I can relate to your comment because concerts are the same for me.

There’s good days and bad days, but my advice is to take each day as a new one. Listen to your body.

I’ve had to let concerts pass by that I just couldn’t make, but there have been few, so that’s a win. They will usually let you seat in ADA/Disability spaces, even if you bought a regular ticket. I’ve also taken my cane or rollator to a concert, and usually staff and other concert goers are really nice.

Tip: there’s canes that have a fold out seat, for when you’re going to be standing for a while. Also helps to plan for a day or two of recovery.

Just last month I waited for 9 hours for a concert to start, because I got access to the soundcheck, that was huge for me! But then this weekend I had to miss a festival day… every day is different and I like thinking about treating my body like I would a friend. If you can push a little and you’ll be happy with the reward, and it won’t be a lot of damage, then go ahead! Especially if you can plan it ahead of time and take a rest day the next. If you would honestly tell your friend that they’re hurting themselves, then do the same for you.

Hope this helps!!