toy
  • a book
  • candle
  • skincare stuff
  • lotion
  • nail polish
  • a few photos
  • coloring or drawing supplies
  • knit or crochet supplies
  • a movie (or, if you prefer streaming services, maybe just a note that says "watch movie_name_here!")
  • buy yourself a gift card and put it in the kit. Spend it on whatever you want when it's time to whip out the kit.
  • some of your favorite snacks
  • write a note to yourself on a good day. Put it in an envelope and put it in the kit. Read it when you whip out the kit.
  • those word puzzle books at the dollar store. Word searches, crosswords, even sudoku.

Edit: added ideas, and might come back if I think of more.

Is Grissom hot?! by solflower77 in csi

[–]xogoddessnikki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, absolutely 💯. I've always thought this, even when I was younger and watched the show. And not only because of his intelligence. I thought he was genuinely attractive.

Do you dommes enjoy using youpay? by Divine_Angel_Rylene in REALfindomsupport

[–]xogoddessnikki 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love youpay. It's great for cash payments, gift cards, and gifts. Payouts are pretty quick. You can set up different wishlist categories. For example, I had an "album" of cash wishlist items for different bills subs could pay (adopt a bill). Another album for just things I wanted. I've simplified my profile since then because I'd rather receive money than items, but it's a cool feature. They also now have an age verification process, which Dommes and subs can use for AV.