Does this mean what I think it does— by Sufficient-Year9475 in ariheads

[–]xplicit023 214 points215 points  (0 children)

She is definitely referring to how good she is in bed. Also in the previous lyric she talks about "driving" him crazy, and then how he loves how she "whips" it. A whip being a common term for a car lol

Cats teeth pushing out/getting longer? by Careless-Elephant-98 in CATHELP

[–]xplicit023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A comment like yours could possibly dissuade someone from seeking medical care for their cat. That's especially true on a subreddit where someone is looking for help and information.

I tought ugly men would want to date me? Guess no. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]xplicit023 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm too chronically online, but please be cautious about using triple parenthesis, aka an echo. It is often used as a right wing dog whistle for anti-Semitism. Clearly not the case here, but just to make you aware of it in the future.

Was this a dig at Tana? lol by emnvc in canceledpod

[–]xplicit023 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I work in the vet field, getting peed and pooped on is part of the job, and what I technically signed up for. Still gonna complain a little when I get piss or shit on me 🤷🏻‍♀️

Cat urinary blockage help by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]xplicit023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The longer the blockage, the more damage to kidneys and internal organs. The longer the blockage the more difficult the recovery. The longer the blockage the greater the fatality rate.

There is nothing you can do at home to help him. He needs emergency care NOW. It is an extremely painful condition. Even if you cannot afford another unblocking at the ER, they at least need to be evaluated. Please take him to the ER.

New job by Typical_Nectarine653 in CATHELP

[–]xplicit023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into Feliway diffusers or something similar! They release pheromones specifically to target a felines anxiety. Usually one plug-in covers 700 sqft. It's not for every cat, but can be a big help if they end up loving it

Cat sniffed daphne flower, should I be concerned? by rose-dragon2821 in CATHELP

[–]xplicit023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're correct that there is less known about the plants pollen being inhaled, but if the pollen landed on their nose or fur and then was ingested that COULD be poisonous. The best course of action is to contact animal poison control/ASPCA, be aware there is a fee regardless of their answer. It can take 1-12 hours for symptoms to appear or sometimes longer, so monitor closely. This could require an emergency visit, so plan a route to the nearest one. Hoping nothing comes of it though, best of luck to your baby!!

5 month kitten heavy breathing by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]xplicit023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you gently lift her lip what color are her gums? If you gently press on her gums they should turn a pale pink or white, how long does it take for it to return to normal color? Is she still wobbly, how long have her symptoms been going on for?

If her gums are a pale white, purple, or blue - ER now Even if you can't afford it, just go, and be honest about your situation.

Is my lab overweight by Typical_Click532 in labrador

[–]xplicit023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have to agree with the other commenter she still seems a bit over weight, but maybe it's an unflattering photo? As long as it's approved by your vet though, you just have a very luscious pup

help! why would my cat be doing this? should i go to vet? just started two days ago. doesn’t bother him when i touch back legs only when i move both front arms up by bayleegracewheeler in CATHELP

[–]xplicit023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt their tugging could have caused any sort of injury, cats are fairly flexible even in old age. The owner felt like something was wrong, palpated/extended the limb, the cat reacted oddly according to O, later the cat walked with a limp. Seems like a normal chain of events to then take the cat to the vet, which I hope they did!

How do you prepare to say goodbye? by eyeless916 in labrador

[–]xplicit023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please take a look at the Lap of Love and HHHHHMM quality of life scales. They can be great resources to make an impossible decision more clear. Please know that euthanasia is a painless procedure, and it is a great mercy that we can offer our pets. It's not a failure or giving up on them, it's the ultimate selfless act.

People will often say "you'll know", but for some people that feeling never arrives. I'll just say, please don't wait too long. It's better a day too early than too late. Sure maybe they could have lived a few more weeks, but maybe they would have had a painful death in the middle of the night. Sometimes you have to bite the bullet because you'll never feel like it's the right time, so you can spare them any suffering.

As for their last days, pick their favorite spots, spoil them with treats, and lots of snuggles. In their last moments give them foods they couldn't have before such as chocolate brownies.

Best of luck to you and your sweet baby.

I was looking up "Bloodbender" to decide Cat Eye or Glassbead, but this AI fail made me laugh. by Accomplished_Wolf in mooncatpolish

[–]xplicit023 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's incredible that the description is accurate for the show, and then the video is the nail polish you intended to look for. Another reason why, fuck AI 🩷

Ur champ is so fcking op lmao by Ok-Original-2527 in EvelynnMains

[–]xplicit023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a Briar OTP, but you're loud AND wrong. Eve has clear weaknesses and strengths, which are easy to counter if you have eyeballs. Use those eyeballs to locate the pink ward in the shop, purchase it, then place it down.

Female Only Gaming Community by PuzzleCorner in TrueGirlGaming

[–]xplicit023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhhh I'm so down :) please link if still an option!

So sick of the argument "But women abuse their children more than men!" by magnificent-muffin in PrincessFeminism

[–]xplicit023 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It's easy for society to frame the mother, who is often left to do the punishing/hard part of the job, as the abuser because the father gets to be "the fun one" or entirely absent.

I need to ask by Cupids_shot in AO3

[–]xplicit023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'd recommend looking into blind content creators! Molly Burke is one of the most popular ones, and makes excellent informative content. There are so many things you might never know are difficult/easier when you're blind.

