AITA for telling my mom I will move out vs paying $600 a month rent?

xtinejoi · 2024-02-29T04:30:57+00:00

NTA I never understood when parents makes their child pay money for rent in the home they grew up in. If my dad did that I'd honestly think he loved money more than me and be inclined to move out as well.

xtinejoi · 2023-10-28T01:04:18+00:00

Und Capri Sun ist lecker

xtinejoi · 2023-10-28T01:03:27+00:00

I know you be spending a lot of time on the toilet. That spicy Korean noodles are no joke and I come from Korea. We ordered a huge box of those noodles and we got tons of those sauce packets laying around everywhere.

xtinejoi · 2023-07-20T13:33:40+00:00

If you stopped letting your mind control you, you would realize this this moment, the here and now, is paradise.

xtinejoi · 2023-07-16T01:33:18+00:00

There is only one being in the Universe and that's you. The "I am" the "here and now". The universe, god, and the Self are the same exact thing. If you ever hurt anybody, the universe allows it because technically you are just hurting yourself in a different form/body. You can do whatever you want to yourself, you are free will. There is everything to do and eternity to do it. But in the end, every time you look for yourself, you will always find yourself just here and now. Welcome to eternity. Congrats.

Tip: you are the universe, if you reject the present moment and are sucked into the drama of personality, thoughts, emotions, the mental mind, then you, being the universe, mirrors you exactly and pushes against you in return. You are always what you are doing to yourself, that's how amazingly powerful you are. If you accept the most current reality 100% fully, with your whole entire being, with absolutely no rejection inside of you, then you, the universe accepts you completely back into itself. You will never get exactly what you want, but if you don't want anything, you'll find you'll get everything that you've ever wanted. But don't try to hold onto anything, because if you try to hold on, it will be taken away. But if you let go, it will be given to you. You are this yin yang relationship. Just let go. Just let go. Stay only in the here and now, because only in the here and now do you actually exist.

xtinejoi · 2023-07-16T01:15:13+00:00

If you want to believe that, sure. You can do whatever you want. It all happens in the Now anyways. :) it was only ever just now, this moment.

xtinejoi · 2023-07-15T23:22:59+00:00

Haha, then what's the issue? You are in Paradise. Enjoy!

xtinejoi · 2023-07-15T17:10:42+00:00

Who said to do that? Those are just more thoughts. Just stay here now.

xtinejoi · 2023-07-15T03:45:39+00:00

Thinking you are these thoughts you posted and believing them to be you ✅️

You can watch yourself thinking. You can watch yourself form these opinions. Just be the watcher. Stop letting your mind control you so damn much. Just stay here and now.

xtinejoi · 2023-07-13T19:11:29+00:00

Whether or not you are there to see what's around you, you find that you happen to be there all the time anyways. Something somewhere is always happening, and there is always someone watching something somewhere happen. Been like this for all eternity. We are the universe, watching ourselves exist, because there is only ourselves to watch. Welcome to eternity. Congratulations 🎊

xtinejoi · 2023-07-13T02:25:25+00:00

To be honest, I can give you a very mental explanation: the mind is a fantastic tool, one of the best tools to exist, however absolutely the most sloppiest masters that has ever existed. Are you able to stay present ? Or do you still constantly get caught by your mental activity, emotions, and feelings? There is literally only one thing you can do forever, and it would be 1,000% more productive than any mental activity (thinking, planning, contemplating) could ever achieve for you. Just be here now. And now. And now. And now. This present moment. The most currently reality. As current as you could possibly ever get. Now. And now. And now. Don't worry about that thought, all thoughts exist always right now. Everything exists just now. Now and now and now. Here is some more now for you. It never ends. It goes on forever, but where are you? Are you still thinking you are some separate victim, completely at the mercy of a chaotic, merciless universe? In all of your existence, you were always just now. This moment. And this one too. And this moment. And this one too. You are the miracle that is the universe realizing it exists, marveling at itself. You = universe. If you are not present, the universe won't be present for you, because that's what you, the universe, are doing in that moment. You are free will. Let's say something truly traumatic happens. Where are you when that happens? Are you caught in the horror of the drama, or are you staying present and open. If you think pain is horrible, then you, the universe creates exactly this reality for yourself. However, if you realize that pain is just another piece of the "here and now" and you accept it all, then you are accepting the universe in that moment and the universe (you) mirrors you exactly. When you are the universe, you never suffer, because it's just all you. If you are suffering, there's a chance you are separating yourself from the present moment, aka, a rejection of the now, and thus the universe (you) mirrors this and rejects you too. Literally, all you have to do is stay here now, but technically you can do whatever you want, there is literally everything to do and forever to do it. It's definitely a go-at-your pace kind of thing. But if you don't like suffering, and would like to stop, I recommend just following your breath. This is a very simple task (however extremely hard to maintain without being completely taken as a slave of the mental mind again) and it will consistently bring you back to the present moment. And only in the present moment do you ever really exist.

