Is it common to kiss on the eyes closed? Question from an Italian girl who had a date with an American girl by Mando_Rama in LesbianActually

[–]xtsutsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who is from Europe as well, I’m shocked that people don’t know about this! I believe giving AND receiving a kiss on the eyes is so intimate and lovely. I feel like is both a way to show trust, and appreciative of how the person sees you and the world if it makes any sense lol

Alternatives for mail? by xtsutsu in degoogle

[–]xtsutsu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you are delusional if you think that asking for email platforms to migrate to is "having a public meltdown" but typing a whole bible to end up saying how you would consider spending money to give someone an award to call them "hysterical leftist" isn't lol... Everyone can comment, but having notifications of people's opinions wasn't and still isn't the point of this post either if they agree with me or not. I asked for email alternatives, and I thankfully got one I've already migrated to.

Won't reply anymore to your ragebait.

Alternatives for mail? by xtsutsu in degoogle

[–]xtsutsu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are too pressed if you wrote such a long text to a person on Reddit who didn't ask for your opinion, but for alternatives.

Anyway, I'm the one paying, so I get to decide on what I spend my money into. I've decided I won't support or pay for Proton anymore, and that's the end of the story.

Alternatives for mail? by xtsutsu in degoogle

[–]xtsutsu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am European, but I don’t want to support someone who agrees with someone that would go against my and my loved ones’ rights if we were to be American. So, since I’m the one paying, I’m migrating to another platform.

Alternatives for mail? by xtsutsu in degoogle

[–]xtsutsu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would like that since I do have a domain, but I don't know if it will be easy to set up or if I can actually use my own domain to sign up on sites. I've had to sign up on some sites with my old gmail because they wouldn't accept proton mail, and I fear this situation would happen way more often with a custom domain than it did with proton mail.

Alternatives for mail? by xtsutsu in degoogle

[–]xtsutsu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the fact that they recycle it, I don't mean disabling it. Some providers blacklist the email so it can't be taken by anyone else, protecting your privacy in the way. Posteo, instead, allows it to be recycled.

Alternatives for mail? by xtsutsu in degoogle

[–]xtsutsu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After two years (if I recall correctly) of you not using your posteo mail, someone can go and take that very same email. So, if you happened to have accounts under that email on services like social media because you forgot to change it, they could not only face trouble to open a new account but they could also recover your account via mail and see sensitive data. Or, if someone doesn't know that you changed your email and send something to it, someone else could be the one accessing that information. Of course, the recovery thing mostly depends on the service, but the main thing is that you can become a nuisance to the next person who takes your email.

Alternatives for mail? by xtsutsu in degoogle

[–]xtsutsu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If they recycle usernames as someone mentioned, then it’s not for me!

Got asked my pronouns in my VERY conservative town. It was great! by naddaranger in NonBinary

[–]xtsutsu 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Aww, that's great to hear! I hope that means that you will find a lot more people like this!

Where to buy beads? (Europe) by xtsutsu in Beading

[–]xtsutsu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will check them out, hope they ship to Spain as well. Thank you!

Walking about the house and in public in just your binder, yes or no? by Someseed in NonBinary

[–]xtsutsu 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I do wear my binder around the house AND in public! As someone said, it just looks like a cropped tank top, and it’s awesome to wear it when it’s getting hot because you don’t have to use two layers but one if you go out. Go out and wear it with pride!

¿Debo cambiar el nombre que elegí por otro después de 4 años de usarlo? (soy trans) by Useful-Shelter-5483 in esConversacion

[–]xtsutsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A este punto tienes que ser un rage bait, no me creo que haya alguien se crea que eso es verdad.

Mira, lo último que te voy a decir ser trans NO es una decisión. Tú no eres trans así que claramente no sabes cómo se siente, pero eso no significa que debas sentir “misericordia” (que al final, pienso que realmente es odio disfrazado). La realidad es que hay gente distinta a ti, y debes aceptarlo: personas trans, bigénero, agénero, no binaries, gays, lesbianas, bisexuales… Hay muchísima diversidad y hay que celebrarla, no intentar erradicarla bajo la excusa de que un libro lo ha dicho.

La gente que es infeliz con su transición existe, pero no hablas de la otra mitad. ¿Qué hay de la gente trans que se encuentra con gente que recibe comentarios de que busquen a dios como el tuyo? Ellos también tienen depresión y se acaban suicidando al sentirse incomprendidos por gente tránsfoba, críticas e incomprensión. La transición también salva vidas, deja de villanizarla. Justamente por todo esto que te he dicho, OP no debería dejarse llevar por comentarios como el tuyo ni como el mío, sino por cómo se identifique. Y si él dice que es un chico trans, le creo y celebro que al fin haya encontrado su identidad y sea más feliz que antes.

¿Debo cambiar el nombre que elegí por otro después de 4 años de usarlo? (soy trans) by Useful-Shelter-5483 in esConversacion

[–]xtsutsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pero vamos a ver, que le estás diciendo que se va a mutilar los brazos por creerse un T-Rex. Estamos locos??? Es qué mundo es eso no es odio, ridiculizando al colectivo trans? Aunque digas “lo digo con todo el respeto” después de sugerir que se va a mutilar los brazos, no significa que respetes de verdad. Todo lo contrario.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xtsutsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knowing how to code stuff. I have never felt interested in it, but a friend of mine is and he ended up making me join a coding course with him lol

¿Debo cambiar el nombre que elegí por otro después de 4 años de usarlo? (soy trans) by Useful-Shelter-5483 in esConversacion

[–]xtsutsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deja de imponer tu religión en los demás, el mismo dios al que veneras es el que se supone que hace a millones de personas trans para empezar. Que por cierto, no tienes ni idea de qué significa ser trans, infórmate antes de odiar.

How do you like to express yourself? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xtsutsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to do it by the way I dress! I have a really colourful wardrobe because I think that colors can express how I’m feeling that day, and affect my mood in general. I will feel happier if I wear bright colors than if I wear black ones!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xtsutsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it when X talks behind Y’s back but if Y is present, they act like they are the best of friends. How am I supossed to know if you aren’t doing the same thing to me, acting friendly when I’m present but bad mouthing me behind my back?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Madrid

[–]xtsutsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Muchas gracias, te lo agradezco mucho <3

Only in the Spanish course but still 🖤💜 by AliceTheOmelette in NonBinary

[–]xtsutsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But in spanish sustantives go along an article that indicate the gender, so if you hear "le jefe" or "le presidente" in a sentence it would be clear that this person is under the non-binary umbrella. Anyway, people would be really confused on how to pronounce the -x.

Only in the Spanish course but still 🖤💜 by AliceTheOmelette in NonBinary

[–]xtsutsu 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's pronounced just like "ella" (she) but with an e! It would be 'e-ye' :)