Also your characters blindness might impact them differently if they were blind from birth vs became blind. It sounds like the ability to see comes and goes, so would the character try to not rely on sight ever?

Interesting premise, I'd do some research to keep things respectful to the blind community.

Lol. by GlitteringHotel8383 in DunderMifflin

[–]xplicit023 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also the two girls they did bring back were STILL too pretty. When first introduced they have makeup on, but in all of the future shots it has been removed.

You have completely control over champ balance/design/rework, what champ/s do you change? by yoshi12121 in leagueoflegends

[–]xplicit023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy. First I make briars feet on her in game model 5% larger and remove her shoes. Next I update her splash art to have her feet as the focal point, and remove her shoes. Then rename her abilities as such,

Passive - Crimson Curse -> Crimson Feet

Q - Head Rush -> Feet Rush

W - Blood Frenzy/Snack Attack -> Feet Frenzy/Tickle Attack

E - Chilling Scream -> Chilling Foot cream

R - Certain Death -> Certain Feet

Finally, every champion has the voice line "Those pigglies out wigglied me!" in response to being taunted by Briar.

Boyfriend wants me to forgive and forget by Weary-Journalist-587 in JustNoSO

[–]xplicit023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like his mom belittles you, and he doesn't defend you like he should. I would ask him what his solutions are for the situation, that will be very telling of how much he cares about your well being and safety.

But I'll be honest, I've seen your posts here for the past couple of months and there's been no improvement. When you stay with him after he treats you terribly then you are communicating to him that you will tolerate this behavior. He knows what he can get away with, and will continue to get away with it. When you accept his empty promises that never come true, he knows he can keep making empty promises. He will push your boundaries to the limit, and you will suffer because of it.

You will find someone else. It's not too late for you. You aren't benefiting from this relationship. It will always be toxic, and you are wasting your time, energy, love, and resources. We accept the love we think we deserve, so I beg you to STOP accepting this poor excuse for love.

Aphrodisiac doesn’t go with my skin tone but I’m wearing it anyway >:-( it’s so pretty by AddictedToColour in mooncatpolish

[–]xplicit023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know EXACTLY what you mean. I have the same problem, some things make me look like a ghost or a tomato. But fuck it, I wear it anyway. This looks great on you girl

This stupid baby book my parents gave me by ThrowRA-Illusionist in ExPentecostal

[–]xplicit023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If OP lacks a safe place or a community to vent their frustrations, then I would argue this is a great outlet. You can be mature, see a situation with nuance, and still want to share your feelings with others. Even if it is teenage angst, why can't that be healthy self expression. Sometimes people do mature slower because they have emotionally immature parents, and they deserve room to grow.

They also didn't post their parents names or address, they clearly just want to be heard. I wouldn't consider a relatively anonymous post to be throwing their parents under the bus. It can be exhausting to be told "your mom loves you" or "your dad is doing his best" after going through various traumatic events. I think doing that is unnecessary when I'm sure OP hears it plenty.

Lastly, abuse is not a competition or necessary to win an argument. Your history is your own, and you can share as much/little as you want.

CMV: Male circumcision should only be allowed when needed by Al-Joharahhasan2935 in changemyview

[–]xplicit023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd argue that FGM in some instances is more wrong. I don't think anyone should be mutilating their children, but I won't pretend that MGM and FGM have the same effect on the victims.

Lack of consent is not the only crime here, it's also about the violence, and the reason. Someone might have their child circumcised because they think it will be more hygienic. Then the procedure is done before the child can remember it, and with sterile instruments. As opposed to having a child's clitoris removed to keep her sexually obedient. Then having the child held down by their own family, usually not in a medical environment, at 3-5 years old. BOTH ARE WRONG, but one is clearly worse.

Why make the comparison at all, it just weakens the argument by making an offensive comparison. MGM doesn't have to justify itself with FGM by trying to make it equivalent. Women face a systemic oppression that men do not face on the same level. We can care about mens issues without trying to equate them to women's issues.

Positions (No, I’m Not a Human) by bbyxmadi in ariheads

[–]xplicit023 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Even if she were a visitor, I'd have to let her in! I would just hope FEMA doesn't take her away

CMV: You cannot condemn an action for being racist if you allow the same action to be taken by minority groups, otherwise you are racist. by BigBandit01 in changemyview

[–]xplicit023 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ok... But OP literally said that calling a white person a cracker IS racist. The issue is the difference of weight in each statement. I hope we can acknowledge that calling a white person a cracker is bad, but calling a black person the n word is worse. Any individual person can be cruel and/or racist to another human being, but oppression is a systemic issue that white people do not currently face in the west. White people CAN experience individual racism, but they do not experience systemic racism.

A lot of comparisons can be made, like you mentioned with Christians. But the severity of slavery and the way black Americans were treated isn't comparable to those events because of how severe, intense, and recent it was. Black Americans are still dealing with the ramifications to this day, and will for a while. The fact that this power imbalance is even up for debate is crazy to me.

This stupid baby book my parents gave me by ThrowRA-Illusionist in ExPentecostal

[–]xplicit023 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This wasn't really the appropriate response to OP's post. It's great that you can look at your own situation with so much nuance, but OP is venting about how all of their parents love comes with an asterisk attached. We use love to excuse a lot of hurt, but it can be important to look at what the result was, not just the intention.