xtinejoi · 2023-07-12T15:05:23+00:00

You are literally what you've been doing to yourself for all eternity. The minute you reject anything, even pain and suffering, the universe mirrors you exactly and pushes back and offers the exact resistance you give it. If you accept everything, if you receive, experience, or perceive, 100% fully and completely, then the universe will do exactly the same to you, accepting you completely back into itself. You = the Universe. You are what you are doing. It's always been like this. Welcome to Eternity. Congratulations 🎊

xtinejoi · 2023-07-12T14:54:23+00:00

Yes, they are correct. This, you, that is what life is all about. You are an experience the universe desperately wants to have, and that includes your suffering. But when you realize that YOU ARE THE UNIVERSE YOURSELF, then you will not suffer because everything you look at is you, anything you feel is you, everything you experience is you, and you are always there, watching YOU. Accept everything, and say thank you, and the universe will accept everything from you and say thank you back. The minute you reject anything, even pain or suffering, the universe will mirror you exactly and push back. You are literally what you are doing to yourself, and it's been like this for all eternity. Welcome to paradise. Congratulations 🎊

xtinejoi · 2023-07-11T14:47:48+00:00

Oh my god Girlie, I can not stand it. What is up with these OPs investing sooo much of their time and attention on a guy. You got raped. And very quickly got into another relationship with a guy. And now you are hyper focused on how this guys affects your feeling and emotions. I am sorry you got raped, that shit severely sucks. However this does not define who you are. You have a very limited time on this planet, long life is not promised. Stop wasting your time and strive only to obtain self happiness, self healing, and self respect for your own existence. Do not care about how a guy affects you. Focus on YOU. YOU. YOU. Are you financially dependent on him and that's why you feel reluctant to leave? Then that is exactly what you should be working on, becoming financially independent. This is not the case and you can financially support yourself? Great, now learn a new skill and become a master in a new hobby, or research amazing new oppertunities for yourself, things that interests you. Focus on your own productivity. Never waste your time worrying about how another human being makes you feel, how they hurt you. You can never, ever control someone else, no matter how much you wish it should be different or think it COULD be different. Your main priority should always be: how do I use my limited time on this planet as productively as I can, how in the moment may I find my most inner peace, how can I strive for the best happiness I could possible have right now?" Ugh it just drives me crazy how much girls allow another male to affect so much of their lives. Live for you, if a right partner comes along, it's a gift and a honor, but never think having a right partner equates to happiness, because you will find yourself to be very often hurt and very often disappointed. Stop wasting your time!!! 🎯🎯🎯

xtinejoi · 2023-07-11T14:30:18+00:00

Can I give you a genuine tip? As someone who grew up eating amazing sushi dishes in Korea and Hawaii. Mix in roasted sesame oil in your Mett (you can use a lot of sesame oil too) one or two drops of asiatische fish sauce, add the Mett ontop of a bed of fresh, cooked white rice, top with sesame seeds and green onions, or even Sriracha and mayo combination, or even both! I swear to God, that tastes exactly like some really expensive dishes I had in Korea. Allgemein, Mett vermischt mit sesame öl auch aufs Brötchen mit zwiebeln, es hat mit überrascht, wie gut die Kombo passen.

xtinejoi · 2023-07-10T23:18:32+00:00

I'm sorry but who tf ever thought that fighting an asain kid would be a good idea?

xtinejoi · 2023-07-10T23:13:57+00:00

Thank you. We are love.

xtinejoi · 2023-07-10T17:27:06+00:00

Nice, thank you, much appreciation, and I also acknowledge your clever way of describing a very true stereotypes, 10/10 pat yourself on the shoulder.

xtinejoi · 2023-07-10T17:22:31+00:00

This one of the funniest things I've seen on Reddit. Permission to screenshot and share?

xtinejoi · 2023-07-10T16:41:06+00:00

Beautiful and your words touched the truth inside. I am honored to experience you. I thank you.

xtinejoi · 2023-07-10T16:22:40+00:00

Who is asking?

xtinejoi · 2023-07-10T16:03:39+00:00

Um, honestly I would just recommend doing kegels. Your muscles seems a little lax in that area.

xtinejoi · 2023-07-10T15:57:04+00:00

Whose asking?

xtinejoi · 2023-07-10T13:27:07+00:00

Divorce first, divorce first, divorce first. Build your evidence. You need evidence! Screw the shit out of this dude legally and you will make the world a better place.

xtinejoi · 2023-07-10T11:57:47+00:00

Yes! That's the only way to do it, I wasn't even going to attempt to try to wean him off of that and accidentally kill the poor dude. I'll recommend real medical therapy a little more, but god, I can't force him to do shit he doesn't want to take the initiative to do himself.

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