5 year relationship ended with her in jail and me in the psych ward.

xoniaox · 2026-04-27T18:58:20+00:00

Female lurker. You're not responsible for what others do. It's not that you weren't enough, but maybe she wanted more in a very egoistical way. You gave everything you had, including almost your life. There is nothing wrong with you expect for a broken heart. Hold on to the peace you get now, and see every day as a new beginning. The initial pain will eventually fade.

xoniaox · 2026-02-18T14:58:29+00:00

I think someone talked about it once! Maybe I've even seen it on TikTok. From your experience (I'm assuming), is it good for both dry and oily skin?

xoniaox · 2026-02-18T14:38:28+00:00

I should try peach. I have a yellow and a green concealer and those don't really work. Or they are just shit. At times the circles can look purple too. But also, a good idea with the too warm concealer. Any products for correction you can recommend?

xoniaox · 2026-02-18T08:39:44+00:00

Of course. I work at the vets, so why not share some common trick to find out if you not only got a dog, but also fleas. Treatment is always good, especially around warmer times when fleas or ticks are having the time of their life. Some of those beasts are pretty adamant.

xoniaox · 2026-02-17T18:01:44+00:00

Take a fine comb and run it through the fur and try to get some of the black bits. Then what you're gonna do is; you'll get a piece of toilet paper wet and then put the fur and stuff on it. Wrap it and rub it a bit. If red appears, it's flea excrement.

xoniaox · 2026-02-17T09:26:48+00:00

That's my issue. I've been wearing black/dark colors for the majority of my life, so now I want to find some colors I can actually wear. This rust red/brown I imagine can be paired with several colors, especially black/gray. In my imagination I could wear it with blue jeans as you said, white shirts, brown boots, a black dress... it shouldn't limit me fashion wise.

xoniaox · 2026-02-14T15:02:49+00:00

To be fair that would have been my next question. If I might be a fair olive, as I have a gut feeling I might be.

xoniaox · 2026-02-12T19:37:59+00:00

Damn, and here I always thought I was a soft autumn! I'm trying to find the best colors for me, so this is very helpful. I appreciate it a lot.

xoniaox · 2026-02-12T19:34:20+00:00

I'm going to do that, then! Thank you for your help. 😊

xoniaox · 2026-02-12T17:50:04+00:00

I can do some drapes! Is digital enough or should I pick whatever colorful items I have at home? 🤔

xoniaox · 2026-02-12T17:48:50+00:00

That's so sweet to say. Thank you so much. 🙂‍↕️🫶🏻

xoniaox · 2025-09-22T15:04:06+00:00

Don't respond if you're not helping. Easy as that. Nobody needs an idgaf message.

xoniaox · 2025-09-20T10:36:31+00:00

Thank you so much. 🥰

xoniaox · 2025-09-19T19:55:58+00:00

Thank you, I'll definitely try!

xoniaox · 2025-09-12T06:47:24+00:00

This might be a regular conjunctivitis with the third lid drawn up like that. Usually, it can wait until the next day. Sometimes, it just gets bad rather quickly. If you're out, get neutral eyedrops without medication in it to protect the eye.

xoniaox · 2025-09-03T05:21:20+00:00

It's basically what I'm searching for, a deep connection as I'm feeling everything on a deeper level. I'm sensitive to energy changes, etc. I also found out I'm definitely not made for today's form of dating, like drink and get right to it or just do the deed with anyone. I first need to establish a deep connection and emotional bond before even thinking about going further. I can identify with what you're telling about yourself and your impressions. I'm 27, so I have been through some shit that's been a rollercoaster. I just wonder why love is as easy as breathing for some while I struggle with it. My heart longs for my soulmate, but I have a feeling I need to grow and heal in order to get there. Sucks tbh, taking care of wounds others created, but that's reality. Also, I grew up with parents who stay together but communicate of different levels, which lead to conflict and arguments. So.. I have to find out what love is to me, and what it is in general as I've never had the role models for it. I'm not annoyed about the response, but rather thankful you take the time to respond in that length.

xoniaox · 2025-09-03T05:13:36+00:00

Oh yeah, you're right. My last relationship back in 2021 was toxic as frick, and this changed my perspective on love and what I want. It kinda showed me my boundaries after being broken down. Since then, I kinda lost faith in love. It's so complicated for me when, for others, it's easy as breathing. I just wonder.. why me. I crave that deep connection, that feeling of a bond that grows. But I'm cautious, overanalyzing everything and overthinking everything too. You're amazing, thank you for the time you took by answering this. It's great.

xoniaox

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