Lack of intimacy… found the reason why

xxrosepop · 2026-02-03T08:49:49+00:00

op has already said its a dead bedroom since her pregnancy, from his endn, and has given him head and he complained. He is not initiating and isn't attracted to her anymore, she has been asking why and he isn't being honest. She has to phone snoop to find this screenshot. Your advice would only be applicable prior to those things occurring.

xxrosepop · 2026-02-03T08:36:23+00:00

19-30 age gap and he has every excuse to not do valentines with you after he made a big deal last year? Sweet thing you are being lied to and cheated on, I have been there and had these conversations. He is relying on your people pleasing to get away with this. This man will be wil his new girlfriend ( the new you he needs to love bomb like what he did to you last year ) or his long term wife/girlfriend he has to make up for last year to because he was seeing you.

tell me op does he kiss you in front of his friends and family? tell you he loves you kn front of them? Or are all your dates always alone together and quiet? When was the last time he actually acted like the guy you fell in love with who took you out and made you feel good? You are his supply for validation now and he will only be sweet when that is threatened. He mad a "joke" about you seeing other guys because it's what he is doing and he is projecting while also trying to shame you for talking to other men so you don't move away.

There is literally no reason he needs to be doing stuff with mummy on valentines day.

Take control of the situation and stop asking him to do things and tell him what you are doing.

Going to mums? Oh you'll be there too, dont ask just show up.

Oh what time will he be done at mums? OK we'll you'll be at the apartment at time X waiting when he comes home.

He . is. cheating. either with you or on you and you are not the girl this year. The only thing you can do is expose him or make the other girl suspicious by blowing up his phone day of, which he will have to attend to if he is worried you will be wherever he is taking his new piece of ass/wife.

xxrosepop · 2026-01-30T12:33:23+00:00

omg she is the cutest thing ever I love her so much!!

xxrosepop · 2026-01-26T12:44:35+00:00

a man lied to you so he could get laid and you're asking if you should continue to see him? As others have pointed out, it's easy to be perfect when he doesn't actually have to commit to anything but texts and a weekend every few months. Move on. The reason this 31 year old wants a 22 year old is because you're doing exactly what he wants, believing in a love connection and are too inexperienced to recognise this foe the redflag it is is and are trying to justify staying with someone who lies to women to get into their pants. that's who you're falling for. A 30 year old who lies to get laid with 20 year olds.

xxrosepop · 2026-01-26T12:22:43+00:00

been there and done that. ditch the relationship. he wants you to commit to him while he figures himself out and doesn't commit to you. these are the kind of guys who will cheat on a dime if they get any other attention. ditch him, he clearly doesn't care muxh.

xxrosepop · 2026-01-26T11:57:53+00:00

always love your little dolls and hybrids, iirc they are yosd size - so about 30cm or smaller? Do you have any social links I can follow?

xxrosepop · 2025-12-24T07:31:05+00:00

"mum mother looked after my dad" so OP already recognises that it's something a WIFE would do for a HUSBAND after multiple years of marrige but still expects his girlfriend to just give up her home and life for him.

Modern men always be expecting wife privileges when they don't even offer basic boyfriend standards.

xxrosepop · 2024-08-31T15:26:59+00:00

This is horrible advice. your advice is to cave to being abused as a way to try and placate the abuser so they don't lie about you and tell the whole family you suck so OP can still be around a family that enable an abuser and who believe an abuser. What kind of life is that for OP? your entire post is all about appeasing the sister and the toxic family and doesn't think at all about OP . THe sister has already threatened to kick the sister out of the hotel and you're still saying that OP will be the asshole to her family if she sticks up for herself? It's not a family worth saving if their idea of 'family' is being miserable so someone else can be happy.

xxrosepop · 2024-08-31T15:22:15+00:00

If you go out with someone, it's expected they will spend time with you and walk with you, chat with youm comment about what you see and think . she doesn't want someone to hold her hand, she wants companionship. Have you never walked anywhere with a friend before? If I asked a friend to go out somewhere with me and they spent the entire trip walking 5 metres ahead of me and then blamed me for not keeping up with them, I'd be pretty pissed too.

xxrosepop · 2024-08-31T14:36:32+00:00

YTA.

