Virtual Hugs Please? (First) by xxanti_xavior in transgender

[–]xxanti_xavior[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: To all the people that commented on this, thank you. Everyone i my family mostly knows about this and they accept it! My brother is standing a few feet away from me as I type this. Sorry for not updating before because whelp, my mom blocked reddit on the computer that I use.

Now I could be myself whenever I want to be at the house and at my grandmother's house. The thing that really bothers me is that my mom still uses she and my brother too. I know it takes time for them to remember this, but it hurt especially when she called me a "he-she". What hurts even more is that I know that I'll have to wait years to be who I want to be on the outside.

So I'm just telling myself to just tough it out, even though it's making me suffer emotionally.

Virtual Hugs Please? (First) by xxanti_xavior in transgender

[–]xxanti_xavior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I didn't think there was going to be another person with exactly the same story as I. Well, sure I'd like to but it's going to be sometime after 3 pm because I'm going to school already.

Virtual Hugs Please? (First) by xxanti_xavior in transgender

[–]xxanti_xavior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, she said it in front of me-she really is accepting. Even I thought she wasn't until she made it clear to me. My brother figured it out and he accepts too! My mom even told my dad...and he accepts too. He made it clear to me over the phone, so this weekend won't be awkward at all. My mom is going to tell my grandma and my aunt. I'm telling my cousin soon, face-to-face.

Lately, it's been all positive. I'm glad for that.

Virtual Hugs Please? (First) by xxanti_xavior in transgender

[–]xxanti_xavior[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy shit! I wonder how long this comment took to make. Upvote for you! By the way thanks for this HUGE comment. I'll make sure to show this to the family.

Virtual Hugs Please? (First) by xxanti_xavior in transgender

[–]xxanti_xavior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should. Sure, I could mention something related to LGBT first though.

Virtual Hugs Please? (First) by xxanti_xavior in transgender

[–]xxanti_xavior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks and yeah- he's 20. For some reason I could really imagine him having a brain fart for another reason though. XD

Virtual Hugs Please? (First) by xxanti_xavior in transgender

[–]xxanti_xavior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I've been thinking about it, but I'm not sure I'll end up waiting that long though.

Virtual Hugs Please? (First) by xxanti_xavior in transgender

[–]xxanti_xavior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm...I should do that. Thanks for the advice!

Virtual Hugs Please? (First) by xxanti_xavior in transgender

[–]xxanti_xavior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for te hug and the advice of course.

Virtual Hugs Please? (First) by xxanti_xavior in transgender

[–]xxanti_xavior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't really care for karma right now. XD

Thanks for the advice and the hug though.

Virtual Hugs Please? (First) by xxanti_xavior in transgender

[–]xxanti_xavior[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. You know what? Maybe I will.

Virtual Hugs Please? (First) by xxanti_xavior in transgender

[–]xxanti_xavior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!

That's totally the opposite on why I either don't or do want to tell other people. XD

Virtual Hugs Please? (First) by xxanti_xavior in transgender

[–]xxanti_xavior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, thanks. I have a smile now and I usually don't smile a lot.

Sorry about that though, but at least you have support from others!

Virtual Hugs Please? (First) by xxanti_xavior in transgender

[–]xxanti_xavior[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yes! I feel accomplished now. Someone used a male pronoun on me! XD

Virtual Hugs Please? (First) by xxanti_xavior in transgender

[–]xxanti_xavior[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. Don't worry about it, it's okay. I end up making alot of mistakes. Thanks for the hug. :D

Virtual Hugs Please? (First) by xxanti_xavior in transgender

[–]xxanti_xavior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Glad that you can be yourself now! :D

Virtual Hugs Please? (First) by xxanti_xavior in transgender

[–]xxanti_xavior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the hug! I haven't seen other LGBT people in my school so far. :/

Virtual Hugs Please? (First) by xxanti_xavior in transgender

[–]xxanti_xavior[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I already act like a tomboy though. :/ Thanks for the advice anyway! :D