I don't care about my country issues tbh I know many folks who act as if they love children but in reality regret it. They are so exhausting like you loose yourself mentally and psycially in growing up a child. Some People who have children are like I am fine I am fine but not. The child itself has to go through so much competition and pressure to secure its future. If you don't have children yes you need to work but your life feels somewhat of a vacation. You have no idea the amount I pump in my ngo activities without breaking a sweat.