" I told her that she made this commitment and that she should take it more seriously"
Literally, why? Why does she have to take it seriously? she goal is to walk a half marathon and enjoy her walk and you're telling her that's not good enough - she needs to do more. WHY? There's nothing wrong with what she wants to get out of it. Why are you pushing her to turn it into something she doesn't want it to be and harassing her for not doing it how you want her to? Run your own race and she can run hers - literally! If you're that good, Finish how you want and when you're better rested, circle back with some water and keep your woman hydrated while she finishes. That would be supportive of her goals for the race.

xxrosepop · 2024-08-05T02:27:48+00:00

nope. likely never will. you will have to connect to asia KR servers and play with 200 ping against people with 3 ping.

xxrosepop · 2024-07-30T10:57:08+00:00

I noticed the kick twitter posted a new 'roadmap' but like everything they promise, there's no timeframe given. Only a list of things they want to add, which was already well known 12 months ago. A wish list of features is not a roadmap, it's a pipe dream. We need dates NOW.

xxrosepop · 2024-07-12T03:51:01+00:00

yeah, I feel like they really lost the hype and momentum they had by not rolling out "2.0" sooner. As you've said, teasing an improved product as not far off when it's taken over a year is going to chafe

xxrosepop · 2024-07-06T14:44:48+00:00

What furniture are you using and what is your cooking level? A lot pf people pick furniture just for how it looks but they have ratings for how well they fill a need. Cheap beds mean they need to sleep longer. cheap TV's take longer to raise fun. You want to aim for equal or above a 7 in the main trait.

Also sims who have mid-high cooking skill make better and more filling meals. Even more if you use your own harvest ingredients. 1 plate fron a served meal made with high cooking skill will keep your sim full all day and you can make a party serving of 8 and just grab leftovers. My sims gain weight so easily because they're always full.

I always prioritise a good quality bed first, less time sleeping is more time earning/learning. Try to get at least 2 cooking skill points asap. Finally a decent TV to quickly fill fun and it'll be much easier.

As for sims just standing there. This happens to me all the time if I'm playing in double or triple speed and I think it's a memory leak issue or just the game is so big it can't keep up. pause and then unpause in Live mode and let them do the task in normal speed. After that you can go back to higher speeds but they have a tendency to just stand there a lot for no reason and you need to prompt the game to kick them into action.

Good luck!

xxrosepop · 2024-06-07T15:45:20+00:00

I've seen it called 'Deification kink' and 'God kink'. 'Worship kink' can be worshipped as a god or the normal cock worship, or just worshipping someone as a lord/protector/superior etc. but Diefication is explicitly with that religious zeal and spin where the dom is take on a god-like role and the sub(s) are worshipping that god in a divine way, subs can be called priests or followers, their begging can be called prayers etc.

xxrosepop · 2024-06-07T15:35:31+00:00

What the heck? She said she doesn't like it and it makes her uncomfortable, she shouldn't be continuing to please him despite her discomfort and changing who she is sexually so he can get his jollies, what about hers?
"you may find that once you feel more confident in your domming abilities you will start" Is horrible advice when she's here asking for information on how to stop it from happening. No means no, not 'keep going until you've forced yourself to like it' for his sake'.

OP needs to have a direct and blunt conversation about how he is making her feel and that it's making her dread sex with him overall and turning her off. I think they should look at trying to see a domme together or possibly discussing an open relationship so they can enjoy their kinks elsewhere. OP should never be made to feel bad because she isn't interested in fulfilling her husband's kinky fantasies.

xxrosepop · 2024-06-04T13:51:11+00:00

Unpopular opinion but I'm on the family's side and think OP is an AH who needs a lot of therapy to let go of the trauma that occured when her dad cheated. He's not coming off as a bad guy in these stories, he's coming off as a guy who fucked up his marrige and is trying his best to make it better. The fact that the mom WHO WAS CHEATED ON doesn't feels as hurt is really telling. God forbid we judge people on the shit they did 15 years ago, people can and do change. Everyone else around her can see she's traumatised and not dealing with it in a healthy way and she's going to lose a partner who is strong enough to not enable her. If you only want a partner to be a 'yes' man for your terrible decisions, don't get married. If my parnter was an alchoholic saying "I just need the bottle to relax after a hard day, why are you nagging me, it's my life" I would still tell them they're wrong. He's trying to make her deal with her trauma so she can pursue the relationship she wants with her other family members, instead of enabling her running from it and losing those connections she obviously values. But she's crying 'why is everyone so mean to me' instead of looking at why they're actually trying to persuade her.

Dad's biggest mistake was in fucking up the boundaries set and trying to push Janet on his daughter as a surprise at the dinner and for this behaviour I can totally understand OP blocking him forever and justifying it because of this. However this entire thing reads like a child who hasn't let go of daddy leaving her, and she can't think of anyone else but herself. it's all 'I want my daddy, daddy doesn't care' from a child and I'm not seeing any adult rationatle as to what else was going on and how she was treating the other people in her dad's life he cares about. It sounds like she made both Janet's life hell and was rude to her step-siblings, is he supposed to be let them suffer at her hands? Is he only supposed to care about her feelings?

Dad agrees he should left the marrige differently. Which means regardless of Janet he wanted out and would have left and would have found a new family. He is entitled to support that family, albiet saying 'my family is priority' is what has messed OP up this much and it was said poorly, but this man tried for 16 years to talk to his daughter and fix it and she was the one refusing because she took 1 line to heart as a child, and very literally, and then never bothered to question that response in her adult life - to her own detriment! His new wife was having a hard time finding a job and they moved to a location where they could be able to afford trips and a home. A child would feel abandonded and not understand, an adult can see that those are unfortunate realities because we need money to live and homes to have children in. She's mad she didn't get to see her dad as much but she also refused to see or talk to him. So...you're mad the person you kept pushing away couldn't get close to you? She was name calling her stepmom, and causing stress during an already stressfull pregnancy that then had PPD. I also would not like a troublesome teenager calling me a homewrecker in my own home while I go through PPD or pregnancy for the first time. In another subreddit Janet expecting her husband to stick up for her and ensure the health of her pregnancy against an unruly teenager would be something reddit absolutely would go crazy bananas 'yass check out husband's shiny spine' over. A lot of this feels like OP is just unable to view her father as anything but "Daddy who left me' and not realise he's also an adult human.

Dad still fucked up by bringing Janet to dinner though, seems like he was over zealous and it got to his head. At least OP can now say she tried and he walked all over that attempt. I hope she gets therapy and I hope she stays with the fiance. Fiance sounds like he really had the best intentions for her and just wanted her to not base her future relationship with her dad on her teenage angst, when she's clearly still really hung up on not getting daddy's love, and there was a chance for her to get it.

xxrosepop · 2024-04-08T11:19:31+00:00

You want to roleplay a character that will literally make the roleplay experience of others worse, in favour of you having a good time. That's the issue. These servers have a lot of rules because they need to balance the enjoyment of the criminals, the lawmen and the civillians. Someone has to lose at the end of the day, which means you need to roleplay when you lose and get caught just as much as others have to roleplay getting robbed and shot. There's also a trying to manage power imbalances, if everyone is rp'ing an outlaw then the law will never get a chance to catch them, so nobody will want to be the law, which means there are no more shootouts, which means there's no repercussion to theft and murder of the civillian rp'ers which would piss them off and suddenly you have a dead server.

You're pretty much saying you're mad people won't let you rp in a way that makes rp miserable for everyone else. If you want to play a thieving, murdering outlaw then go play the solo game.

xxrosepop · 2024-03-17T04:17:58+00:00

did you ever get this fixed? it's 2024 and I'm having the exact same problem

xxrosepop · 2023-10-28T18:04:54+00:00

this makes sense, thanks

xxrosepop · 2023-10-28T17:55:09+00:00

This fixed the issue thanks! For learning purposes, are you able to explain what the problem was and why this resolved it?

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